Other - Family & Relationships - 26 October 2007

From an ex, to his ex over myspace--things like-

You were my heart

I wanted to marry, even to this day I knew you were the one

If it wasnt for your family hating me, we would have still been together.

your more beautiful now then when I first laid eyes on you.

All I know is, I put all that time into our relationship, and the other guy ended up with you.

(these ex's have been apart, leading seperate lives for the past 10 years. One happily married, the other with someone for 7 yrs, and has a 4 year old kid)

2007-10-26 21:13:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 21:09:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 20:17:31 · 2 answers · asked by soldierboy75496 1

I always try and text back as soon as I can once I receive a text. Often my friends take a while.
What is/how long is considered bad manners?

2007-10-26 19:47:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, to be frank I loose respect for guys when they talk about women as sex objects.

Why is it I see this alot in guys?

I am angry at people who outlet they're problems into drugs/sex.

But mostly my question is related to this-->

At work/school/wail mostly anywhere(when I get to know the guys) They seem to talk about girls like their just sex object and I seem to attract the druggies around me... like the druggies will tell me that they do pot and stuff... and I really seem to loose all respect for that person/persons after that...

Is it ok for me to be angry at them?

Is it ok for me to resent them?

Is it normal for a person to loose respect for somone after learning about their habbits?

and finally

What is a good perspective to have when dealing with situations like this?

2007-10-26 19:34:33 · 2 answers · asked by Aubrey C 2

how can i forget the love of my life . ?
love is like the dove two wings and a head. two wings are feelings and honesty. the head of the love is TRUST. i cannot trust her any more ( she had sex with other guy ) the head of the dove is cut . i still love her but i cannot live with her. how can i take
that love out of my heat .. plz ??

2007-10-26 19:32:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean when someone makes a joke in class and a guy starts laughing, smiling and looking at me from across the room? I caught him and did the same back. He kept a smile. I've talked to him before but we're not close at all. Thoughts?

2007-10-26 18:14:50 · 2 answers · asked by EM23 2

Hi, I am very distraught over a person I really care about.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 1/2 yrs. I am 45 and he is 49. He has diabetes and he drinks a lot. He drinks bottles of wine at a time. He holds down a job well because he works from home. He mostly drinks in the evening late at night.
I know I can't really do anything to help him to quit. Now he is smoking pot too. He has major mood swings. One week, he loves me, next he does not. He can never make up his mind. We have broken up and gotten back together a bunch of times. I thought I would try one last time. I moved in with him for the 2nd time in August, he already is saying he is wanting me out, but then he still acts like he is not sure sometimes.
Bad thing is i lost my job, job hunting..but no luck and now he is worse with his drinking. He says a lot of verbal mean things when he drinks, I am having more trouble forgiving him, says he don't remember some of it..I have no where to go, what do I do?

2007-10-26 17:38:36 · 10 answers · asked by Emma 1

2007-10-26 14:59:22 · 4 answers · asked by dumbuglyweirdo 5

If ur 17 but will be 18 in a month and a falf and u tell your parents you want to leave home but they wont let you so you leave anyway could u get in trouble if they got the police involved. and if someone left and stayed gone would they still be in trouble after they were 18?

2007-10-26 14:00:09 · 5 answers · asked by Atashi G 2

most of the member of our basketball varsity..we know each other since 4th grade being member of the midget team, then jr. team now sr. team..weve been comfortable with each other naked in the shower since we see each other way back when were not circumcised yet until now that we all have pubic hair except me which i only have very few pubic hair and none in my legs and armpit. all of them had sex already that according to them, of course i know some may be lying but it seems that they descirbe it very accurately whats the feeling of having sex. it leaves me the only one who is still a virgin. my GF since i was 14 we plan to have sex when we're ready and this time we thoughts its not the right time, i dont know when. though there are other girls who want me to have sex with them i thought i will not cheat my GF coz i love her. life is good for our team and we have won some championship and defeat as well. should i freak out being a virgin at 16...whats your thoughts..thanks

2007-10-26 13:59:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

smoke and do drugs? I am 16 and before and after school I see hundreds of kids in high school smoking. Half of the people in my classes smoke. Also, a lot of people just talk openly about the hits they want their friend to bring over that night or if they want to meet after school to smoke some crack. Why is it that so many people want to this when they know the consequences? It sickens me!

2007-10-26 13:57:59 · 1 answers · asked by charley 3

2007-10-26 13:28:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

im very shy person and when i do something my family makes a big deal out of it and they will embarrass and tease me about it.

like when i was 11 and i started to realy like girls they teased me about it big time not on purpose but they did. and when they do things like that it makes me not want to do what it was i was going to do.

so how should i tell them so that they wont act like they usualy do?

2007-10-26 12:06:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long will it take for my emotions to get back on track? when will the pain go away? I know it's only been 4 months but I won't cry I always felt that crying is a sign of weakness but I know it's not true...But I've always been the type of woman that really don't others to see me crying...what should I do?

2007-10-26 11:30:03 · 34 answers · asked by Shay Money 1

yeah all he does is stare and but idk if to go out with him again he told my friend he loved me and that he wants me back but he broke up with me the first time so idk what should i do.....give him another chance?

2007-10-26 11:27:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 11:11:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my closest friends has been involved with a married man for over a year. She cooled it off because she felt wrong for cheating on his wife with him. Now he claims he's legally seperated and says he's in love with her. She's also been casually seeing a coworker for a long time and even miscarried his child all while she was still communicating with the married guy. She says her relationship with the coworker is purely for sex and is now about to cool that off to give it a go with the married man even though she seems happiest when with the coworker. While I want her to be happy, I also think that she's making a mistake because the married guy has disappointed her before and seems very manipulative in guilting her into seeing him again. She thinks she's in love with him too but given how miserable she's been over him in the past, I'm concerned. I know I should not make it my business but I'm the only one who knows what's been going on. Am I wrong to be worried for her? Any advice?

2007-10-26 10:56:39 · 16 answers · asked by HackerGirl 1

after living with someone with breath like a hot tandoori for 10 years ..i`d prefer not

2007-10-26 10:49:51 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does BPD stand for no looking it up?

2007-10-26 10:47:23 · 8 answers · asked by lostinsantamonica 2

2007-10-26 10:38:14 · 38 answers · asked by Joe M 1

She comes to me crying with because her father hits her for really stupid stuff or if she is just in the way when he is pissed off. I dont want to just sit by and do nothing while it happens but I also dont want to screw up her life by telling someone and getting him taken away or worse, telling someone and them not taking him away. He will know she told someone and then really beat her. Apparantly it doesnt happen as much as it used to but I dont think it should happen at all. There are no really visable bruises.......... What should I do?

2007-10-26 10:33:46 · 13 answers · asked by answers are new questions 2

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am his first girlfriend. He is thinking of getting his own place soon. The problem is that he wants to live on his own for a while (who knows how long) before either living with his friends or with me. I am to the point where I am wondering if he will ever commit to me. I realize that he doesn't want to rush things, but we are not moving at all.
He is always late for everything, and always waits until the last possible minute to make plans. He is an incurable slob, his car and room are knee deep in garbage. I have tried so hard to talk to him about these things, and it changes for maybe a week and then he is back at square one. He has plenty of free time, so I don't see why any of this is still an issue.
I love him, but I am to the point where I am wondering if this is really what I want. I don't feel fulfilled, and I feel I have failed to make a positive impact on his life.
Will someone please help me out here?

2007-10-26 10:32:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Related: Linda Hamilton could probably whoop my ***.

2007-10-26 10:30:13 · 7 answers · asked by Brandon's been a dirty Hore 5

my friend had told me if a girl have sex wit a lot of guys she is a HOE,SLUT and some other rude word but if a guys was to do the samething he would be called the MAN!!!!

2007-10-26 10:12:47 · 6 answers · asked by tati7128 2

My hub has this disgusting habit - if he sees a smudge of something, anything somewhere in the house-on the floor, the wall, on the car, table, anywhere..he licks his finger and tries to wipe it with his spit finger!
Swear to god!
Like he has bionic super-cleaner spit or something!
I am SO SICK of nagging him about this but it's just so gross that I'm going to flip my lid if he doesn't stop it!
So besides just saying "that's gross" or whatever, please give me some other things to say to him to convince him to stop doing it! And saying that putting his fingers in his mouth is germy won't phase him-he thinks he has super immunity or something and I hate to say it but he never does get sick. But it makes me sick to watch him do the housework with saliva! Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

2007-10-26 09:58:32 · 14 answers · asked by JungleJane 4

He constantly winking at me and has this freakish grin, he called me a sexy stud soccer player, does that mean anything? Please give me some kind of help. thanks

2007-10-26 08:59:38 · 21 answers · asked by Cassie G 1

Someone on here answered a question of mine about cheating. She made the comment that, if you're not married, then its not cheating. Only married people can consider cheating, cheating. If you're not married, then you're just two people haing sex.

What do you think of that? Isn't that like saying cause your not married, its not a real relationship?

What are your thoughts on that?

I personally think its a flawed logic! Lying and hurt, is lying and hurt. Married or not!

2007-10-26 07:14:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 06:58:59 · 24 answers · asked by The Lost Elf 4

2007-10-26 06:20:54 · 14 answers · asked by alexis21 2