You already have a present boyfriend,and your ex bf contacted you.Just wanted to keep in touch with you.and wants to regain the frienship that they had in the past.but this time he offers purely frienship cause he is already married.
2007-10-29 17:41:09 · 12 answers · asked by carrie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you think you can keep it completely platonic? Plus, how would you feel if your current boyfriend's ex came into the would you feel okay about him rekindling a friendship with her?
What does your current boyfriend think?
Personally, I wouldn't want my boyfriend trying to be friends with his ex. I wouldn't feel comfortable about it.
2007-10-29 18:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by greyskymourning82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being only friends is cool. It only becomes a problem when things start becoming more than that. And to be fair to your current bf, be sure to let him know beforehand that you and your ex are still friends... and ONLY friends. That way he won't trip or make a big deal about it if he finds out otherwise.
2007-10-29 17:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Cee Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being friends with a former (who is now married) is a bad idea. First, what for? His wife may find out, even if this is an "innocent" friendship, do you think she can handle that? Better stay away for your sake and his.
2007-10-29 18:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Deb R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with that, if u ex is single or not.... i keep in touch with most of my ex bfs at all times in my life..... not that i have alot or anything..... some of them i was friends with 1st and we grew up together.... so we will always have that connection.... the only reason it would be wrong is if u was still in love wit them or vis versa..... cause then u would have a problem on ur hands
2007-10-29 18:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad situation all around. He shouldn't be calling you if he's married and you shouldn't be talking to him if you're serious about your boyfriend. 'Friendships' do not exist at that level. How would you feel if your boyfriend were talking to his ex on a regular basis?
2007-10-29 17:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Darksuns 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way chummy...
It can be a sin.
By the way, Once a Lover is always a lover.
I think it would be nice to hear dat but if only is friendship
u guys would hav
2007-10-30 10:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by TAJUDDEEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a sin. I would not hide it from the current boyfriend or from the ex's wife.
2007-10-29 17:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sin? What is it that your want? What is your goal of rekindling this friendship? If it is for sex, or to get him away from his wife, then that is not right. It is possible to be friends, if that is all that it is. Tread lightly.
2007-10-29 17:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by anny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup thats fine.. men and women can totally be friends. just let the current bf know cause if he thinks you are lying, hell think your cheating
2007-10-29 17:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your bf how he feels about it and then respect his wishes. I would hope that he would do the same for you.
2007-10-29 17:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋