Other - Family & Relationships - 4 December 2007

Have you ever told someone you love them even simultaneously as you are breaking up with them? WHY? Is it because you want to hurt them as much as humanly possible?

2007-12-04 22:00:02 · 5 answers · asked by Sailor Rick 1

There's this girl I really like who also know how I feel about her - that I just don't like her as a friend. I can't quite know how she feels about me though. She once told me that she really doesn't know how she feels about me. She seems to at least like me somewhat though. She tells me that she doesn't really know the things she want. Her most often used expression is actually "I don't know." I asked her once if she liked me even somewhat - clarifying that I wasn't asking her if she like-liked me. She said she thinks so (not a promising answer..). Bottomline... I wanna know how she feels about me - even if she doesn't herself know. She seems to be the type of person that can't tell what they themselves want. Do you guys think she does like me the same way I like her? Any other advice to is welcome too.

2007-12-04 21:55:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently my girlfriend split up with me. We had some issues and were both partly to blame for the downturn in the relationship but in my mind it was def not a lost cause. At the time it seemed final and also propbably for the best. Naturally, I was sad and missed her a lot in the first week - but I didn't get in contact with her thinking it best to have some space. Then a week later she got in contact saying how much she missed me - in a moment of weakness I asked her if she's sure she did the right thing - and then she she changed her tact to "we need some time apart - lets see how we feel in a few months". Is it just me or is it unfair that she did that? The logical part of me says "you need to move on dude" but a part of me has the "post-breakup crazies" and still wants to hold on because I still care for her. I think I know what I need to do - guess I just need to hear it from someone who's not emotionally involved in all this.. Cheers in advance peeps:)

2007-12-04 21:18:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can someone please help me understand why after a six year relationship my fiancee tells me he does'nt love me in that way anymore and he cant tell me why. we have a son together he is 4... I just don't understand how after so many years he tells me now that his feelings have changed and he cant tell me why they have changed all he says is "i don't know" and that he is sorry i cant get any answers out of him... is there anyone out there that can perhaps just explain how a man can just fall out of love... oh and he says its not another woman.. i really dont know what to do i feel all empty inside im just numb......

2007-12-04 21:05:12 · 7 answers · asked by Jullie 1

many a man has been rejected by women in there life. but when a woman is used and rejected by men what.s the difference. are women that crazy knowing other women are more likley to end up where there decent. with a good man rather than spreading it. open like that trailer park trash. who was easy .at her age.40.s to be exact. to think a decent man wants something is known as . leftover.s she was just that asy doing it. in her own home. and scting like nothing she did was wrong toward her.man. and family. that.s degrading to every decent mother. but trailer park tash like that is sicking. to evencall a woman .those streach marks. and her flabby self thought i . was in love with her no way money she didnt have nothing but what her man workd and had she was even to lazy to cook.or. clean . degreding. as well sicking. to all

2007-12-04 21:03:11 · 2 answers · asked by matthew v 3

2007-12-04 21:01:45 · 18 answers · asked by yarisgp 4

was just wondering if it is true tht u can fall pregs from "pre sperm" does it matter wht time of the month it is, i mean 2 do with ur periods... me and this guy had sex a lot over 5days. all night n day and im just a lil worried... he came only once
plz help

2007-12-04 20:58:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-04 20:28:48 · 18 answers · asked by answers 2

IF you have a nephew or a niece that have been neglected because of a parent in need to sort out their finance?
I think she cares about her kids and she loves them to bits, she started a full time job recently and her priorities are muddled up and I don't want to be the person to say that. She ended up leaving her kids home alone (2 of them under 11) sometimes without food when she has to go to work. She clearly needs help but she takes advantage to people who helps her! I just want to help out without hurting her feelings or ego or anything for that matter but at the same time I don't want to help more so she can take advantage of me being helpful. I myself work full time and I have 3 kids. I love my nephews and I don't want them to end up with no parents at all. My brother already left them for another woman and settled out of the country. Please help me help my nephews....thanks!
Only genuine answers please.

2007-12-04 20:15:25 · 9 answers · asked by mum who cares 2

2007-12-04 20:12:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-04 17:49:56 · 3 answers · asked by kirissheela 2

I'm currently a freshman and after school today while I was talking to my friend, a guy I didn't know came behind me and smelled my hair. I didn't even notice he was there until my friend told me after he had left. He also left before I could see who he was. She said he was there for around 30 seconds and it kinda freaked me out. Now I'm worried he might have done something or put something in my hair...

Am I being paranoid or should I be worried?

2007-12-04 16:31:25 · 7 answers · asked by Julia 1

My birthday falls right in the middle of Thanksgiving and Christmas. Every year, my family and friends use this as an excuse not to help me celebrate my birthday. Although I understand it is a busy time of year, it hurts my feelings that I get put on the back burner. I cannot remember the last time I received a birthday gift. How do I get my friends and family to understand how bad I feel when they over look my birthday?

2007-12-04 16:20:08 · 18 answers · asked by foxygoldcleo 4

A Movie Theatre, a Cafe? At McDonald's, at a children's preschool, painting a house, in a bar?
Where can I smoke a cigar?

2007-12-04 15:16:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my boyfriend goes to college and for an anniversarry he got me a Teddy bear that says someone at Madison (UW-Madison) loves you. So I wanted to get him a bear from Walmart that you can get a picture printed on its seeatshirt but it might not be in on time. I really wanna find a way to still get him a bear wearing a shirt that says Someone in Oshkosh loves you... any ideas where I can get this done or how i could amke one? I thought about sewing a teddy bear sweatshirt then printing on iron on paper/......

2007-12-04 15:15:04 · 2 answers · asked by bean b 1

I am an 18 year old ugly gal who is utterly depressed right now. I am posting this thing coz I have no one here to share my innermost feelings with.My looks prevent me from meeting new people.Every time I see someone I'd like to be friends with, I start thinking I might as well not give them a nightmare by introducing myself to them.This happens especially when the person I'm wanting to be friends with is a guy. I soo wish I could look "normal".like every other girl on the street. I have no desire to look glamorous..I just want to look "normal".."presentable". I can never befriend a guy...Whenever, I see a guy I'd like to talk to, I'm reminded of how ugly I am. As a result, I find myself hiding from guys I know from school so I won't have to talk to them. When there are occasions when I do need to have a conversation with a guy, I get extremely conscious about my looks and regret even having started the conversation in the first place.To sum it up, my looks have impaired my social life

2007-12-04 15:12:42 · 8 answers · asked by gal_wid_brainz 1

So its someone I have cut off by email as they are emotionally abusive toward me. I was clear but not hurtful and they sent a card and vouchers and I got bf to open it so I wouldnt have to read it but I cannot accept these. I don't want to be nasty but they must go back. How would you do it?

2007-12-04 14:44:29 · 4 answers · asked by darkling 5

Next year, im supposed to be transferring schools. Me and (supposedly) my friend are supposed to go to this school up the street, SHS. Right now, we go to TVHS. Anyways..
We just had a basketball game against SHS at SHS campus.
Well, when we went there, we were a bit culture shocked, I felt out of my league. The guys there are SUPER HOT and i want a boyfriend so BAD cause i need that kind of affection right now. The bad news is, and how could i say this..;im about(in my case) a 5, the girls there are more 9-ish 10, so for me getting a guy there would be 0-0.
Thats not my only concern, It seems like the people at SHS are too overly confident, I can be too, it's just that this school intimidates me A LOT. If im gonna go there, i gotta learn how to like myself even MORE, that is- if looks really DONT matter.

P.S. i have to go to that school- i just moved up the street from it.

2007-12-04 14:40:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a half... and honestly, I have loved this guy since the day i met him when i was 14 years old. (I'm 19) Our personalities clash and we fight A LOT. His temper makes him say hurtful things and my temper makes me try to break up with him. He ALWAYS fought me on breaking up and did whatever he could to change my mind and make me give him yet another chance to make everything ok. Recently, we got into a heated argument and I suggested that we break up and for the first time ever, he didn't fight me on it and became this cold-hearted jerk that I don't even know anymore. I'll be honest with you, I have a pretty big pride issue and have a really hard time admitting when I'm wrong and apologizing and last night I poured my heart out and apologized for everything I've done and my mood swings. And he was being so mean and cold. And now he wants to not talk at all (except text once in a while) until the 20th to think and cool off. What now? =(

2007-12-04 14:30:27 · 18 answers · asked by Larissa 1

Claiming that this will give you rights to take the baby and will give you rights for visits and rights to see the baby whenever you like!

Please get back to my previous question for details, thank you

2007-12-04 13:52:14 · 16 answers · asked by Confused_Distracted_Guy 2

A workman once sreamed at me wiping my hands on a utility pole, said "Don't wipe it on the goddamn cord!" I thought that was realy funny so I repeated what he said all the time.
I think it might be OK, nobody really cares, but some parents get uptight about it. They tell me, "I know your Dad talks like that, but I don't want you talking like that, around here"... Oh well.

2007-12-04 12:59:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any paid surveys or something that gets me one dollar?
I need it ASAP.

2007-12-04 12:47:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you loose someone you love I gotta know.
I got the Social Security papers in the mail today telling us about the benefits because he died.
I saw him at the funeral home. That was so hard. Had to be strong for the kids.
But today in the mail those papers it seemed just as hard.

2007-12-04 12:44:29 · 12 answers · asked by run_becky 6

Why do 'mean girls' continue to exist in schools? We've all seen films like mean girls, never been kissed, shes all that etc. We all know these girls are evil cows treating everyone terribly in schools, so why are there still girls that insist on worshipping them? Why don't they on mass abandon these girls? Are/were you one of these girls? (If you were you'd probably never admit it to yourself). Which girl were/are you in school and what would you change? xx

2007-12-04 11:19:31 · 15 answers · asked by Londonbaby 3

omg she is so mean and i am like freaking out over here!!!!!!

2007-12-04 10:42:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

kids (there is 4 of them) ever since. My son is not a good daddy so he is really not an option. It seems to us that their mother should had by now had a place for all of them to live.
I was wondering if anyone here might now what we could do to get custody of the kids?

2007-12-04 10:31:29 · 6 answers · asked by reginasob 2

sometimes letting go is easy, sometimes it isn't. sometimes you need to let go just because you need time for yourself. sometimes you need to let go just to find out if you're really meant to be..if the person you are letting go would still come back..but then, you're scared that s/he won't anymore..

i just wanted to know, how will you know if someone really loves you..?and not telling any lies..?
coz if they do love you, no matter how long or when or why, they'll come back, right..?
so how will you know..?

2007-12-04 10:18:34 · 7 answers · asked by piglet :) 2

2007-12-04 10:06:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay well theere is this guy and i wasn't in school on monday and he was all like "Why isn't she here AGAIN!!" and then he looked down at his paper with a slight sad face and said "She should be here everyday" (He said this to my best friend and she told me)

but today i came into school and he didn't ask why i was gone or he didn't act like he noticed i was gone

also i was absent two weeks ago and he acted worried and asked her "where i was"

2007-12-04 09:31:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

She stays with him one week and then stays with her mom the next week. When she's with her mom, I get to sleep with him in his bed, but when she's with us, I end up sleeping in her room in her bed and she sleeps with him. Does it seem odd to anyone else but me? What can I do to sleep with him full time?

2007-12-04 09:22:33 · 10 answers · asked by someonenew 1