Other - Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

I have always had strong views toward marriage, and I have recently decided that I don't ever want to get married. I have seen how it ruins relationships. I honestly can not name a single married couple I know who is not miserable! I think there is some psychological trigger when two people sign those papers. I know this may sound wrong, but I have seen that is usually the womens fault. In many of the cases I have seen, the woman has changed drastically after marriage. Women are very controlling, especially with money. I am in college and I will be going to law school. I love living life to the fullest and I love expensive toys. I know that when I am able to afford it, I will have lots of nice cars, houses, boats, etc. I feel like if I ever get married I will never be able to have these things. I have seen a few cases where two people are not married and are very happy. I'm not saying that I don't want a lifelong companion/girlfriend, but I just don't want to say "I do".

2007-10-19 23:32:56 · 18 answers · asked by mike 2

im in a bit of a dilemma. i love my girlfriend but i am no longer turned on by her any more, in fact i basically dont want sex with her at all. I find her very attractive and we are kind of soul mates but im not sure what to do..i masturbate every day and would be happy to have sex with other girls, as they turn me on more...so what should i do? we have been together over 5 years, is it normal to find your partner boring after that amount of time?? pls help, should i stay with her and just not have sex at all???
in the past i cheated on her many times, could that be a reason why i feel i cant be with her anymore due to my subconscious guilty feelings?

2007-10-19 23:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by insane penguin 3

Please, I need help on this I hope u ll have pantience to reed and help me... :(
There is this guy from who was in love with me when I was in depression, he was always there to help me but I turned him down (his help), kindly ofcourse. I really liked him, but like I sad, I had some problems...
Then he found a girl, (ppl say she is a less hot version of me, but she looks a bit like me, even to me!)
He was with her for about 7 months, and they broke up.
He seemd to hit on me again, but I messed up again- first I had some guy, then I told him I like some other guy... He lost all hope and returned to his girl, now they are together again... He never told me that strikley, but he allways told everyone he likes me... He is usually a type who hits on feemales, but he thinks I am special.
What do I need to do now? I love him, and I think he loves me but he can't leave his girl. I even told my friedns I m sure he doesnt love her. Shoud I tell him that I love him...?

2007-10-19 23:27:13 · 6 answers · asked by mewee 1

It seems that that more I try to be quiet in the morning, the more noise I make. I'm up very early and cannot stay in bed. If I come downstairs say to make coffee, the water goes on, if I go to cook something, pots and pans make noise. I'll go on the computer and the sound level is up etc... any suggestions on how to be quieter so that I don't have to hear, "you make so much noise in the morning."

2007-10-19 23:14:28 · 4 answers · asked by You can call me Rob 6

There's this a girl in one of my classes that's cute, but she hasn't added me as a friend on facebook yet.

I see that she's friends with some of the other guys in my class, but not me.

We haven't really talked all that much. I just joined the class about 2 weeks ago, but I see her around campus at least 2-3 times a week. I think she knows my name. I had to introduce myself to the class, and she remarked that she had relatives in my home-state.

Why hasn't she added me as a friend?

2007-10-19 21:27:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont like when my sisters hang out with there boyfriends all the time and not with me. i dont trust their boyfriends, i am the youngest of three and i look up at my sisters when i was young. am i jealous or protective????

2007-10-19 19:44:40 · 7 answers · asked by whothiknow 1

He ever told me how much money he have. So what can i do.

2007-10-19 19:15:33 · 12 answers · asked by andrianna Angel 1

I've heard both sides of the story. Some say "It's great! I wouldn't trade it with anything in the world." In the other hand, I've also heard from others that it's bad and that I should never do it.

2007-10-19 18:26:39 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. Main Event 5

How will you select one .

2007-10-19 18:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by AUNTY 3

2007-10-19 17:53:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was at school outta town and teachers were scrambling all around rolling tv's into each classroom and 3 and 4 classrooms would combine and just sat and watched.....

i was on my phone trying to reach my mom or someone from home and people i didnt know helped me call home.

2007-10-19 16:41:05 · 20 answers · asked by badbitty101 2

my ex ended it, he really hurt me in the past couple weeks and I told him a few days ago I couldnt make him but since we are no longer together or friends he should remove the pictures of us together on his facebook which he has not. I have also recently found out he talks to my best friend to ask how I am and ask random stuff about me. He knows I am angry and is smart to stay away from me right now but what is up with him?

2007-10-19 16:32:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-19 16:18:51 · 6 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4

I''m a healthy man, love sex, and am quite normal (in my opinion), but all or most of my male friends love women with big hooters. Me? personally, I like them small, and perky. The women I've mentioned this to don't believe me, saying all men like them big, but honestly I don't. Am I weird, or what ?

2007-10-19 15:56:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

nothing was hurting, everything was great, first my lower body was trembling by itself then all of a sudden i started crying and i couldn't control it, my husband was worried hahaha in the end there was nothing to worry about

2007-10-19 15:48:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like this girl. and it's driving me crazy. i don't want this feeling. and i just want it to go away. i still like guys though. does that turn guys off? my old guy crush is hitting on me but i don't like him anymore because i like the other girl now. darn it. what should i do? i don't know if she is a lesbian although she is very masculine. i want the feelings to go away, what do i do?

2007-10-19 15:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

bug us more than some big things sometimes?

2007-10-19 15:32:25 · 5 answers · asked by Rayray 5

Ok, today at school, I was playing around with this girl and I tried to shut her locker when she was done, but instead, she stuck her head back in and I nearly knocked her out. I've been meaning to say sorry, but everytime I get close to her she says "I hate you"
What do I do?

2007-10-19 15:28:21 · 4 answers · asked by Albert 3

I have 4 kids. 14,13,5, and 16 mnths. 2 weeks ago my job had to lay me off because i missed too many days due to my spouse's heart condition. They do have me back for automatic rehire in 3 mnths though. Since than my 13 year old daughter has been acting as if i owe her for losing my job. She no longer hardley does anything around the house and she acts as if she does everything ( I've had to resort to washing our laundry out by hand, and I've taken up 4 different paper routes that I do by foot 7 dys a week, so we can at least make rent). I'm up at 3 am and when I do finally lie down for an hour nap when she gets home from school at 4:30 she acts as if I'm being lazy and requiring her to do too much. Her Dad and i have tried everything we can to give her some space, while asking some responsibility the 3 older kids,1 is cooperating the best he can with a broken collarbone. What do we do? I'm trying to do the best I can and i'm about to go crazy w/ worry, stress & lack of sleep.

2007-10-19 15:17:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 13


I live in a duplex with my 17 yr old brother and parents

My brother is a snotnose and i have to share a room with him we are both guyz i think we need our own rooms


My house had one floor the other one was a duplex we have to go outside to get their though

I never had my own room when wemoved in 96 i was a baby in didnt have a say in the matter if i got my own room or not

i always get colds cause of my brother


does my life suck?

2007-10-19 15:15:12 · 28 answers · asked by Washington Prince 2

Well. I had to tell my mom that i have kissed my Bf, who i have been dating for 2 months, and now she won't leave me alone about it...... She always have to make a way to make fun of me! I am 14! wat can i do to make her leave me alone!!!

2007-10-19 14:51:35 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl_06342 1

"Mommy, I want to marry you!"

I know, it's totally weird... not to be taken literally... and it essentially means "I love you for life!" :) :) :) What are some of YOUR favorite innocent questions from out of the mouths of your babes?

2007-10-19 14:50:00 · 3 answers · asked by Insomniac Butterfly 4

This is a complicated situation, but I will try to give a brief summery. My mother passed away in June of last year. My Grandmother (Her Mom) passed away in April of this year. A few weeks before my grandmothers death, My uncle who had power of attorney over her estate changed beneficiaries on her IRA account to himself and my father. This eleminated my sister and I from getting what would have been my mother's share of the IRA since she passed away before my grandmother. We have just learned that my uncle has power of attorney of our step grandfather's estate. This was done two months ago. There is no blood relation. Our dad mentioned this to us after our Grandfather was found in a town several miles away without knowing where he was or how he got there. A medical review now shows he is incapacitated. He does have blood relatives living as well as grand children from a previous marraige. However; according to our dad his will does not include them.

2007-10-19 14:38:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there a such thing as loving someone to much?

2007-10-19 13:21:11 · 32 answers · asked by Lee23Lee 2

mothers raise there sons fathers lieve them, so then who is the man in said mans life, but his mother.

2007-10-19 10:15:03 · 2 answers · asked by foxy_blue00 3

i'm dating with my bf for a month now. we argued 2 days ago, and i wanted to break up. the reason is really stupid but now I don't like him anymore. I can't simply say to him that I'm bored. today he sent me tons of messages, and tried to talk to me. so i said ok but i don't want him :( all in all he is a nice guy and hasn't done anything bad to me. the problem is that he is my classmate and we will be in the same class for 2 years more. What should i do now? How can i reject him politely, i don't want to break his heart :(((

2007-10-19 09:52:01 · 7 answers · asked by єуℓüℓ 4

We've been friends since we were fourteen. She has two children both under the age of two, and her boyfriend "pushes her around" she's described the results as making her head blead and breaking her elbow. The only negative thing she says about him is that he is 'immature' because he will leave her and the kids. We've been long distance friends for many years and now we live two states appart. She has low self esteem, and i'm worried about her. How can i communicate this when the place where she's living (we both grew up in the same place) is rampant where wife-beating is an every-day thing, and where drunken fights end up causing murders every saturday night?
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2007-10-19 08:46:32 · 9 answers · asked by justkiddingu 2

My significant other moved out to his own place. Mostly due to stress from our home situation and my daughter. Out of frustration he yelled at my children (17 and12) and upset them.
Now my daughter, who used him as an excuse as to why she wasn't coming home on weekends, is still not wanting to abide by the rules and is gone most of the time.
She's out and not going to come home on weekends anyways. She's 18 in a few months.
She's out doing what she's always done and has told me she doesn't care at all that I'm now alone. She doesn't even want him over to watch tv with me or spend an evening. She says I have to choose between her or him.

When do children dictate too much regarding their parents new relationships?

Do you allow your children to say who they want you to see, and when....if it's not him, wouldn't the issues be the same with another man? ??
How do you find a balance between kids and the new person in your life?

2007-10-19 08:44:51 · 3 answers · asked by xxxxi 1

Two of my best friends have told me that they like me. I told them that I just want them as friends, because I don't feel that way about them. One of them has tried to be just a friend, and is doing it well, but the other keeps bringing the topic up and asking me why I don't want him as more tham a friend. AHe acts differently towards me to. I'm worried that our friendship might be in jeapordy. Please help!

2007-10-19 08:44:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im realizeing, I have friends, family that I rarely see but I do see... I feel like everytime I say something I get cut off and since Im so scared to be rude I just stop what Im saying and never get a word in other that "oh yeah" or asking them a question about what they just said. Do I just have nothing interesting to say or what? How do I let them see that I have something to say too?

2007-10-19 08:41:01 · 7 answers · asked by Mommyof3 BGB 5