Other - Family & Relationships - 29 October 2007

many times i feel like my life is worthless or in other words i dont really have a life. I try to make things better by trying more, like taking better hygiene practices, doing my work, talking, and lots of things. for that short time i feel a little sense of happiness, but it soon fades back to before when something bad happens or for no reason. i cant seem to keep it up.im 17 in high school, but dont tell me i have time to change things. give me real answers so i can actually change my future. saying things like having time or dont worry are just answers from procastinators who cant answer.

2007-10-29 23:32:59 · 7 answers · asked by subs r de best 4

i am in love with a wonderful man have been for 5 years but...... their is a problem i am having. I keep looking at females i dont know why but it sometimes turns me on. my partner was my first love but he well we often joke about another girl in bed.

When things go wrong in our relationship i turn to a girl and i have kissed and been told bymybest friend if she wanted to be with a girl it would be me shes my partners cousin so nothing would ever come from it now.

Help is their something wrong with me ..................................?

2007-10-29 22:52:15 · 4 answers · asked by pamela_april-bride 1

I've always wondered about this because we can have as many pets, friends, objects, aquaintances, etc. in our lives, but when it comes to love we're only allowed to be with one person at a time. I happen to love two different men and always have, but am unable to really "be" with both of them because of my being married to one of them. In a perfect world I'd be able to love them both openly, without hurting anyone, and although I know this is totally unrealistic, I often wonder why society has been set up this way. I also wonder if anyone else ever feels these things too.....

2007-10-29 22:19:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with this girl for about a year and 4 months ( last year ) and after that we were still talking, meaning she still calls and everything then everything stopped cause i "tried" to get over her, now she doesnt even want to talk to me anymore, for example when i AIM her she would tell me she doesnt want to talk to me, im gonna try to make this short, she doesnt block me on AIM but yet she doesnt want to talk to me??!?! then today i found some guys email in her Contact in her email account, can someone tell me wtf she wants? she still keeps me on her buddylist NO MATTER WHAT I SAY she would just avoid it when i would say "why are you gonna keep me on your buddylist when you dont want to talk to me"

2007-10-29 21:54:13 · 9 answers · asked by Ice 1

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2007-10-29 21:45:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I believe it when he says that he still loves me. The only bad thing is he is aggressive in bed. I don't like it, but I accept it, because that's who he is and the sex is fantastic.

2007-10-29 21:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just finished reformatting my computer and now that I am online, I noticed the time in the task bar jumped ahead one hour. It is set for the Eastern time zone, and that is correct for where I am. So, anyway, I got to thinking...what is wrong? The time went AHEAD one hour on here and I know we FALL back an hour at this time of year. As you can see, I am all confused now as to what has happened. Could someone tell me please what time is it in the Eastern time zone? Were we suppose to set our clocks back already? Why is it that the time on this computer, which is set for EST, says 5:15 AM? The clocks with batteries are all 4:15 AM. What on earth?!? This is freaking me out, people. Someone help me please...I have to get my children up for school soon and cannot be late. Thankyou so much for your help...sincerely.

2007-10-29 21:25:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am in a relationship with a married man with so many girlfriends, 9 to mention, all are active relationship... im the 10th woman so far. he said he loved me truly compared to the 9. im confused because i feel he is also playing with my feelings. why cant he stop his relationship with the rest? does he really loves me? or im just one of his "women". i do loved this man. i have difficulty disengaging with him.

2007-10-29 20:44:44 · 8 answers · asked by magayon 1

LOL is that normal? I can look at my hubby and talk to him about other things and act like I didn't just have sex ? I mean we lay and cuddle for a little while but get up (if it's daytime sex) and go about our day!

2007-10-29 20:20:53 · 16 answers · asked by sara 4

its nothing sexual..so thats what im wondering, why?
she puts them inside her shorts, skirt ect. and kinda just sits her hands on her upper thigh. she also grabs her bum cheeks a lot. she walks around home grabbing at her bum inside her pants.. why does she do this?

2007-10-29 20:10:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you say 'turn left' 'turn right' 'dont go so fast' ' slow down for heavens sake' 'am carsick with your driving' 'theres a parking slot' 'you missed the turn' 'we shall never make it at this speed'.......give me more.......!!!

2007-10-29 20:03:17 · 16 answers · asked by Kisses an Wishes 4

1. Jon is cute and nice but I dont know him very well. Yet i still feel the vibe that he likes me the same way I like him: we both cant make up our minds about each other, that it probably won't work so we don't try. We used to talk more when we sat two seats down from each other, I'd always catch him staring at me. Then, he moved seats, but some days he still makes attempts to start conversations with me. I really want to get to know him more, but we never seem to bump into each other much or long enough to start a conversation. We only have once class together, and on some days I seem him in the hallways. Do you think I should try to get to know him more and see if anything happens? How can I let him know I'm interested?

2007-10-29 18:51:17 · 10 answers · asked by I'm A Big Girl Now 1

You already have a present boyfriend,and your ex bf contacted you.Just wanted to keep in touch with you.and wants to regain the frienship that they had in the past.but this time he offers purely frienship cause he is already married.

2007-10-29 17:41:09 · 12 answers · asked by carrie 2

2007-10-29 16:44:37 · 6 answers · asked by blue 1

2007-10-29 16:21:50 · 3 answers · asked by that moody chick 1

Everytime I read a paper at school I can't remember a word I read. It just doesnt stick to my mind. This makes me really mad because this is the reason i'm failing 3 of my classes. And also when the teacher is explaining things I don't understand what she says. Its almost like we speak different languages.

I come from a Mexican family and I grew up speaking spanish and spanish was my 1st language.

The only time I can understand things is when people explain it in spanish.
I'm soo confused i don't know who to talk to.

Should I talk to my school counselor or my nurse or what??
Please help I never had this problem before....
It 1st happened in 8th grade. Now im in 10th.

2007-10-29 15:36:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister is 20 years old (but looks older) so she doesn't get a lot of weird looks/comments, but her friend is 21 and seriously looks 16, and she gets them ALL THE TIME. People treat me the same way whenever I take out my nephew.

2007-10-29 15:28:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

every time we go to a club my bf wants to bring someone home.... is this ODD???? do I go with the flow???? what if hes better than me? Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-29 14:57:16 · 32 answers · asked by AZBOY 6

a few years ago my parents divorced and now my mom has a new boyfriend and he kissed her and i caught them and i started crying because me and my mom are really close and i cant imagine another guy in our life i love my mom being single and taking care of me with help from my 24 year old sister and i feel so lonely and sad now that my mom has some new boyfriend and i want them to breakup but i dont want to hurt my mom exactly because she gets mad but i dont want that guy in my life i dont really like him already anyways.

2007-10-29 14:09:49 · 44 answers · asked by purplefiggs 2

kay, so i am on a communitie basketball team and i really like it but the thing is, is that it might not work out because we dont have enough players.
so i tried out for my school team im the best player and love it.
but the thing is,is that my father really wants me to do the first team
"you cant let down your team" "you made a commentment stik with it."
what shiould i do .
ps. i am 14

2007-10-29 13:15:39 · 2 answers · asked by xixixi 2

My son's dad remarried and stationed in another state. Zack is going on a vist for christmas. But matt wants him longer. Now reallistically I know I need that time to get things together at home. On the otherhand, Im nervous........my son is 3 has not been away from home more than 2 weeks, and he be with my ex's new wife. I know Im the mother, I know nothing will change that. Honestly she has not made a good impression on me... What advice can others that have been through this give me, to make me at ease?

2007-10-29 10:45:40 · 2 answers · asked by prettiekittie1983 2

On a scale of 1-10

# 1 resembling an atomic disaster and # 10 being immaculate, show room style clean.

How much emphasis do you put on a super clean house and for those of you with maids, how much do they cost and does it take a team or one person, how often do they come?

For those who do the cleaning yourselves or in family units, how much cleaning do you do a week?

2007-10-29 08:16:09 · 31 answers · asked by Sarah 2

The inquisitive mind of a child"

Why are they selling poppies, Mummy?
Selling poppies in town today.
The poppies, child, are flowers of love.
For the men who marched away.

But why have they chosen a poppy, Mummy?
Why not a beautiful rose?
Because my child, men fought and died
In the fields where the poppies grow.

But why are the poppies so red, Mummy?
Why are the poppies so red?
Red is the colour of blood, my child.
The blood that our soldiers shed.

The heart of the poppy is black, Mummy.
Why does it have to be black?
Black, my child, is the symbol of grief.
For the men who never came back.

But why, Mummy are you crying so?
Your tears are giving you pain.
My tears are my fears for you my child.
For the world is FORGETTING AGAIN.

2007-10-29 06:52:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you a Dirty Old Man or A Debonaire On the Move.....Why?

2007-10-29 05:32:22 · 9 answers · asked by hungrykong 3

I am moving to the first place of my own in a month. I must move. Not moving is not an option. I am very poor. I have no furniture. I don't even have a bed to sleep on! What should I do?

2007-10-29 05:25:23 · 5 answers · asked by Big Blue 5

Are you someone's favorite friend? Are you someone's favorite person you work with? Are you someone's favorite love who is dating the field? Are you someone's favorite child? Are you someone's favorite neighbor?

How did it happen? What makes you so special in their eyes? And then turn the tables around -- are they your favorite as well? Why?

2007-10-29 03:39:11 · 11 answers · asked by Andy K 6

I am a 26yr old female, I have been with my fiance for 3 years, and now I am 11 weeks pregnant with his kid. However we are living with his father who I don't see eye to eye with, and it has become a big problem, lately me and my fiance are fighting alot more than usual he has lied to me on serveral occasions but he swears it will never happen again. I have been staying with a friend for the last few weeks where I met another guy he is a year younger than me, and has everything I always looked for, he gives me a feeling that my fiance just cant supply. But yet I still don't know if I should leave my fiance, part of me believes I'm only staying with him because of the baby, part of me believes I still can make things work, Last night I went home to my fiance but all I could think about was the other guy.

2007-10-29 03:38:47 · 13 answers · asked by kiissxhardcore 1

I have just found out my partner whom I trusted 100% has cheated on me with a one night stand! How can we move forward from this? Should I forgive him? In time of course! I have four children and families are involved. She is a girl from work. The classic of the office party and fell into bed story. She has pursed him from the beginning. He wants to make it work and says we should do counselling. Will not go to office parties where she is present. Will leave work at some point too despite a good job. I guess I am just taking one day at a time but it hurts like hell.

2007-10-29 03:30:27 · 9 answers · asked by caroline 1

I finished college a year ago, I'm 23. I think my best years are behind me, although they weren't that great. During high school, I didn't have very many friends; I never had a girlfriend. I never got invited to parties, and I didn't go to the prom. I made good grades and I got into college. In college, I maintained a high gpa and graduated, but I had the same problems that I had in high school (few friends, no girlfriend). This period in a person's life was supposed to fun, yet I didn't really have very much.

Now with that all behind me, I don't think there too much to look forward to. Have I wasted my life?

2007-10-29 03:12:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

how does you body feel when you think about it? when my whole school grouped up and learned about it I cried. I thought it was....happy but then the collembine shooting came up and then very much sorrow and hate....what do you think

2007-10-29 01:34:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous