Other - Family & Relationships - 25 October 2007

I see life as a challenge you know, sort of a game. So do you think you'll win this game? Thanks

2007-10-25 22:00:56 · 16 answers · asked by †100% Angel† 6

She is 20, Im 19, we went out for about 6 months, and we broke up 6 months ago, but we had sex after that, but no that much, then I moved away, n just seen her when I go visit back, but havent really talked about us, n stuff, just party. We broke up because she used to flirt n stuff, lie, we damn, so many fights, so we saw it wasnt gonna work, but I still love her, its just that I have a big STOP in my hearth not to be around her, n stuff. She is a lot in me moving away, the biggest reason probably.. anyway, since I left, she had seen other guys that i know, had sex with some, ive heard, n stuff, well anyway the thing is I still care when I hear those things, n i still want her to be successful n i care about her a lot.. Most of the things I do, I think what would she say about that, n stuff, its crazy. Is it ever going away ? or ? :P a new girl doesnt really work.. i just cant be real with them n stuff, n i compare her to them...

2007-10-25 19:27:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

makes plenty of money, and he doesn't really want me to work which is fine with me because I have never really had a good work ethic about me. (Please don't criticize me about that!)

I just sometimes feel useless, and really bored. My typical day goes like this-
I get up anywhere from 9AM-11AM. Usually when I get up I watch the news and check my email and stuff. Then my husband comes home for lunch from 12-12:30. Then after he leaves I usually do my chores like washing clothes, dishes, etc. A few days a week some of my girlfriends will come hang out with me and we will just hang out and talk or go shopping and run errands. I am always home by 5PM when my husband gets here and we usually talk for a while and then go out to dinner (I am a sorry cook, and don't really care to learn how to either). After that we come home and watch tv and hang out. Then he goes to bed because he has to leave for work early in the mornings. So I tuck him into bed and then play on the net or watch tv...

2007-10-25 19:20:19 · 19 answers · asked by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4

I m jst married and completed 10 months. I hv no issue with my husband as i m totally satisfied with him. But my problem is my parents in law. They are good in nature but still they are creating problems in my life. We 4 people stay in very small 1 room and in that fly also, for small things, my mother in law get upset do not talk to me for 4-4 days. I say if i m mistaking anywhere she/ he should tell me directly, but they dont. they tell the same things to my husband... and he dont say anything to them because they are very emotional & gets hurted very soon. She dont give me work, whilist i say her give me a work. I am ready to hard work, bt she dont give me & she tells everyone that i dont work, behind me...which is wrong according to me. when i came to know she tells such behind me, i have started working independetly. But still she comes in between, doesnt allow me to work. If i tell to hubby, he dont react & jst say do whatever u wan. & many other pblms, cant specify pls suggest

2007-10-25 17:28:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

yet then all hell broke loose i heard people screaming what i take and ect...... my ques is i am so made at my boyfriend for calling medics and him giving me cpr till they came.For once i felt nothing!!did'nt know if i was sleeping ,dead whatever i felt nothing in my head or body and that was serenity for me,know i am back to my same miserable self!!!!!! What do i do????????

2007-10-25 17:06:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it just me or are there other people on here that like to read questions and answer good ones but all the questions are from middle and high school kids wondering if someone thinks they are hot or not?
is it just me?
can i get some adult feed back here?

2007-10-25 17:05:10 · 18 answers · asked by neverlie 3

He also pays child support to the mother, but his daughter stays with him. What chances does he have to get custody of his daughter?

2007-10-25 16:04:40 · 5 answers · asked by rogers4516 2

I knew my boyfriend loved to drink before we got together, but that's your typical army guy. He's been out of the army for a year now, but continously drinks. He's never mean, he's actullay more lovey-dovey when he drinks, never hit me. Why does it bother me so much? I don't drink that often, once in a blue moon because its just something I don't like to do that often. He doesn't drink to get drunk, but he will drink 3 or more mixed drinks a night & I know he's bigger than me & it takes a lot more for him to get drunk than me, but it bothers me. Can anyone tell me why I let it bother me so much? I've confronted him a few times about his drinking problem & he says he'll cut back & does for a few days, then it starts up again. I feel like I'm nagging him. I don't know what to do; He never hurts me & is never mean to me.He did drugs & everything before the army & now all he does is drink. I feel like a nagging girlfriend.

2007-10-25 15:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

elaborate please.

2007-10-25 14:51:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a female who left a unhappy relationship with another female to spark up old flames with my exgirlfriend.

2007-10-25 14:02:40 · 7 answers · asked by NIkki 1

Mine is that

I like to dance nude in front of my mirror, and lip sing to
favorite songs....

2007-10-25 13:36:13 · 9 answers · asked by Mindi 2

Thanks. Be safe and come home soon.

2007-10-25 11:02:58 · 5 answers · asked by . 4

irritating wouldn't even describe it but there are children on the website! She is obsessed about herself and keeps saying she is ugly (she is so I can't tell her she isn't) she keeps saying I'm much prettier then her and she needs male attention and she's lonely and she is behind on her work and all guys are players and I flrit with any guy she meets (I don't flirt with them they always try it on with me).
She is never happy,always talking about herself,always complaining and it is so annoying and giving me a headache.She doesn't in reality have anything to be sad about,she needs to be happy with what she has and make steps to improve her current situation (no matter how often I tell her this she won't listen.)She gets annoyed because I prefer to wash my dishes at the end of the day and not stragiht away.She plays Asian music all day long until 3 am!!!! She has me so annoyed I want to pull my hair out.I've lost hope with changing her but what can I do to make my life more bearable?

2007-10-25 10:27:22 · 4 answers · asked by jacinta 1

2007-10-25 09:26:54 · 25 answers · asked by LEO JOHN l 1

For example I have heard a few people say that both partners have agreed not to make new friends because they shouldn't have a reason to go out looking for more fulfillment. I think this is a huge load of crap. My boyfriend and I are very social and have a large circle of mutual friends. His friends become my friends and vice versa. We have been together almost 2 years and we absolutely could not be happier.
So where does this issue come from? Is it insecurity? Or is it because you like to control someone? If you think a simple thing as making a new friend will lead to that person cheating, then you are with the wrong person. You are telling them in a roundabout way that you do not trust them. If you don't have trust, you have nothing.

2007-10-25 09:00:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

should u let go of the friendship or continue until an issue occurs

2007-10-25 08:56:54 · 1 answers · asked by anGee B. x33 1

my maid of honor in my wedding. we get along well she just lives where my parents moved from which is 1 1/2 hurs away. we don't speak on the phone to each other or nothing but she is my mothers sister

2007-10-25 08:51:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

He still lives with me because he's in school and doesn't have family where we're at. He suppose to be moving once he's gets a part time job. I don't know when that will be... I love him but i cant stand anyone who to lies to me especially if i'm the one taking care of you. You know what i mean?????

2007-10-25 08:50:26 · 13 answers · asked by irishpr 2

Well i known this guy for 8 months we were friends for the first 2 months and then we started to go out, well he has another girlfriend and i have another boyfriend...at first when we started to go out we decided to be just for fun but not get serious, well a month after he told me that he had strong feelings for me and that he loved me, i didnt loved him at that time but i told him that i loved him aswell, but then like a week later i started to have feelings for him and well now im crazy about him we have slept together and he is always telling me that he loves me i tell him that aswell, he also gets so jelous when i talk about my boyfriend or when i tell him that i been hanging out with boys, he asks me alot of questions when i mention boys...i havent told him but, im so jelous that he has another gf and that he knew her first than me it botheres me alot, but i cannot say anything because i got a bf too and i know he might be in the same position as me...

2007-10-25 08:47:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

and no longer give effort to ask you why... what does it mean?

2007-10-25 08:10:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

when my husband and i first met my sis said that he tried to hit on her.i asked him if it was true?he said it was not.she said it was.so now almost 7 years later it is still a question that i ask myself .IS IT TRUE OR NOT.I NEED Advice!HELP!

2007-10-25 08:06:19 · 16 answers · asked by memoriez2005 1

Now I know that cheating has been around since the dawn of mankind. It will never go away. I KNOW THAT! Its just more talked about now. I know. But for the sake of a conversation. . .

Do you feel that cheating has become as big of a problem we're always hearing about? Do you feel that people are really stepping out on their spouses and partners more now?

And do you think that those who do. . . even really care?

2007-10-25 07:51:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do night fill in a supermarket 2 nights a week, Ive worked there for 7 yrs now. The boss went away this week and left me in charge, the only problem is that im the youngest there (22). One woman is new and doesnt like me explaining anything to her, I think it is the age thing. Anyways, 3 times tonight someone tryed to break into the centre by breaking the glass, when it was nearly home time about 4 of them lifted up the rollar door of the shop to go have a look at the glass,I asked them all to come inside so I could close off that area because it was unsafe and the people could have still been out there and I didnt want them getting into the shop. She gave me a dirty look and started saying she was worried about her car, wich was parked around the other side of the centre no where near the broken window. Would you have said the same to keep everyone and the shop safe in you were left in charge? Would you have a problem with someone younger that you being in charge for the night?

2007-10-25 07:46:32 · 4 answers · asked by Kenny K 4

I am pretty sure my husband is an "online cheater" But, he knows how to delete everything in the computer, so how the heck do i catch him? any ideas are greatly appreciated!

2007-10-25 07:44:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 15 and my boyfriend is 17, and lives in a different city than me.the thing is that my mom won't let me have a boyfriend. she says im to young to have a bpyfriend.i feel that she still sees me like a 9 year old girl.so i don't know how to tell her.

2007-10-25 07:13:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

With your significant other? With you parents? Etc...

2007-10-25 06:44:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I moved across the country 4 months ago for his job. Last week, he attacked me (for the first time) and was arrested for domestic assault. I immediately moved everything out of our house, have not been contacted by him, and will not be going back to "fix" our relationship.

I have a great job here, but we live in a small town and I don't have any real friends here yet. I have been avoiding going out and have trouble sleeping because I am worried he will find me and try to hurt me again. There is a possibility he will lose his job if he is found guilty in court, which could make him even angrier.

My family and close friends are afraid for my safety and are begging me to leave town My commitment to my boss/career is the only thing keeping me here. I feel very overwhelmed and alone. I need an objective perspective--is it too extreme to quit my job and move away after only a few months to feel "safe" and be closer to loved ones?

2007-10-25 06:29:16 · 8 answers · asked by svk303 1

I don't think we should unless the law that protects a female's body will also protects a males body. I think it should be both or neither.

2007-10-25 06:26:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where do you draw the line with online friends of the opposite sex? When does friendship become an online affair? Am I being paranoid, or is this something I should be worried about? Our home lives have become rather dull, but I don't think he's cheated on me, at least yet.

My hubby is talking to an ex of his via email and some of the comments are becoming quite explicit. He left his email open one night and I quite innocently noticed what was happening and had to read. They are planning to get together when he is in the area during christmas break. She lives out of state, so for now it has been confined to email. They are reminescing about their days as teenagers nearly 20 years ago and how they should not have broken up the relationship. He talks about taking her swimming with her two children, wanting to see her again in a bathing suit. He wants to get a seedy hotel room for them both to meet up in.

2007-10-25 05:41:44 · 12 answers · asked by Wendy G 2

me and my fiancee are getting married in january. they all agree [his prnts and him] that we should move in to their house for a couple months to save up money. we would help out with bills, food, etc and would have half the house to ourselves. is it okay?

2007-10-25 05:25:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous