Other - Family & Relationships - 30 October 2007

We have been together 3 years and a few months, I know he loves me, and i love him, but he says he is getting bored of the routine. I try to always think up things that he would love doing, I aint in a well paid job, though i could afford doing something special now and then, I hardly have any holiday days left, i only have 5 which i want to keep as im looking for another job so need them for interviews, my b/f has just came out of retail work and has joined a temp job from an agency which "maybe" ending in november (he hasnt been told much about that) he gets paid weekly and is absolutly broke, hes outgoings are double what hes incomings are. So with that, we dont have a lot of choices to do things, we go cinema and go clubbing now and then, Do you have any other ideas what we could do, and what can i do for him to get out of the "bored of the routine" phase. I please him everyway i can, its hurting me knowing that we could finish over not being so active socially.
Please. Thank you

2007-10-30 23:56:38 · 24 answers · asked by Fader's Girl 6

I'm 18 and I've been sleeping with my best friends mother for the last few months and yesterday her husband found out. Now I don't know what to do cause I man oh man this has been the best 4 and a half months of my life. What should I do.?

2007-10-30 22:37:11 · 3 answers · asked by wildbeat 1

2007-10-30 22:05:07 · 14 answers · asked by Gen 1

i am a straight-ish guy .this other guy i work with is always getting erections under the desk next to me , then i get one and we smile at each other for the day afterwards.this happens everyday.lunchtime gets complicated. i think we should just do it but my wife and son would disagree. any suggestions.

2007-10-30 21:54:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so it will be me, my partner and my 2 daughters (from a previous relationship) on xmas eve and all waking up together xmas day and having dinner at home, just the 4 of us. However he wants to go and see his own children xmas day for a few hours, which i have absoloutley no problem with! The only problem i am having is that his ex is going to be at her mums 4 xmas so i am unable to go with him as she does not like me!! His x is happy for me to go (i think anyway) but its her family with the problem. So me an my girls are gonna be left on r own for a few hours! We are having his kids from the 27th dev for a few days anyway! Also he wants to go an see his mum on boxing day, again this i do not have a problem with but his x and his kids are going to be there as they have been invited. My partners family do not like me also and do not want me to be there!! They havent even met me yet but still they will not give me a chance. I have said to my partner that i might go to my mums 4 xmas ...

2007-10-30 21:35:55 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

Before were always on and off. She break me first then I go after her then she give me a chance. Then another incident I break her then she go after me again then I forgive her. I love her but there were several things sometimes I hate her also sometimes I dumb her then she break me again because according to her she was again hurt. I go after her again but she refused to come on with our relationship then it was a bad thing that I was really hurt because I love her so much. Now I realized that I was wrong and I accept it but she told me that it's too late to apologized. I want her to be with me again and I want to change right now because I really love her for now. Just an advice guys and I appreciate it. Also what should I do?

2007-10-30 21:09:12 · 4 answers · asked by tadzzzzz 1

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2007-10-30 21:00:53 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4

I'm a little worried about my sister. At work she has this one employee that is constantly giving her money like 20 dollars to go and eat which I didn't worry about but then he bought her flowers. He continues to give her money and buys her stuff (once he bought her ice cream). She is 19 and he is 57. She works as a registrar in the ER and he is a nurse. He also recently bought this other girl in our dept a $2,000 purse and that girl is 20yrs old. I asked my sister if he does this with other people and she said he does do nice stuff for this co-workers but he doesn't hand out money like he does with the younger females. Should I be worried for my sister? I mean I can't figure out this guys intention. She says he is not doing anything harmful and he is just very generous, but how do you know? I'm really scared for her. Am I just blowing this out of proportion? I don't wanna see my sister get hurt.

2007-10-30 16:35:06 · 3 answers · asked by Marium M 2

2007-10-30 16:27:03 · 7 answers · asked by Khairul A R 2

2007-10-30 16:23:38 · 6 answers · asked by 11:11 3

Its very small, and i know it shouldn't matter, but how would you feel?

2007-10-30 16:13:28 · 12 answers · asked by andy e 1

ok.... latley ive been having the WORST writers block i have ever had. i love writing and i usualy have at least 2 ideas to work with... but this time i have nothing to work with. ive been at this writers block for 2 weeks. i swear. i cant get over it. and ive brain stormed. ive let it alone for 1 week. and i just got back to it.... and i cant seem to find anything i want to wrote about. any ideas? please help me....!!!

2007-10-30 16:11:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I gotta write a smart aleck, for lack of a better term, paragraph or two about my class ... I'm a junior. Help?

2007-10-30 15:26:18 · 1 answers · asked by Me 7

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months.. i'm 17 and he's 19. (seeing he should be more mature) we've recently been arguing over the stupidest things lately. He gets mad/jealous anytime i'm TEXTING on my phone- even when i'm not with him. He makes it a big issue and then it turns into a fight. i can't even use my cell phone anymore- there isn't a point in me having a phone anymore! Is this normal???

2007-10-30 14:58:26 · 28 answers · asked by ERiKA ! 3

2007-10-30 14:27:12 · 3 answers · asked by Linda Fallsrock 2

hi all. now this is a sensitive subject for me and id appreciate only sincere answers, no harsh replies etc. in 2000 i was raped by a guy i met in a club after flirting with him and accepting a couple of drinks i willingly went for a walk with him. now i know i brought it on myself and all that. now when i met my current partner i told him what had happened - the first person ive ever told - he didnt take it too well, in fact he walked away and left me sobbing all night making me regret ever telling him. i cant forgive him for that. but i really need to talk about it from time to time. i just cant talk to him about it though- i can tell he wants to change the subject or just wants to gloss over what ive said. i get the distinct impression he blames me for it. how can i tell him i need to talk about how im feeling (it stil feels as though it happened yesterday even though its some years ago)? if someone thinks i need professional help then its out the question as im very very shy

2007-10-30 13:31:42 · 27 answers · asked by zeecharlie 1

2007-10-30 12:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by Momof3 1

me and my girlfriend have been going through some very rough patches lately (she lied a lot and lost my trust) so i decided to break it off with her. when i was she came out with something that shocked me. she told me 5 months ago she had a miscarriage. i was stunned. she told me that she had a miscarriage 3 weeks into her pregnancy. we didnt break up.

some close friends have told me that she makes up a lot of stuff. im starting to believe them.

she seems to play the sympathy card a lot and my parents have even commented on how she says funny things to try and get me more protective over her.

the thing thats bugging me is. she never mentioned it. never had "pains" or any symptoms and it was 3 weeks into it.

wouldn't a 3 week miscarriage be nothing but a blob of blood...an off period?...so i've been told.

i have a feeling that she lied to me so we wouldn't break up.

opinions please. thanks!

2007-10-30 12:47:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay guys.... This sis orta a serious question.... Okay so my family just had a wedding and a BUNCH of my family members came up to visit for the wedding.. Well sadly they left today and im feeling sorta depressed about my 2 cousins... We got to hang out only like 3 days because he had to leave right away since he's in the army, and my OTHER cousin had to leave with her baby..... I've always felt this when someone left... ( GAY, i know right..) Well, anyways, i was asking someone about this and they said *they had NO clue thought..* that this could be a sorta of depression.. And it kindda sucks.. Anyone want to help me out with these..

1. Could this be a sorta of depression..
2. Anyone want to help me cheer up - My other friend suggested that I find something to do besides think about missing them... Got any ideas for ANYTHING?

2007-10-30 12:24:35 · 1 answers · asked by Jamie L 1

Did you do that with a person you were in love with?

2007-10-30 11:17:28 · 8 answers · asked by .ìCα. 4

Why do a lot of women seem to think Halloween is hooker skank day? I don't understand why so many women think being half naked and dressed in hooker shoes/boots and tons of make-up constitutes a costume, do you? I don't see men running around all oiled up in a banana hammock on Oct 31st...

2007-10-30 11:12:27 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 25 years old and my best friend invites me to sleep over all the time still, but I only take her up on it once or twice a year. Last night my boyfriend and I were discussing it and he is trying to put a stop to it completely. He says that he feels like I don't want to be with him and that its not normal for grown women to have slumber parties still. We have been living together for 5 years, and its not a trust issue or anything. I feel like it is unfair for him to try and tell me that I can't or shouldn't sleep at my friend's house a couple times a year. I was hoping to get some perspective-should I be angry at my boyfriend or is he right and I need to "grow up"?
Thanks

2007-10-30 10:27:55 · 8 answers · asked by is_just_me 2

for or against?

2007-10-30 10:26:13 · 53 answers · asked by Alou Arsenal 4

2007-10-30 08:28:06 · 62 answers · asked by Mayor H 1

Okay, my ex called me and woke me up out of my sleep this morning to tell me about a dream he had. Now the dream sounded really made up to me and my intuition is usually right so I believe he just made it up, but anyway. It was some dumb dream that involved me, him, and this guy that he knows I really really like. Well he told me the dumb made up dream and then went on to talk about how he thinks the boy I like is ugly...take note, I'm still half asleep here. Well I was tired of hearing my ex talk about the boy I like so I changed subjects and when i did this he got disturbed, like he wasn't done talking or something......Anyway, after he was done talking about my "boo", he said this "The dream I had about my OTHER girl was worse." WTF?? Who cares......my question is.......
Why in the hell did he call me insulting the dude i like and indirectly throwing another female in my face?
GOD, men are so freakin weird, I was just trying to get some sleep. Why did he do that?

2007-10-30 08:13:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. I always have this gut feeling that he wants someone else, and it makes me think that he is cheating. I had a bad relationship before him, and the guy I was with cheated on me, so I think that might be the cause of my paranoia. I always ask him if he is cheating on me, and he always responds " No, I love you baby, I would never do that, I dont want anyone else."
I dont know what to think. Another thing is he always goes out of state to see his family. I am just so worried. Am I just paranoid, or do I really have something to worry about?

2007-10-30 08:07:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what if u dont want to be in love....what if u are afraid of being hurt...its normal to love someone but is it normal to hate urself for that...is it normal u want to kill this feeling....

2007-10-30 07:52:10 · 5 answers · asked by Sunflower 2

I was buying batteries at a store. They guy asked my name so I told him. Then he asked me what I would name my future kids? I was a bit shocked and then told him. He was in his late 40's. I'm sorry do men ask this to a lady they never even seen or met before? I found this highly unusual. Your thoughts.

2007-10-30 07:36:24 · 6 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5

2007-10-30 07:21:35 · 3 answers · asked by Jolly Rancher 1

I just had a baby boy, and my feelings towards him are different, I mean don't get me wrong I love my daughter shes nine, but I dont remember having feelings like this when she was a baby.

2007-10-30 07:15:17 · 19 answers · asked by PRETTYGIRL 4