Ok I am 21 and I WAS talking to this 35 yr old marrid man... yes I know it was wrong so you dont have to give me the lecture. Well we met at the gym cuz we both play racquetball. We talked on the phone and did some stuff for about 2 weeks until his wife started to find out and started following him everywhere he goes now. Well he told me that HE CAN NOT TALK TO ME ANYMORE b/c he didn't want his wife to find out and everything and so we stopped talking altogether. Well Monday I went up to the gym to play racquetball and he was up there playing with his friends and I caught him looking at me quite a few times when he thought I was looking away or something. His friends were also STARING AT ME like he told them something false about me, like a rumor!!! I dont understand what this means or why he would still even look at me???? I am just wondering, thats all... im not trying to pursue him. Guys... can you answer this please?
2007-12-05 16:54:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He problem did not not tell his friend any thing false about you, but he was problem bragging about going to bad with a young thing like you and you wanted more and so he had to let you go, that;'s how older men talk about younger girls, especially when they have to break thing off.
2007-12-05 19:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get my lecture OUTSIDE the age gap, you have problems despite that with this relaitonship. For one, you got sexual to quickly, two, this guy didn't have to do much but be there to get it, and three you don't understand why he still stares at you. So basically you don't really understand how relationships sould work, so really what do you understand about dating older man? I bet you just think people think its gross or something. The fact is, its just shows how dumb you are, no offense, its the truth, what did you expect from him really? Is the only thing that confuses you is that he still stares at you, would mean, quite frankly, you don't know what your worth, so you get a KICK out of ANYONE showing ANYTHING, thats even close to attention towards you, I'd work on that...... lol, you thought it was only the age gap, MUUAHAHAHAH! but really, you just got used, quite frankly, I hope that was your desire to, if it was, then hey you got yours, let him stare, what do you care?
2007-12-06 15:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋