Other - Family & Relationships - 31 October 2007

My BF and I broke up.. after 2 weeks I found out he was out there dating... It killed me.. So I asked for SPACE.. he agreed and cannot wait til we are friends agian... I am in the anger stage.. I was told by my Shrink to write him a letter telling him all my anger thoughts about how he broke up with me and why it is hard for me to deal.. I did it, I wrote him a note and sent it to him.. I bashed him.. not caring about his feelings, and that what I was worried about the whole time.. his feelings not mine.. So you all think I did the right thing? the letter I mean.

2007-10-31 23:41:22 · 5 answers · asked by irish_red_93 2

Just wondering

2007-10-31 20:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by Aubrey C 2

i normally get really horny during the night and want some tips and advice on how i could wake up my partner without startling him awake and making him very randy at the same time.. so we can both get some loving.

so..

when sleeping in the same bed with my partner but suddenly craving sex in the middle of the night.

what things can i do to..
wake him up slowly BUT making him Horny at the same time??

any one willing to tell their experiences?
it would help me loads!!
Thanks

2007-10-31 20:54:39 · 18 answers · asked by Beautiful - 6

My ex girlfriend won't leave me alone. She cheated on me with another guy where she met on a millionaire singles club millionairecupid.com. So we broke up. After we broke up she calls, IM me, etc to tell me stuff about her life. I don't contact her but she asks me for advice and stuff like I really want to listen to it. I told her that before but she still does it anyway.

She just IMed me tonight and told me that she was being stupid by being with her new boyfriend. She already knows I don't like him(obviously since I beat him up for cheating with her). But is she really expecting me to run back into her arms? I don't want to be with her because I know that she is planning to move out of town when she finds a good job plus she probably cheat on me again if she leaves the city.

I told her off several times for cheating on me, only thinking about herself, and her lack of committment issues but some reason she keeps talking to me despite me not talking to her.

2007-10-31 20:51:33 · 4 answers · asked by Charles 1

For the past 2 months I have suspected my mother of using cocaine. About a month ago I find a "coke bag" on the floor in my room, this prompted me to check her cell phone call log to see if she was calling an ex-friend of mine that is into cocaine and heroin. There were several incoming and outgoing calls to this person. I confronted her about this and she completely freaked out on me. She totally denied it and said that it was probably my "coke bag" and told me I am a horrible person. She also said a lot of other hurtful things. It really hurt my feelings, she made me seem like I'm the bad guy.

Tonight when I was going into the bathroom I found another "coke bag." This one was completely full. I know that it my mom's and I want to confront her about it, but I don't know how without her freaking out on me.

2007-10-31 19:23:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Curious to see the responses to this.

2007-10-31 18:15:17 · 16 answers · asked by zeekandthefam 5

I've been married two years now I have 3 kids,(a 3 yr old and twin 17 month olds) and my dreams stopped there...now I have no clue what to do. I want to raise my kids with many things to teach them and I want them to have the biggest dreams because I know they can accomplish them, they are all so smart. I myself want to go to school, but for what I have no clue. All I ever dreamed of was being a mom and a wife, and now that I have that I realize that there is life beyond motherhood and you have to constantly pass down wisdom and how am I supposed to do that if all I do is cook thier meals and clean up after them and love with everything I have? I dont know what exactly I'm asking I'm just stuck....sigh...I know I'm a good person and I know I could accomplish anything I put my mind too with God's help, but what do I want to do?? I thought I'd have something figured out by now.

2007-10-31 18:10:34 · 7 answers · asked by Ria B 3

Long story, brace yourself. About 2 weeks ago, my husband had a dream that our friend, that was having a tough time, was in trouble and he was trying to help her. He said out loud " M it's okay, it's okay." Well I told my mom the next day and all she said was that it was sweet of him to worry about her because she of what she's going through and left it at that. Well tonight my husband went over to this friends house to say Happy Halooween and her entire family started laughing at him and saying "so you're dreaming about M huh?" and other things much worse. By the way, M wasn't there. My husband waited until everyone left our house and we had it out. He wanted to know y I was saying stuff like that and I told him that wasn't what was said. I called my sister because her, mom and M all work together. Turns out what my mom was telling people was that my husband said" take it off M, come one take it off". Big difference. This isn't the first time by the way. What should I do?

2007-10-31 18:06:44 · 2 answers · asked by Kc B 3

i have been seeing this woman for about 3 years and living together for about two. for the first year the sex was great, and frequent. then she took these monthly shots for endometrosis. the doctor said her hormones would be reduced for about 6 to 12 months. and the sex was maybe once a week. well shes been off the shots for about a year now and the sex is even worse. once every three weeks if im lucky. every time i try to talk about it she makes me feel like an asshole saying all i care about is sex. its been making me feel so worthless that i find myself drinking alot bymyself late into the night. we are engaged but im worried about our future.

2007-10-31 17:21:45 · 22 answers · asked by nick O 1

and my mother in law is very aggressive. It's hard because she is so jealous of me and I don't like that. She is nosy with me and asks too many questions. I feel like she tries to push me over. She also tells me she knows best.

I'm so nice and respectful of her. I don't know but I hate her. I hate her so much. She is not a nice person and my husband says she is uncontrollable. I dont know what to do. I don't know how to play her game and I don't know how to be mean. It's just not in me. I hate this.

I wish I could hire someone to slap the bizitch because I can't do it. I would never do that.

2007-10-31 16:07:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

About a year and a half ago my fiance and I had a bit of a rough patch. He ended up in bed with another girl(lets call her Jo) who knew about our situation. That aside, we worked together to work out all issues and rebuild the trust. A little over a year later we had our little boy. He is now 7 months old.

Our relationship is solid - we don't fight and we are happy together. Problem is, Jo - is a friend of my best friend, Sal. In january, Sal is going to move in with Jo.

Sal, was obviously worried and asked if I would still come visit her. I said yes - I was prepared to be polite to Jo, but was not interested any form of friendship with her. Sal, insists that Jo was the innocent party and that she feels very bad - because my friend is very excited that I am coming back to live. She is constantly asking for me to forgive Jo for the incident. She wants us to be three happy campers. I've told my friend repetivily, it won't happen!

Would you feel angry too?

2007-10-31 15:24:46 · 15 answers · asked by priestessofthepixels 4

Ok..So I wore some really cute blue jeans on Tuesday.

And I want to wear them to school again tomorrow. But they are longer on me than most of my blue jeans. So do u think people would remember if i wore them and think its gross? And yes i did wash them! lol I know this is extremely stupid =]]

2007-10-31 14:56:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw an article writing about a man who mentioned about sex going downhill after his wife has given birth naturally .He has only 1 child.He claimed she was not 'tight' as before. He claimed that caesarean is a safe and recommendable birth option.
I need to ask all the fathers out there.Is that true that sex feels less enjoyable after natural birth? Did you feel the difference in sex after your wive
s births?Would you prefer women to opt for caesarean to 'preserve' the original tightness of the vagina for optimal sexual satisfaction?

2007-10-31 14:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by Lily B 1

2007-10-31 14:52:43 · 7 answers · asked by Das ist mein fluch 5

2007-10-31 13:26:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a boy friend and we have only been together for three weeks and he wonts to get married shoule i say yes or no

2007-10-31 11:58:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-31 11:42:42 · 9 answers · asked by dismamiizfresh 2

me and my lad recently split after being together for 5 years! we decided last year to try for a baby! now we have split up and i still want his baby and still love him very much! what can i do? please help me?

2007-10-31 11:38:36 · 25 answers · asked by roosty 1

I am a very mature person, i am18 but i am told by everyone that i act 22 , all my freinds are crazy, but they say i should try to chill out i bit more , so does my mum but the trouble is i dont like letting my hair down, but do you think letting my hair down is a good idea

2007-10-31 10:12:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I get my husband to look at me liek he use to? WHen he was proud , thought I was pretty, and never raised his voice /argue at me? Does he still love me?

2007-10-31 10:00:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel so helpless.

2007-10-31 09:10:53 · 21 answers · asked by CelesteMoone 5

2007-10-31 07:46:39 · 44 answers · asked by LIBBY 1

please don't judge me. my husbend not getting the job done in the bedroom,

2007-10-31 07:42:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a boyfriend who is protective, and I don't know if it is because he loves me or because he wants to be controlive; or what it is. I need answers form guys and girls. Please HELP!!!

2007-10-31 07:42:12 · 23 answers · asked by Sarah Brown 2

Would ya Shagg 'em?

2007-10-31 06:14:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Appropriate answers please.

Did you think it was right for your parents to discipline you this way?

2007-10-31 06:06:28 · 27 answers · asked by Brian S 1

how do you ride a guy? slow or fast?
i thought they all liked it fast. whats the best way???????
please help gimmie sum tips

2007-10-31 06:02:14 · 9 answers · asked by GrownNSexy 3

If you don't have kids, are you planning to? Why or why not? If you're not, are there any concerns you have? I am 32, my husband 33 and we are not planning to have kids any time soon. We don't really have the interest and don't feel it is missing from our lives. I personally think that there are *way too many* people in the world to add to the overpopulation problem. What are your thoughts?

2007-10-31 05:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by veggurl21 4

What can you do about it? Where can you go? Who is held responsible for all or whatever it may be? Is there any length of time penned to this stuff? That is to say, what if it was a few years or many years..what's happened since?

2007-10-31 05:13:16 · 6 answers · asked by upyerjumper 5

I asked my sil if she had anything to ask me. She told me no. I know that she does. Why? Because at one point she wanted to talk to me. I didn't. When I first met her I spoke to her and she looked at me and rolled her eyes and said hmmp(Like good riddance). After this I felt as if she didn't like me. So I stayed my distance from her. Now she wants to talk to me. She does not understand why I never say too much to her. She has to know why. I know she has issues against me but won't come out with them. How can I get her to be more open and honest with me on how she feels about me?

2007-10-31 05:05:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous