I'm expecting my first experience relatively soon. Anything I should know/ be prepared for? Thanks for the help-- i'm pretty damn nervous, although I hate to admit it.
2007-12-02 15:33:12 · 7 answers · asked by AH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm a 21 year old guy who's been in a lot of sexually relationships and unfortunately I wish I would of waited until I found someone that I really loved. Hopefully in your case you've found someone true to you. Speaking man-to-man a women likes it when you rub there clitoris. This maybe a little awkward but a clitoris is very hard to describe but it is located on the vagina. if you what more info you're gonna have to look it up. If she likes it I'm sure your going to like it to. Depending on the women the "pace" of sex maybe fast or slow try to learn from what she does to you when shes in control then resemble the same pace. I really don't what to get way to much into detail but you'll be just fine.
P.S. Remember sex is not just about you're penis in her vagina it's about the joy and passion of making love while touching, kissing and foreplay.
2007-12-02 15:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by onelightning 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep a few things to be prepared for
Are you ready to be a parent? No matter how careful you are there is no 100% way you can prevent pregnancy. I know scary thought. You may think that won't happen to me it could it has happened to lots of people and it can happen the very first time.
One nite of passion can turn into a lifetime of responsibility. Then there is the issue of disease the only way you can make sure somebody is really clean of any disease it to get them tested and stay with them 24/7 to make sure they are not engaging in any harmful activity.
I hate to be the spoil sport but if you are going to make adult choices know the facts all of them.
There is nothing in the world wrong with staying a virgin until you are married then you will have a committed partner who will be there to support you in anything that happens.
You do not have to share with your friends any personal information like about your sex life it is none of their business just tell anyone who ask that you do not discuss you personal life and they will back off.
Please do not get pressured into something you are not to sure about you have plenty of time for sex after you are married I promise.
2007-12-02 23:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by mdjgirl7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about being nervous EVERYBODY is nervous as they should be there is alot of risk and responsibility involved with having sex. If your old enough to have sex your old enough to know the consequences right? Babies STD's. Ok then ask your partner what feels good. Tell them when you like it it might be embarrassin at first but it will lead to a better first time. Dont rush things take your time. My husband says to masterbate before you go over there so you dont go so fast. If you haven't done oral you should before you actually do the do. hope this helps
2007-12-02 23:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by n.s. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are married. One night of sex can ruin your entire life. Sex is a precious experience that should be shared between a husband and wifel.
You won't regret waiting. You can offer your husband/wife purity on your wedding night. Do not do it!
2007-12-02 23:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by latietee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow and practice practice parctice.
2007-12-02 23:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too! ill be cheking back here haha. =)
2007-12-02 23:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by autumn x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch some soft porn, lol monkey see monkey do...
2007-12-02 23:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by GodSmack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋