should i break up w. him ? ? Torn ! tried to make a long story short .?

Question

everyhting is telling me to do it, but i love him so much .

he didnt cheat on me .
he's a good guy. it's just continuous bullshit .
i believe in compromise & communication for a relationship to work well .
and weve been lacking that really bad on & off .
weve been together 9 months, & through those mnths, have been through a lot of ups & downs .
there was a point in the beg. of our relationship when i didnt get to see him 4 2 months .
+ we live so far away from each other .
i didnt like that, & my friends werent the best supporters, so they kept encouraging me to breakup .
so i told him i wanted to breakup...but in my heart i didnt want to, i even cried over the phone while i was doing it .
he convinced me to stay w. him .
things have gotten stronger .
but yet, our relationship lately has been weaker...due to the lack of trying to connect . i jus feel he has taken me for granted .

i dont want to have to breakup w. him AGAIN .
but i hate going up & down constantly .

i honestly dont know what to do, & i know im gonna be crying my eyes out if i go through w. this .

BEING IN <3 SUCKS .

Answer 1

Try this, talk to God have a real heart to heart with him see what happens. Then talk to your boyfriend about the answer (whatever it maybe). Try doing it when your clam and clear. remeber God loves you and wants what is best for you.

Answer 2

You should let him read this post. You don't have to break up with him, just be honest and let know how you feel.

No one knows everthing about the relationship, but the people in the relationship.

Answer 3

Tell him that lately you are feeling neglected. If he loves you, he will try to change that.

Answer 4

you need to talk to him.
id he really loves you he will change and make this work out.