I am an 18 year old ugly gal who is utterly depressed right now. I am posting this thing coz I have no one here to share my innermost feelings with.My looks prevent me from meeting new people.Every time I see someone I'd like to be friends with, I start thinking I might as well not give them a nightmare by introducing myself to them.This happens especially when the person I'm wanting to be friends with is a guy. I soo wish I could look "normal".like every other girl on the street. I have no desire to look glamorous..I just want to look "normal".."presentable". I can never befriend a guy...Whenever, I see a guy I'd like to talk to, I'm reminded of how ugly I am. As a result, I find myself hiding from guys I know from school so I won't have to talk to them. When there are occasions when I do need to have a conversation with a guy, I get extremely conscious about my looks and regret even having started the conversation in the first place.To sum it up, my looks have impaired my social life
2007-12-04 15:12:42 · 8 answers · asked by gal_wid_brainz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
12 minutes ago
I posted my pics some weeks ago on yahoo answers and a number of them said I AM ugly.
9 minutes ago
How do you know I'm not ugly? You haven't even seen me!
7 minutes ago
There were several incidents that took place when i was in high school that kinda validate this. I was called "KING KONG" by most of the guys in my high school. Isn't that enough to prove that i am ugly. Prior to this, I tried to believe im beautiful but the incident totally ripped me apart.
2007-12-04 15:27:28 · update #1
But you will not be ugly to everyone you meet...
2007-12-04 15:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby Girl, you are being way to hard on your self. Beauty is what you make it. If you are down on your self and you think your ugly so will other people, but if you are confident in yourself and you tell your self you are pretty other people will feed off that and see you the same way. Also stop worrying about what others think. I am 5'7 and weigh 248. I use to be very insecure. You just have to find your strengths and stop being so negative. I did. And besides, I am sure you are very pretty. Youve just got to feel that way.Believe me, when you realize it, so will every one else!!!
2007-12-04 23:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by cher76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know that you are pretty, you need to work on the inside, loving yourself before others can see you as pretty. How you feel about yourself is very evident to others. As for what people on here have said, I'd not worry about it, most people on here just want their 15 seconds of fame and do not care who's feelings they hurt. Personally I wouldn't want to be like everyone else, be yourself. If people cannot like you for who you are, how you are then they are not worth having as friends.
2007-12-05 10:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u truly need some self esteem why dont u try to reach some of your goals in life to help you feel better about yourself,exercise read some self help books and smile and work on your inner beauty, then naturally you would automatically look beautiful on the outside and remember god doesnt make anything ugly only beauty.
2007-12-04 23:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by cocoa 4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
do you think you're the only one who's ugly?
i bet you have a lot of friends
I have no one to share my thoughts with, or talk to
and when i do, they're backstabbing me.
see, i have this group/gank whatever
that's like popular. and their parents, are really close to mine
whenever we [girls/boys] hang out together
they tried to avoid me, and they only talked to me
bc they pitied me.
i feel like i'm the "ugly friend who doesn't belong" in the crowd.
i have no boyfriend, and the girls are all do.
Then i start avoiding them, bc it's better that way.
i think they feel happy. Like now, they didn't care about me.
they have secrets, insider joke, that they didn't wanna share with me.
and whenever i have one, they forced me to tell, and even make fun of me.
i just wanna move out of this place
ps: about 2 weeks ago, this girl even told me, that she doesn't like me, bc of the way i dress. She said it's out of style, childish, and not branded. She just kept laughing on having a flashback on how pathetic i was.
And i still feel ugly, like why the hell am i here??
you're not the only one.
2007-12-06 16:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by coffee_latte02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what u need to do.
you need to build up your confidence. im sure you look fine. everyone goes thru some kind of stage like that.
every morning when u wake up. look at yourself in the mirror and say good positive things about yourself.
like
"im very beautiful"
"im very happy"
"im sexy"
something that builds up your confidence...i learned this in physchology. and do that every morning when u wake up and every night when u go to bed. it really helps.
and also. looks really dont matter....its really the personality. and im sure your not ugly.
just do what i said and im sure you'll feel a differance.
2007-12-04 23:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look you are not ugly you are just self consious. guys are not that shallow ........ok some are. Trust me you will find someone.
2007-12-04 23:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by gabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here my email address if u want to get to know a great friend!! efrain78223@yahoo.com
2007-12-04 23:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋