Other - Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

My boyfriend had to go away in Atlanta, GA for a little while. I live in NJ and we decided that we should "do us" in the meantime b/c that was bound to happen anway. Well, after being hurt and troublesome thinking he find someone new and forget about me, I slept with his enemy 3 weeks ago. I respected him enough to let him know just incase the word would get back to him eventually. Well, I told him and it was not pretty. He says he can't hate me and he still have love for me, when when we would talk on the phone in the future, he would flip on me and bring it up again in rage. Men, does it really hurt when your woman sleeps with your enemy? does it make you angry? Is it forgivable? Does that mean you woman u thought to love is a slut? Would you ever speak to her again?

2007-10-22 22:52:38 · 5 answers · asked by EmpreSS 2

not ready. As he keeps on having excuses about me having to move out. He uses his mother as a scape goat. Saying she doesnt approve our affair but claims he loves me. 2 weeks ago i moved back to my parents home and decided to breakup with him. As he is not man enough to make his own decision. Was i too harsh? I dont wanna be with him anymore cause i believe he is lying to me. If he loved me he should have fought for our relationship. His mother cant decide for him. I told him to stop calling me as i need to move on with my life. AM I WRONG?

2007-10-22 22:14:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-22 22:11:54 · 26 answers · asked by joshua l 1

I recently had glandular fever,and im really anemic..this has made me really weak and tired so I find it hard to concentrate at school..exams are in a month and i dont think i can handle it, im failing every subject and noone really knows how hard it is for me.

My best friend isn't there for me anymore, we barely talk and my other best friend is going to the otherside of the world in a couple of months. My boyfriend of almost a year dumped me, and i know it was for the best but I'm still lonely.

I can't talk to my Mum, she just doesn't understand how I really feel. I'm tired of pretending im ok, when really im not. I just feel so isolated and so tired.

WHo can i talk to? Who can i turn to? I just dont want people to think im making excuses.

2007-10-22 20:31:44 · 23 answers · asked by XxElleNxX 1

"I like this girl
shes beautiful
and just great
but im not handsome enough for her
its not my fault
i didnt choose the way i look
but if i could i would change
life isnt fair but i learned that along time ago
dont pity me because im fine with it
fine that i wasnt blessed with good looks
good looks that you want
and the good looks ill never have
im not good looking enough and i dont want you to change to accept me
because i want to be accepted for me
ugly or handsome
i wish things could be different
but as i said before
life isnt fair

.........and neither are you...."

2007-10-22 20:07:44 · 4 answers · asked by Tai ! 1

2007-10-22 19:59:11 · 7 answers · asked by Natalia 4

a first cousin? do you think it's not really a big deal?

2007-10-22 18:51:16 · 19 answers · asked by daiberino 2

he graduated when i was a freshmen. we broke up a month into the summer. we didn't talk to months, he came back alum weekend, we slept together (which i was ok with), but all of a sudden he starts calling again. and called a second time and invited me out. It's planned and booked.

is he doing this because he wants me back?

2007-10-22 17:59:54 · 4 answers · asked by kiki30 1

our relationship lasted for almost 7 years. Due to some personal problem we could not tie the knot. Now i am married to another woman whom i really love. we have 2 children.
Suddenly i found my 1st lover who still loves me although she is now married. We met and have talk for few months. I am again in serious love with my 1st lover although i love my wife really from the heart. Actually i love both the women really from my heart.
Am i doing anything wrong?
What will be my future?
What should i do?
Please help.

2007-10-22 17:56:39 · 23 answers · asked by nutralx 2

Just found out that my 70 yr. old mother wrote ALOT of bad checks before she had to come live with my husband and me. I need to know where to turn, or how to handle this. She did this in N.C. but is now in Mo. Not sure how to handle this "long distance" problem. PLEASE, help

2007-10-22 17:15:51 · 1 answers · asked by Myra M 1

My moma passed away from stomach cancer in 2001, she was 42 and I was 24. I couldn't have asked for a better mom and best friend. I love her so much. Six years later I'm still breaking down every once in a while and crying myself to pieces. I have bad dreams that do not help either. I guess what I'm asking is will it ever get any easier? Is it still ok to cry?

2007-10-22 16:55:42 · 52 answers · asked by Dancing Girl 3

My wife says this kid is mine, but I don't think he looks a thing like me. What do you think?
http://www.43things.com/profile_images/view/KikiTaylor2

2007-10-22 15:10:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I m 19
yesterday i was masturbating in my room.
suddenly my elder sis (who is 20)came in my room nd saw me in that position.
Now m not comfortable talkin 2 her
wat shall i do?

2007-10-22 15:03:35 · 16 answers · asked by ronicks 2

I have been dating him for 5 months, we agreed to be exclusive, as I always have a feeling that he is keeping his options open, I asked to break up 2 weeks ago, he stopped me and talked about changing job to move in with me. He looked so serious that I didnt leave him cos I really like him a lot.
Today I found his account on a dating website, so I broke in his account(he has the same password as his labtop's log in password which he told me), and I found out he has set up a meeting with a girl for tomo.
I dont like doing things like this, is my behavior bad?
He has been seriously looking for a job in my area and talked about moving in December, why is he still meeting others?

2007-10-22 14:49:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy who i have know for a while and i think to him we are just friends but i want to know how i can do this (im in mi

2007-10-22 14:44:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy who im starting to like. I just lately have started talking to him and we kinda flirted. So in a joking manner i drew him a picture of his name and gave it to him (cheesey i know, but he liked it!) he smiled and actually seemed to like it. But now i dont know what to do to get his attention. any flirting ideas?

2007-10-22 14:15:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 19 year old boy. I am worried. Soap actress Hunter Tylo lost her son last week on Oct. 18 when he accidentally drowned in her pool. He was just a 19 year old boy.
(1988 - 2007). http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21419015

I also hear on the news, and quite occasionally in fact of teenage kids dying. I am quite scared and worried. I thought most people live around 65 years.
I am so scared I am next.

2007-10-22 13:07:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-22 12:18:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend & I live 4 hours apart and she does not want to be together on the Holidays & I wanted to spend the Holidays together & that isn't going to happen. She was molested by her father while growing up & tried to press charges against him & they told her that it had been too long. She is 34 now. She has dis owned her parents because of this & is breaking free of them. The mother knew & looked the other way & is still with him, She said she does not have any family & does not like the Holidays. She said she use to and she spent them alone last year. She said everyone at work is saying where they are going or what they will be doing & she said she has no family to be doing anything with. This thing with her "real"father happen in South Caroline. She lives in Texas now. I didn't think there was a time limit on something like this. She even remembers when she was in the crib and was afraid of her father and would cry for her mother not to leave the room.

2007-10-22 11:58:51 · 13 answers · asked by J.J. 1

My friends always depend on me for there happiness and it kind of bugs me because it feels like they are trying to get my energy like they basically mirror my image.

2007-10-22 11:24:54 · 12 answers · asked by DVD 3

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2007-10-22 11:13:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister and I are very tight. She just called me and said her boyfriend proposed. She said "i love him, but I just can't decide if I want to be with him for, you know, forever. What should I do?" Well, honestly, I can't stand the guy. He complains all the time and openly insults my family. So...I could my influence to break them up...but that'd be wrong. What would you do?

2007-10-22 10:50:37 · 58 answers · asked by Rachel R 2

wedding cake. How bout dem apples?

2007-10-22 10:45:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever cheated on your spouse/partner because you got drunk? If so, did you confess or keep it secret or did they find out?

2007-10-22 10:37:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy in my english class who sits right next to me. there's like seperate tables. there's five to each table. one day someone sitting right acrossed from me sent me a note saying that the guy sitting next to me was staring at my chest while i was looking at the board. and then the guy sitting next to me keeps tapping my shoulder and touching my hands and stuff. i don't know what to do. he was about to touch me again. so i told him not to touch me. he doesn't touch me anymore but like when i finish a test or something before him and i ask to go to the bathroom he asks me to please be quiet. i don't know what to do.

2007-10-22 10:10:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so audittions were today (for a musical that the school i go to is having) and i froze up while singing so i am really sad that i didnt get a part and after that i went to the audition sheet and got alex's (u people should know who alex is by now but if u dont then he is my freind/crush/stand partner in orchestra) phone number (u have to put your phone # on the audition sheet by the office) but he doesnt know that i have his phone # and today him and i got in a discusion about crushes and he told me who he has a crush on but i lied i told hiim that i have a crush on steven (my crush from last year) and it has been killing me since so should i call him and/or tell him the truth or should i just keep it all to myself and never tell him that i like him and never call him (well at least until he gives me his phone # and he knows that i have it) but please i am really sad,confused, and just feel like i made a really big lie that is gonna destroy the world sorry about how long it is

2007-10-22 10:05:14 · 5 answers · asked by spiritgirl2595 2

My fiance and I went to Nashville to see a concert and he got way out of control drunk. At the concert he spilled beer all over a guy in one of the lines, he threw an empty cup and cigarette carton on top of display in the lobby (with trashcans nearby) and was stumbling all over the place. We were still having a good time until he asked someone an inappropriate question very loudly. I was frustrated and slapped him with the intention to sober him a little and help him realize what he was doing. (I am a very small girl, and I wasn't malicious when I slapped him - i know it didn't hurt). He went crazy and slapped me back VERY hard. I left the concert and two people asked me on the way down the aisle if I needed help. He told me that I provoked him and I should have never slapped him. Basically, it was my fault. Is this worng? (Side note: I went back to our hotel where the police where called because he was beating on the door, cursing and telling me to let him in)

2007-10-22 10:03:39 · 62 answers · asked by SummerSwirls 2

Is it wrong for females to put them selves out there sexually like men do?Why or Why noy?

2007-10-22 09:40:08 · 13 answers · asked by *!Its Shay!* 1

he want to go farther with me. i want to and all. (i'm old enough dont worry) but like he always talks about and i keep saying yes... but he'll be my first and i'm not his( and he knows that) ....and like I'LL HAVE NO IDEA HOW! lol i seriuosly dotn want to be known as the girl who sucks at sex. lol . help pleazzz

2007-10-22 09:32:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my boyfriend because I wouldn't have sex with him.He got very mad. I can't get over him and it's hendering me from starting another relationship with someone else. What do I do. I still love him dearly but I know that I must move on?

2007-10-22 09:30:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous