he want to go farther with me. i want to and all. (i'm old enough dont worry) but like he always talks about and i keep saying yes... but he'll be my first and i'm not his( and he knows that) ....and like I'LL HAVE NO IDEA HOW! lol i seriuosly dotn want to be known as the girl who sucks at sex. lol . help pleazzz
2007-10-22 09:32:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey girl! omgsh wow i was like in your position a week ago, except a lil different. I didn't do it! I think it depends on how long you guys have been together. If it's been a short time then i wouldn't, and there is obviously a reason why you haven't done it so far with anybody...sex is a really BIG thing and it's very intament, it should be for somebody you really care about and love! If your having second thoughts then you shouldn't you would probably regret it, and another thing if he doesn't respect that you don't want to do it or aren't ready than thats not really cool. Guys respect girls more when they don't give it up easily and who aren't sluts! Email if you wanna talk more!
2007-10-22 14:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, remember your birth control and your condoms.
If this is the best guy for you, don't sweat it. Sex is something you learn through practice. Your desires and his lead the way but it's best to take turns or mutually be involved. Do some research.
After you've done it and gotten over the shock of it, you will lose your fear. Remember that you need to speak up about what feels good and what bothers you. Don't expect him to read your mind.
2007-10-22 16:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you're emotionally ready to handle sex. You have to have a very good understanding of yourself before you get physically intimate with a man. It's not a good idea to do it just because you have not done it before. It needs to be about trust, love and commitment. Take your time. Do NOT let him talk you into it. If he loves you he'll wait.
2007-10-22 16:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by supergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should be for people who love eachother. If he loves you, it won't matter if you "suck" in bed (pardon any puns). I was nervous about it to, what girl wasn't their first time?? If you're VERY sure you're ready than do it, but please be sure he's the one you love enough to be your first. Once you lose it you can't take it back.
2007-10-22 16:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by WiccaWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old enough or not.. I don't think you're ready yet....
Don't any of you girls read romance novels?
Try a book by Danelle Steele or Jackie Collins....
2007-10-22 16:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋