What would you classify this as(womens opinion mostly)?

Question

Ok, to be frank I loose respect for guys when they talk about women as sex objects.

Why is it I see this alot in guys?

I am angry at people who outlet they're problems into drugs/sex.

But mostly my question is related to this-->

At work/school/wail mostly anywhere(when I get to know the guys) They seem to talk about girls like their just sex object and I seem to attract the druggies around me... like the druggies will tell me that they do pot and stuff... and I really seem to loose all respect for that person/persons after that...

Is it ok for me to be angry at them?

Is it ok for me to resent them?

Is it normal for a person to loose respect for somone after learning about their habbits?

and finally

What is a good perspective to have when dealing with situations like this?

Answer 1

Hi there Aubrey, I was the same as you. I always seemed to make friends with people that did drugs, most people thought I did too just because I hung out with them. This was in the 70's and 80's.
Guys (most) think that it makes them look cool when they talk about girls in a sexual way, they get an ego boost when they Kiss and tell, so to speak.
Its ok to feel that way, you are a good person and have a big heart.
About the only thing you can do, is just walk away when guys talk like that. Or just dont say anything at all.

Btw, I had a good friend named Aubrey Collins.
Haven't seen him in years. Like your name. :)

Answer 2

i think it's just normal to have that kind of feeling toward them. what they do is completely wrong.

i suggest that you have to be really careful in dealing with them, try your best not to be influenced by them. it would be better if you will influence them.