a few years ago my parents divorced and now my mom has a new boyfriend and he kissed her and i caught them and i started crying because me and my mom are really close and i cant imagine another guy in our life i love my mom being single and taking care of me with help from my 24 year old sister and i feel so lonely and sad now that my mom has some new boyfriend and i want them to breakup but i dont want to hurt my mom exactly because she gets mad but i dont want that guy in my life i dont really like him already anyways.
2007-10-29 14:09:49 · 44 answers · asked by purplefiggs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you do try to do that, you're a terrible person.
But you could always just snatch his *** in a bear trap. ^^
Just kidding.. my parents are also divorced.. and my mom has had several boyfriends since then.. none of whom last.
Just know that if it does every get REALLY serious, you could just let your mom know how you feel.
2007-10-29 14:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by timb0nic 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Have a polite talk with your mom.... Tell her how much you love her....How much her new relationship with that guy hurts you and everything you feel honestly..... It always helps... Im sure there are possiblities because for all the mom around the world, their child would be their first priority... Moms are the most selfless person in this world... I totally believe in that...But if at all, she insists on it then maybe you should go a step down as a child.... After all she is your mummy..... Good luck.....
2007-10-29 14:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Karthigga S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you give him time, i betcha you'll really like him. If you think breaking him and your mom up will make things go back to normal. You're wrong.. she's gonna be heartbroken. And you don't know how heartbroken she's gonna be. How do YOU know you'll be ABLE to mend her heart. Do you know why she dated a nother guy? Maybe because she FEELS lonely. Aren't you just making things worst for her? Think about her too you know. Her boyfriend isn't gonna KIDNAP her. He's completing her. And maybe you should tell her how you feel. That you don't want her and you to be less close just cause she has someone else. Tell her you need her as much as she needs him and that you don't want NO ONE to break your two relationship. And i'm sure she'll understand.
2007-10-29 14:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Febrezie~! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well thats you being selfish. your mom has a chance at happiness and you want to ruin that? grow up kid. if you are not a kid, then you are acting liek one. and one day you will find a guy too, and wont want your mommy always around. and besides things dont change that much, she will jsut be happy. kissing is what you saw? lol thats all? wow, i got to realize that here everyone gets soo freaking freaked out over the littlest thigns. sweetheart if you walked in on them sleeping together or soemthing, then yea ill be upset,b ut not mad or anything. jsut upset cause you walked in on them. thats all.
2007-11-01 16:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by SeaShells09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First know what your'e doing is wrong - your willing to take a piece of your mum's happiness away from her because your sad you don't have all the attention anymore - have you tried talking to your mum about this ...you'll be surprised on how the conversation ends i think it will be in your favour without having to do anything but talk.
But if you don't want to do that then here!!!
try and get time alone with him with your mum knowing you have had time alone with him then after that shy away from him like everytime he comes around and stuff and when he talks to you look down at the ground like your afraid of him and when your mum asks whats going on say he hit you ...Keep to what eva story you say cos NO **** no mother will eva go with a guy that was hitting their child and he wasn't the father...
Good Luck
2007-10-29 14:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rosey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't try to break them up as much as I would tell your mom how you feel. If you need to sit down with her and your school counselor (so you have a third party to help) and talk about the situation. Understand that just because your mom has a boyfriend doesn't mean they will get married. And even if they did, it doesn't mean that she will love you any less.
2007-10-29 14:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by cmhc32 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Accepting someone is not the easiest thing for you to do especially when your Mother has feelings for him.
This doesn't mean that she doesn;t love you, it's just that she has feelings too and wants him to share those feelings that she cannot she with you as her children. Its personal and she needs that space for her like you will need your space with your loved one one day.
If he comes to you as arrogant person and needs to be addressed then tell your Mother about how you feel.
if you think your Mother is not mature enough to make a good decision about whom she brings home to her family then it is your place to tell her how you absolutely feel towards it and in a very nice way.
Then your Mother can express how she feels about your concern and both of you can talk it out where your feelings are heard and your not left out.
It's always best when a Mother finds a new bow that she address her children to the new bow and get your feelings heard.
All in favor say I
Opposed say nay
2007-10-29 14:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how old are you? But I would like to let you know that I may feel the same way you are feeling now. But honey think about your mum, she need someone to share her joy and sorrow, she also need someone to make her feel wanted. I don't know what type of man is her boyfriend is and how faithful is he in their relationship? Please be mature give your mum a break. You will never understand her inner feelings and desires. Come on she is a married woman she knows the do & don'ts.Think, if you are in your mum's place what you will do? I would advice you not to be selfish in your life. live and let others live. All he best.
2007-10-30 15:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Chittu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ooohhhh...It's a tricky situation. You're Mother deserves to be happy...as do you. Explain to your mother that you feel like you are not as close and that you would like to set aside some "quality time" for the two of you on a regular basis. I am a parent and my kids come first and I'm sure you're Mother feels the same. Just make sure she knows how you're feeling and she'll do what she can to make it better! But remember, your mom does deserve to be happy as well!
2007-10-29 14:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Chestersmom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry , Dear. You need to grow up. Life, especially other peoples, is NOT all about you. Think a little farther down the road. Someday you will meet your future husband and get married and leave your Moms house.. What if she tries to break you up. Same story with a different twist, isn't it. Be your Mom's kid, but let her live her own life. You will.
2007-10-29 14:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry to say this but, quit being selfish and get used to it. Your mom has feelings, wants, needs too. Put yourself in her shoes. Would you want to be a divorced wife, knowing thats the rest of your life? To just stop there because your daughter "doesnt like him"? Give the guy a chance, he might just not be so bad..
2007-10-29 14:14:26 · answer #11 · answered by Chris W 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋