would you spank your husband?

Question

If your husband asked you to SPANK him, as if he was a naughty child... would you? ...or would you call him The-worlds-worst-pervert? ...or possibly just laugh...?

Answer 1

Like most 'bedroom' activities, taken out of context they don't seem fun or sexy at all...

Think of something You'd quite fancy - then try talking about it to someone else matter of factly...

You could get a lot of fun out of this if you wanted - but you need to be able to 'play games' and a lot of adults have forgotten how to do this, or are shy.

Why not scold him for not washing up / loading the dishwasher / putting out the rubbish / anything else you'd like...
make him do it, then promise him a spanking when you go to bed...

You don't have to lay it too thickly, just have fun with it!

And you can use the play time to get hime to do things you might like him to ... what about a LOT of oral sex?

spank gently at first, but keep going and see how RED you can get those cheeks?

I love playing these kind of games with my girlfriend - but you have to keep it FUN and CONSENSUAL


I hop you try it, and I hope you enjoy it, But remember, it has to be fun for you too -
If it's not, don't do it. plain and simple.

good luck - it takes courage to share this kind of intimacy with a partner

emma

Answer 2

Absolutely. Not only would I, I did.

My ex liked it. A lot. Not as a behaviour modification or serious Femdom thing; it was foreplay. It didn't cause me to lose respect for him in the least; it was a bedroom thing, and it had nothing to do with the rest of our lives together.

To be fair, he spanked me too. Playfully and erotically, and far more often than I did him. It didn't turn me on to do it, but it didn't repulse me either. I have hard limits, but that isn't one of them. So why not?

Do a little googling. You are free to say no, of course. But I hope you'll at least consider it. Alas...there are many adult spanking enthusiasts that step outside of their marriages to get their needs met.

My husband had never considered it either, when I asked him to spank me. It took me years to work up the courage to ask, and I was terrified that he'd think I was sick or a freak. Since he viewed it as too minor a thing to risk causing a rift over, he was open to trying it out.

Several years later, he enjoys it as much as I do. He now happily says that the fact that I'm 'a pervert' (my words, not his) is one of the things he likes best about me.

We're surrounded by couples who have grown apathetic towards each other. We're still tearing each other's clothes off, twenty years in. :)

If it truly repulses you, fair enough. But don't dismiss the power of fulfilling someone's fantasy. Not only does it turbo-charge your sex life, the increased intimacy it brings is a reward all its own.

Answer 3

I'm not a woman, but I'd happily spank my wife/gf/SO if she asked. Wait, she has, and I do. I guess it's not theoretical in my case. ;)

I would hope, though, that most women would at least consider what's being asked for, as it probably took a lot of bravery to even ask for such a thing. Personally, I recommend that anyone into spanking or BDSM play, or any kinky activity, try to meet someone on a site dedicated to that kind of play and build a relationship, rather than trying to find a "normal" person and hope that you can talk them into it. You usually can't.

Answer 4

I'd spank him in a heart beat, but with a spoon, or belt or something that didn't hurt my hand....and go on for as long as my arm held out...maybe with a spoon. Then I'd think of everything he ever did wrong and give him a couple smacks for that too...it may be good therapy. Well and if he really hated it...he may never ask again, or be hooked for life. You can never tell with kinks.

Answer 5

I have all ready spanked him on occasion for a type of foreplay before sexually intercourse.

And he has also spanked me as foreplay before making love.

He has also spanked me about 4 times because I was a naughty naughty girl and I deserved all of them on my bare bum.

Laurey.
e mail address- laureyjoyallman

Thanks

Answer 6

It depends on the relationship you have with him. It does not make him a pervert for asking you that. It never hurt to try something first. I know I have tried things (sexually) a few times that when I first was approached with them I was like I don't know but after I tried I enjoyed it. You will never know what you enjoy and don't enjoy until you try. It helps to keep your sexual relationship interesting. I know there was a time that I was so bored with the sex after 4 years of the same old same old. I was ready to spice it up a lil bit. Maybe that is how he is feeling. Don't know but I would try and if didn't like I would tell him and then maybe suggest something I wanna try. LOL

Answer 7

Is he spanking you or the other way around? You need to get one of those college hazing paddles. Have fun, just don't spank too hard!

Answer 8

Trust me, there are worse fetishes that your husband can have than wanting to be spanked.

Playful spanking is much the same as playful biting. The sensations of pleasure and *slight* pain can be an exhilarating experience.

Cheers

Answer 9

Elizabeth I think deep down you really want a good spanking. Now have you been a bad girl?

In other words .... just go for it.

Answer 10

Seriously? I would totally do it to a guy I was just having sex with.

Call me a hypocrite or repressed, but don't know if I could get into that sort of thing w/my fiance. Depending on how far it went, I would be afraid that I would have a problem w/respecting him. I don't know ~ I would certainly try it. Who knows? maybe I would like it, too. I just wouldn't be very comfortable w/it at first.