I am currently in a long distance relationship (not really long, we live an hour and a half away from each other) and we currently see each other around twice a month and talk and text everyday. Now, I love my boyfriend, I really do. So I wanna try to make it work, but he works alot and I participate in a lot of stuff after school. Do you think we see each other enough? Is it ok for him to talk to other girls on the phone? I asked him to erase all his old girlfriends number out his phone. Was I wrong? Should he do it? I found out about him talking to other girls twice. Should I have not got back together with him? Thanks for your help.
2007-12-02 08:30:30 · 10 answers · asked by JustWondering 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your not the only girl he is seeing, I'm sure he loves having you an hour away that way all he has to do is call you to make sure your weir he needs you to be.
2007-12-02 08:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by mcdonaldsnuggetaustin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're right. It's not abnormal at all to want to be exclusive in your relationship, if he is talking to old girlfriends it might only be because they are still friends, but that does see odd... Give him another chance and tell him how you fell and that you worry with the distance and how much you miss each other. If you have any ex's you still talk to then you should be allowed to do that and so should he, so long as it's nothing more than friendship. As for the distance? sometimes these relationships work out, make sure that you both find time to get together as often as you can, do fun things and cherish every second you're together.
2007-12-02 16:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by *Julia* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are really difficult. I believe that if they are meant to work out they will. You can't force the issue though. talking to other girls is normal. Unless he is still fishing. If not, you are showing your immaturity by asking him to do what you are asking. You must have some level of trust, even in a long distance relationship. I'll give you a short story that will maybe make you feel better. My daughter met a guy on the internet. Well, being a father I thought must be some kind of pyscho or something. They talked alot online and they both had web cams. To make a long story short, after about a year or so, the guy asked her to come to visit him for a couple of weeks. I was very leary.... So I talked to the guy myself. He seemed ok, so i got all this information from him, like phone numbers, parents names and such. My daughter then left on a 2,500 mile bus ride to meet this guy in person. The rest is history. They got together, moved back to our home and got married about 6 months later. they have been married about 9 months now and everything seems to be going ok. Like I said earlier, if it is meant to be, it will hapen. have faith in yourself. Trust that the guy is sincere, if that is what you truly believe in your heart, and maybe the rest will be history for you as well.
Hope this helps. GOOD luck in your relationship.
2007-12-02 16:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by deadheadweir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this do u ahve guy freinds? I am sure you do n im sure he has freinds taht are just girls its ok for him to talk to girls. If u rele love him you should trust him not to hurt u or cheat on u in any way. I dont think long relationhsips work but if tehy work for u then tahst great :)
2007-12-02 16:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard of the saying "while the cats away the mice will play?"
I don't recommend long distance relationships for the exact reasons you mentioned above. Good luck.
2007-12-02 16:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to have faith and trust in your man, he might be talking to childhood friends, where no love connection is related. You did the right thing by getting back with him, just be patience.
2007-12-02 16:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're showing a lack of trust and indecision. This is not good. You have to to sit down and think through this relationship.
2007-12-02 16:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont push him into doing things he really doesnt wanna do becuz that could harm your relationship !!but you should see him more often !
2007-12-02 16:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by ¸.•*´`*♥To0DaMnFaBuL0uS♥*´`*•.¸ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have long fingernails?
Do you claw into his back?
Does he like it?
Are you in prison?
Are you being released soon?
2007-12-02 16:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please stay in school!!! you need it. because you asked those questions, it tells me that you are not wise enough to understand what you are doing at this time in your life. keep maturing and growing to learn more of what life has to offer you. please stay in school!!!!!!!!
2007-12-02 16:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by susta1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋