please don't judge me. my husbend not getting the job done in the bedroom,
2007-10-31 07:42:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
could you live with yourself knowing that you are cheating on your husband? first, there has to be a reason for your husband not wanting sex, and its up to you to find out why. maybe he need s to see the dr. i dont know, all i know is that cheating is only going to make things worse. try and fix the problem instead of creating a bigger one! if you really love him- youll do the right thing.
2007-10-31 07:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by jolene 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, what a shame. Dont run to the arms of another man. Unless your husband has technical difficulties and the pills they got for that arent helping, then i can understand. But obviously you married him for some reason. Not just the sex. Anyone can be tought to be a better lover. We all have the same parts. Some bigger and some smaller than others. but all work the same. Drink some wine, smoke some pot, do whatever ya gotta do to make it work and enjoy eachother. Dont think he will be your husband very long if he finds out, unless he is doing the same thing....lol
Good luck.
R
2007-10-31 14:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by RICO12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl then buy yourself some toys, but keep your **** home where you belong, your a married woman. When you married him, did you think everything was going to be prefect from the day of "I do", & for ever after,
If it is that bad then be kind enough to let the man go, divorce him so he can go find a woman who appreciates what he does do for her.
By the way if he is not satisfying you, why aren't you teaching him the right way, hand over hand show the man what needs to be taken care of, in what order, how fast or how slow, you get the picture.
2007-10-31 14:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very easy to produce bible verses, recall marriage vows etc etc but trust me sexual unfulfilment within marriages is real. I will not judge you because you havent done anything to deserve unfulfilled sexual desires, yes the urge for more julfilling sex increases with age and perhaps you are there but not in the same place as your husband. If he is willing why not try herbs if he isnt willing then I understand why you are thinking that way......just for your benefit, an affair can give you more emotional turmoil than what you are experiencing now.
2007-10-31 15:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by lavagal.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your husband about expanding your sex life. Try to bring in some toys or some porn or something but you should NEVER step outside of your marriage. If all you are looking for and care about is a piece of booty, maybe it would just be best if you left your husband.
2007-10-31 14:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by morbidlybeautiful 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I let my wife try that and it worked out terribly. I reccomend from personal experience that you two sit and talk and get to the bottom of his low libido, and maybe go to counseling. Communication is the answer here, not something on the side.
2007-10-31 16:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by PUMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first try to communicate this to him, give him a chance to fix the problem first before you try to replace the sex.
Exodus 20:14 (Whole Chapter)
“You must not commit adultery.
Deuteronomy 5:18 (Whole Chapter)
“You must not commit adultery.
Proverbs 6:32 (Whole Chapter)
But the man who commits adultery is an utter fool,for he destroys himself.
Hosea 3:1 (Whole Chapter)
[ Hosea’s Wife Is Redeemed ] Then the Lord said to me, “Go and love your wife again, even though she [ Or Go and love a woman who.] commits adultery with another lover. This will illustrate that the Lord still loves Israel, even though the people have turned to other gods and love to worship them. [ Hebrew love their raisin cakes.] ”
John 8:4 (Whole Chapter)
“Teacher,” they said to Jesus, “this woman was caught in the act of adultery.
Hebrews 13:4 (Whole Chapter)
Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery.
Revelation 2:22 (Whole Chapter)
“Therefore, I will throw her on a bed of suffering, [ Greek a bed.] and those who commit adultery with her will suffer greatly unless they repent and turn away from her evil deeds.
2007-10-31 14:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Cherri 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! You're married girl! Buy some toys to add some spice in the bedroom.
2007-10-31 14:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by onehotmama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont cheat, try making things more romantic bubble baths together, showers ,light nice scented candles, give each other massages, watch porn together, buy some sexy nighties ,sex toys ,all kinds of ways to spice things up.
2007-10-31 16:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by texas nanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can talk it out, then work it out together. If not, seek help. No - you should not find another guy just for sex!
2007-10-31 15:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by BumbleBee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋