1. Jon is cute and nice but I dont know him very well. Yet i still feel the vibe that he likes me the same way I like him: we both cant make up our minds about each other, that it probably won't work so we don't try. We used to talk more when we sat two seats down from each other, I'd always catch him staring at me. Then, he moved seats, but some days he still makes attempts to start conversations with me. I really want to get to know him more, but we never seem to bump into each other much or long enough to start a conversation. We only have once class together, and on some days I seem him in the hallways. Do you think I should try to get to know him more and see if anything happens? How can I let him know I'm interested?
2007-10-29 18:51:17 · 10 answers · asked by I'm A Big Girl Now 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh and for Jon, I have trouble letting him know I like him. I dont know whats wrong with me, it's like i dont think before i talk. Jon's ALWAYS the one that starts conversations with me, and i respond like I dont care about him very much. I think thats why he might be scared about getting to know me, because i seem to not care.
2007-10-29 18:51:29 · update #1
2.Brandon's really outgoing and everyone knows him. He has a lot of friends that are girls but lately people have been saying to both of us we like each other. Sometimes I doubt he likes me and maybe this is just how he is with all girls, but my friends say he has a sparkle in his eyes when he talks to me. I agree, it's so easy to talk to him... I dont even think when I talk to him and we go on for hours. I have two classes with him, and we hang out during lunch and when I see him in the hallways. But if we ever dated, everyone would know and I'm not into everyone knowing my business. He always teases me and hangs around me and looks for me afterschool. He's really nice when you're alone with him but when we're in a big group, I feel awkward with him. Some of my friends don't approve of him and I don't want to tell them I really like him. So when he's flirty at lunch and I really want to flirt back, I hold myself back. Should I just forget what my friends think and go for it?
2007-10-29 18:51:42 · update #2
How come it's so hard for me to talk to jon, while I can talk for hours without thinking with brandon? Do you think It's so easy to talk to brandon because we've already broken the barrier? I havent had a REAL conversation with jon because like i said, we never find the right time to click yet. Do you think I'll click with Jon after i break the barrier? Should I do it first? I'm tired of waiting for the right time. Should I just write him a friendly note in class to break the barrier?
Also, Jon and me come from two different cliques. Because I dont know him well enough, I dont even know who his friends are! But me and brandon share a lot of the same friends. Are me and jon from two different worlds that will never connect?
I think Jon's seen me around with Brandon a couple of times. What if realizes I like Brandon too? Should I stop hanging out with one and go all out for one?
2007-10-29 18:52:16 · update #3
just be friends with both of them and see where things go from there. you don't have to right away chose one to be your boyfriend, slow down, enjoy being single while you still have it. things will fall into place when the times right.
2007-10-29 18:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by TM25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me it seems you like this Jon guy, seems like you are sure he is a nice guy and has the qualities of this Brandon but is a much more relaxed kind of lad.
I think that you should pursue this Jon lad and see what happens. Just take a big breath and ask him out.
Persides if this Brandon is as interested as you make out, he should wait for you to become available again dont you think???
Going on what this Brandon is like i rekon he is the kind of lad that would just dump you when a better offer came along and not even care whereas i think you and this Jon lad are very similar to each other, perhaps you both want to talk to each other but both feel unable to start so why not make the first move and break the ice see what he says.
You never know it could get you your ideal guy.
Hope this helps
xx
2007-10-30 03:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by cutecambslad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Brandon teases you in front of his friends then you need to not get involved with someone like him because when you'll really need him his friends will come before you, Jon may be shy or he may have been hurt before, I suggest you spend time with Jon, go for a walk you don't need to have anything to talk about beforehand, the conversations will happen when they happen. the idea of sending Jon a note is a great one. as a guy I always loved receiving notes from my now wife, sometimes just a quiet walk across campus to the next class can say more than 2 hours of chatting. I know you'll do what's right in your heart, and keep smiling. there's a whole lotta life ahead of you both.
2007-10-30 02:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Scott 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are at ease with Brandon but you are still thinking about Jon. (???)
Do you want to have a permanent BF? That's your problem I guess. But you cannot decide which from the two you will choose. Since nobody from the two guys has yet to start what's their intention to you.
Why don't you go for .... someone who is more interested to have you, to be with you ....
Don't rush. Just be friend with them in the meantime. As time goes on you will know who is the right guy for you.
2007-10-30 02:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by always confuse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have no committment to either one, why not date both? As you get to know them, you can decide who you click with more and you can break off with the one you're less compatible with.
2007-10-30 04:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give jon a chance first before you make a decision. he seems nice
2007-10-30 03:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by ello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a date with each of them, and then make a decision. try not to make a big deal about it, no reason to make them mad.
2007-10-30 01:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by scorch_22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toss a coin, best and easiest way.
2007-10-30 01:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by I Speak the Truth 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask each of them what his intentions are with you
2007-10-30 01:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Way too long!
2007-10-30 01:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋