Other - Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

than from the man who supposedly loves me and (his words)will never stray from me.yet we are not married because i am good at picking up the left over pieces from two bitter divorces from his previous lives.this is the fifth christmas we have been together and i can not go through another christmas of will you marry me with yet another ring and then he takes them away from me on valentines day?why is he doing this to me?why wont he set a date?i feel like i am a playdate!

2007-12-05 12:41:00 · 4 answers · asked by CHER 6

My boyfriend is really nice, but I can't help his attitude to always try to get back at me.. for little things that do not really matter. For instance if I say that a guy with his shurt off looks good, he will start talking about how hot a girl looks. If I change my profile picture to be of just me, instead of the of us, he does the same. If write, or talk to some of my guy friends, he tries to write to some of his female friends. And it's never been really huge.. but it's kind of frustarating.
What should I do? I tried to bring it up, but he keeps denying that he is doing it. It's getting frustarated. Should I be worried that this might lead to bigger relathionship issues? Thanks.

2007-12-05 12:32:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

that you would go to any extreme to get it?

2007-12-05 12:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by CHER 6

but is there ever an easy way out?i need to have happiness in my life and i do not see any in my future with my mate after four years.i am tired of false hopes and broken promises.i do not really feel loved or respected as his woman and it hurts like H3ll.i love him so much but i know i will never be the queen of his castle.he has his princess daughter to rule over his reign and she's only 11.can anybody help me with my dilemma?
serious answers only,i can't bear to hear any smart aleck remarks.thank you.i need to be discreet please.please honor my request.i am seriously hurting from this .i am ready to crack up.

2007-12-05 12:04:29 · 8 answers · asked by CHER 6

If your husband asked you to SPANK him, as if he was a naughty child... would you? ...or would you call him The-worlds-worst-pervert? ...or possibly just laugh...?

2007-12-05 11:51:41 · 38 answers · asked by Elizabeth S 1

Long story short...I waited for him for 9 years (my fault). The last straw was when he had a baby with a new girlfriend. I changed my number and didn't speak to him for 3 years until he showed up on my doorstep a few months ago.
Now after 2 KIDS, he wants to break up with the children's mother and he won't stop calling.
I keep asking him OVER AND OVER what he wants from me and he says "he just wants to be friends".
What's really going on? GUYS HELP!!!!

2007-12-05 11:46:54 · 6 answers · asked by CK 4

i was wondering why it takes longer than it should to discontinue the same wrong actions even though it gets us in trouble everytime? Like why do people get in trouble for the same action over and over again and it take so long to realize maybe i should stop?

2007-12-05 11:41:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a sister-in-law who's son likes to bite, hit, kick at my son (who is only 5 months old). Her son is a year old and I understand that he doesn't realize that it hurts when he does those things. So I bring it to her attention and she always get mad at me for bringing it up. I do it in a polite way but it keeps happening and she just turns her head like nothing is wrong. My husband has even gotten into HUGE arguements with his sister over this and she just says, "Your son will do the same thing." I explain to her that yes he will go through the same stage, but I will try to correct it. She could at least try to discipline him. He's a very smart kid, she doesn't give him enough credit, so I think he would understand that it's wrong if she would just teach him. If one of us try to intervene when he is doing this she yells at us. I have tried just breaking off contact, but we get yelled at by other family members for being 'mean'. I don't know what to do!

2007-12-05 11:30:54 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3

I walk home from the bus stop, and there's this creepy guy who lives near me. I fear that when I get to the top of the steps, he'll be there waiting for me. What do I do?!?!


PS: I don't want to worry my mom to death, So that's why I haven't told her yet. But I'm afraid that if I don't tell her, one day it might be too late..

2007-12-05 11:21:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If someone raped your daughter, like between the age of 12-15 what would you do to the man who did it to her?

2007-12-05 10:55:09 · 22 answers · asked by Melony C 1

My boyfriend best friend killed himself this past week and I am really not sad about it. He was a drug addict who liked to try and make everyone as miserable as he was. He told me once that he wanted the whole town to shoot dope like he did so they could all enjoy it. Since me and my honey have sobered up the only time we have seen them ( the friend and his wife) is to try and get us to do **** or try and get my honey to commit fraud by saying the guuy worked for him. We have a house and kids and our lives had changed. I try to be sad for my honey as they were best friends growing up but as everyone is telling me how great this guy was all I see and remember are the terrible things he did and said to everyone. I honestly think maybe he will finally be happy and at peace so I believ it is for the best. Yes he was too young but the life he was leading was hell. Am I terrible for not feeling bad?

2007-12-05 10:42:34 · 37 answers · asked by Kookie M 5

2007-12-05 09:53:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

tonight

2007-12-05 09:38:53 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont understand why my boyfriend is so mean. Like today I asked him to come over and he didnt because he said he would be bored. Then he waits untill 5 minutes untill he has to go to work and calls me to see if i will take him i said no im sorry but you didnt come over today so ask you mom and his mom was home ( he only lives 5 houses down) So he walked to my house and said please take me i started to take him when we got into the car he started blaming me for dressing up for somone else (he always does it) Well once i droped him off at his work right before he got out he said *itch and shut the door i dont want to leave him i just want to know why he does it we have been togeahter for 4 years and we have a 1 year old so it wouldnt be easy i need some help please.

2007-12-05 09:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guy and I went out of town for Thanksgiving vacation. He had an attitude so bad that I was ready to leave. I didnt want to argue around his mom. So I left and went back to Atlanta. I miss him so much and I keep asking him when is he coming back. He keep telling me I should not have left him I would be with him and to stop rushing him away from his mom. So this time he tells me he see us not going anywhere because I always leave him. What should I do??? Does he really not want to be with me???

2007-12-05 08:58:29 · 25 answers · asked by perfectanjyl22 2

There are so many problems in my house, I don't have time to name them but, I I want to move out...what do I need to do once I live on my own, I'm not completely clueless I know it's going to be hard supporting my self but what should I do, are teens allowed to rent apartments. what can I do and what shhouldnt I do


please no bad remarks I just need an answer

2007-12-05 08:56:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

how could people on a fix income or just plain poor people afford to go christmas shopping when thing or so high to me the holiday are made for the rich not for the poor where do they get the money from ?to go shopping. they have bills to pay do they skip paying a bill ? I'm on a fix income I dont have a christmas tree are gifts for my kids are my self thing are to high I paid my rent and buy food that it . I wish i could go Christmas shopping and my bills or paid. how do they do it? I would love to go christmas shopping I just dont hve the money

2007-12-05 08:33:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sister died.....my heart is broken..and i know i will never get over it.but how do i go on?i cry every ten minutes!she was my only sister she died in a car crash and she was 17!!!help plz cuz i need it...it just happened a week ago.i feel empty

2007-12-05 08:32:39 · 39 answers · asked by Rakeesha S 2

what do you do for a living... and would you like to change it??....or do you have your dream job??

2007-12-05 08:18:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 08:11:42 · 24 answers · asked by BT_HMS is my messenger id 4

far around the globe we are spread

2007-12-05 08:09:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-05 07:49:42 · 7 answers · asked by jyuma13 1

My Family is trying to seperate me and my fiance... they talk sh** about him everyday... Yes in the beginning of the relationship he wouldn't let me have any privelages but that's because I cheated on him and lied to him... I think I deserve what I got... People just don't understand that he didn't get controlling or abusive (not like hitting me or anything) just because it was because I was unfaithful... I Love him and I will never make those mistakes again... They keep sayin we'll never make it and he's an as*H*** and I don't deserve someone like him.. our relationship is perfect we haven't had a fight in so long as he finally trusts me and loves me and he's not being controlling anymore... Who is right? me or the people?? I think after cheating and lying i think i deserved the way he treated me after that... tell me what to do because everyone is spreading rumors tryin to split us up and ruin our plans.. i'm 7 months pregnant and we're getting married..please help

2007-12-05 07:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to hire someone to write a biography of my grandparents to give to all the grandkids and great grand children as a gift. Any suggestions how I would go about doing this? It would be in the Sacramento, CA area if you have a referral.... Thank you.

2007-12-05 07:42:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's like 29 now. This is my mom's 6th or 7th marrige, and we all hate him. He's from Ecquador and he's living under a false name. He's working under that name too, and he switches back and forth between a couple of names to avoid his past criminal charges coming to light.
He mistreats my grandmother and he doesn't treat my mom right either.
She says she's going to get rid of him, and she has a violence restraing order on him, so he can't do anything. He's hanging on a thin string by living here.
He wants to get rid of me and my grandma.
I've only just turned 17.
Is there anything I could do?
I'm willing to do just about anything to get rid of him.
Please help.

2007-12-05 07:39:17 · 7 answers · asked by Dr. C∂ƒƒee £ips :} 4

There's this one guy, his really nice but he's annoying. He sits with me during our 20 minute break, in between classes, and talks to me all through last hour, and sometimes even at lunch. How do I tell him that I would rather just sit with my friends at lunch and break without being mean or too harsh?

2007-12-05 07:29:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and best friend of 12 years told me this weekend he needs to let me go. Not much reasoning behind it he feels he is not giving me what I deserve in a relationship. He is my best friend and I am totally devastated and heartbroken, We have 3 kids 1 of which is his (she is 9) and they are soo close she is his little mini me,,,they will absolutely crush her she is very sensitive and easily cries over anything. I know there isnt anyone else I know he would be going to a family members house to stay for now. I almost feel he needs a break more then a break up,,,I do everything for him he really has no idea the amount of stuff I do for this family on a daily basis. I am throwing up and havent really eaten anything in 4 days..he wants to stay until Christmas before he leaves. What the hell do I do?? I feel like a part of me is dying so please no nasty comments : (

2007-12-05 07:17:58 · 9 answers · asked by neicey800 2

I want to get her something memorable...something very special that she can keep forever to mark the occasion. Any suggestions...she's my #1 girl and I want her to know that!!!

2007-12-05 06:54:19 · 7 answers · asked by LolaCorolla 7

one of the main reasons i left my ex was because he doesn't help out around the house, we have a 6 mo. old daughter together...because he isn't doing anything besides helping with rent, i want to kick him out because i refuse to clean up after him and his friends while he sits there on his fat *** and watches tv!...theres one problem though...his name is on the lease!...how do you kick someone out if their name is on the lease too?

2007-12-05 06:53:14 · 7 answers · asked by Sydney 2

I was walking upstairs in my house to go to the bathroom and my younger sisters boyfriend who is 22 was up there playing with the dog. So when i got to the top of the stairs he was on the ground sitting with his legs out in front of him, but he had baggy shorts on and his penis was sticking out of the leg opening and it was very visible and i have to add it was huge, i mean i didnt even know they could get that big. It was out of his shorts about 2 inches right by his knee but you could almost see the whole thing right up his leg because of the wide leg opening do you think he was showing off and doing it in purpose to try to get my attention or do you think it was a accident because i would think he would be able to feel it outside his shorts. If he did it on purpose im going to be very uncomfortable around him, hopefully it was a accident.

2007-12-05 06:25:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous