I m 19
yesterday i was masturbating in my room.
suddenly my elder sis (who is 20)came in my room nd saw me in that position.
Now m not comfortable talkin 2 her
wat shall i do?
2007-10-22 15:03:35 · 16 answers · asked by ronicks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just carry on as if nothing happened.she can understand as she also must be doing it.
2007-10-22 15:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by love all 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U forget to lock the door.She enteredand sawu mast... U didnot mention how longwas she there. Did she turnedback immediately after seeing u or shesaw u as a full length movie.Anyway it is normal nothing to worry. Nexy timebe careful. Udonot talk about that with anyone in the house.I hope she will also not. But it is true ,whenever she does the same,she may think of tthis episode.
2007-10-24 06:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Worry Gentle Man.
This is natural thing: Before do like this things you have to close the door have to make sure if any body around you. Regarding your sister she knows better than you. She can understand everything after few days every thing will be all right.
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2007-10-24 02:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by badar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not give it more importance than the issue really has... she is 20 and not a little girl.
It would have been worse if your mom would have surprised you...
Just go on talking with her the same way as before.
I am sure your sister does the same - but she locks the door!!!
2007-10-25 07:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on as if nothing had happened and if she does bring it up, just tell her everyone does it at one time or another, it's perfectly normal.
If she feels that masturbation, then ask her to convince one of her female friend to have sex with you, better than masturbation.
2007-10-25 00:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by GAGI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too worried about yourself. How about apologizing to you're sister for putting her in such position. I'm sure she did not want to see you like that. should have locked the door.
tell her you are not sorry for doing it, because it is natural and most guys do it (including her boyfriend), but you are sorry she saw!
2007-10-22 15:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Cory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a good relationship with your sister then talk to her about it outside the house... make things clear so she has no issues and thoughts in her mind.. and after sometime things will be fine.. i am sure she shall behave mature enough.and be frank in all these matters because its not a mistake what u do is a safe sex .
2007-10-23 03:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til she's in the shower and walk in on her!!! same deal... then you'll be "even". You guys are too old to care about this stuff. You BOTH know that you BOTH do it so shut up and act like it was nothing!!!!
2007-10-22 18:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by ssgjwyf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a good relationship with your sister then talk to her about it outside the house... make things clear so she has no issues and thoughts in her mind.. and after sometime things will be fine.. i am sure she shall behave mature enough..
2007-10-22 23:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by V C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act normal as if nothing happened.....I m sure she will also not raise this topic......But from next time always keep the ddor locked...and yes windows too...
2007-10-22 21:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by v j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it unless she brings it up. If she does just look at her and smile and say,"Haven't you ever heard of safe sex before?" I'd be willing to bet that she's masterbated a time or too herself and won't bring it up! (No pun intended!)
2007-10-22 15:10:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋