Some of both. When you have kids, especially teenagers, you need to do a little planning. "Hey, Honey, Lucy's going to the dance Sat nite, Dan will be at the game. We will be ALONE!!" That starts setting the mood on on Tuesday. Then Sat nite is time for Mom and Dad. LOL
2007-12-03 14:36:31
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answered by old beatnik 6
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if you plan something like this will Begin to make you feel as if you have to do this, witch also makes you feel as if you have too, even if you do not feel as doing so, at that time. so that will make it feel as a chore. so it is best to let the feeling come naturally. for this way you will not feel as if you need to do something you are not in the mood for. in this way everything will work out better.
2007-12-03 22:08:47
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answered by ? 6
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I don't think that it should be planned.Unless you plan on setting a mood.
2007-12-03 21:39:26
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answered by Diana S 2
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a little bit of both
2007-12-03 21:42:24
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answered by alexbrah 2
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it should be spontaneous.....unexpected!!!
2007-12-03 22:49:19
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answered by Anonymous
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