Other - Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

To experience the firsts' of your newborn child.
The love of a woman
To make a difference in someones' life
To walk your daughter down the Isle
to hold your first grandchild

what an experience these are.

The Power of Love..

2007-10-17 23:59:12 · 14 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5

Im 26 with no kids.no responsibities,i live with my parents,dont own a car and im not married.I had the odd relationship now and again but nothing serious.Not because i dont want one but because i just dont find any body appealing.I have a wonderful job.I have certifates and diplomas and nw im doing a degree.People say i should be happy cos i dont have kids which is difficult to grow up and that i dont have to worry bout a man been unfaithful to me.Should i envy all my friends who have kids and are married or do they envy my life?

2007-10-17 23:16:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 21 years old,Me & my girlfriend have been dating for 4 months. She invited me to spend the night at her house. When i was about to do so my parents decided that they where not going to let me stay the night ,because they did not know my girlfriends family very well t...so we argue and i decided to give up and i had to make up an excuse 4 my girl..... well. ........DO you think this is right, should parents make decisions/ or get involved in their so n/daughters relationship ???

2007-10-17 20:06:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 4 months pregnant by my bf & unhappy in the relationship.I feel as if he is seeing other people.He spends no time with me & I rarely hear from him.When I try to break up with him he begs for me back.He has an ex gf he talks to all the time.She says he promises her they will be 2gether, he doesnt deny it.They havent seen each other in a year.He is going 2 Iraq in Dec for 15 months.What should i do now?I really dont want to be with him.He tells me we are getting married before he leaves but i dont believe anything he says cause he proved to me once he is a player.I also think he uses me for money because he is flat broke and i have a good amount of money invested.He doesnt know that but he sees how i am living and knows i am well off.I have plans to give up the baby for adoption and never talk to him again.I shouldnt be here when he returns.My feelings are so hurt and want to leave him now.My question,is it a good idea to leave him like that and give up the baby & is he cheating.

2007-10-17 19:24:36 · 25 answers · asked by Blessed21 5

I think that my younger, 14 year old brother, has a foot fetish. I personally think that this is rather cute, and I would like to ask him to massage my feet, because I know he would enjoy it as much as I would.

Is this a bad thing to encourage? Or do you think I'd be ok to ask him to do this for me?

2007-10-17 18:37:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi....i was in a relationship where i abused my boyfriend many times, and I don't like to admit it but i need answers. Anway I use to hit him very hard and sumtimes keep hitting him over and over again very hard, i knew it hurt becaus I left marks many times and he wud just take it.and not do anything, but on 3 different occasions in the span of like 5 months he defended himself and wud push me off and he hit me once each time and stopped quickly and wouldn't hit me no more. He this is the only time he did anything abuse to me and he went through alot of abuse he snapped like 3 times out of 20. Now he is telling me that he knows he was wrong n for hittin me but he only did it in self defense n wudn't hurt me nemore, what should I do, is he really abusive or is it my fault? like I said he only hit me three times n never so much as slapped me ne other times and it was all wen i was abusing him. Help.

2007-10-17 18:27:22 · 29 answers · asked by Ashley J 1

I am 30 and my father has been on drugs since I can remember. Me, my mother and brother moved out of state when I was 11, and I recently moved back 4 years ago. My father is abusive to his girlfriend and was very abusive to my mother. I mean he has done some terrible things. He lives with his girlfriend part of the time and part of the time he lives on the streets like a bum.

I was downtown with my cousin one weekend and saw him walking. He was dirty and ungroomed and I just broke down and cried. The thing is he chooses to live that way. He likes to make people feel sorry for him. It's always all about him and what he's going through. Poor dad this and poor dad that. He calls me to say he's homeless and hungry and he expects me to do something about it.

Sometimes I go 2 months or so without hearing from him. Then one day I'll call his girlfriend's house and he'll be there. His first words are "I'm hungry and need you to bring me something to eat!". He says it in such a ...

2007-10-17 17:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

i met this married guy three months ago, he invited me to go out & have dinner since Ive helped him in a certain business project. We had fun together although we both knew that were comitted. Still, we continue to hang out. One time, we were both drunk and something happened to us. I try to end it since weve gone through very quick. But he keeps on saying he loves me so much & vice versa. Now, i felt guilty & trying to get him out of my life, but he keeps on calling & texting me.... I really feel sorry for my husband, most of all, i felt guilty. How can i end it up to him? Knowing the he throws away all my worries in life and he brighten my day. Even im saying goodbye... my heart says no. What should I do?

2007-10-17 17:51:53 · 7 answers · asked by cutie 1

A long time ago, a close friend asked me to promise that I'd tell her if I was ever thinking about hurting myself. We got in a fight last week and I spent the weekend wanting to kill myself. I haven't said anything to her, and don't know if I should because she's going to feel like its her fault.
From my current point of view, there's nothing to be gained by telling her, and she's going to feel horrible about it if she knows. On the other hand, if I don't tell her and she finds out later, she'll both feel guilty about it and be hurt that I didn't tell her.

2007-10-17 15:40:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know its private but hey I want to know?

2007-10-17 15:21:05 · 42 answers · asked by ncmd 1

Okay so my boyfriend,son's father, crashed his car about a month and a half ago and I happened to lose my job around the same time.So everyday I would pick him up and drop him off at work. We were not living together before and he would come over about once or twice during the week and sometimes stay on the weekends. Well since the accident he had been staying at my house almost every night. I would drop him off at work pick him up and do the same almost everyday. Occasionally he would want to stay one or two nights at his own house(his moms). Well that's the background...here is the problem or maybe it's not. He got a car last week and he didn't come over on Monday and didn't hardly talk to me all day either, Tuesday he didn't come over, Today Wed. he said he would come over and then at about 7:30 pm I called and asked him where he was and he said he wasn't coming and was going to his boys house. I was like I told u this was going to happen and he said I was overreacting...hold on..

2007-10-17 15:06:59 · 5 answers · asked by Confused 2

This may sound weird my gf of 11 month always talks about sex with me. She brings it up and makes comments about how sexy I am, and how much she wants me and compliments me all the time about how good I am in bed etc. But some way or another all or most of our convos we talk sex. She says "oh baby i want you right now" and sometimes im just not that into it and i have to tell her something sexy back so i dont disappoint her but I think she talks about it way too much for me.

Sometimes I just want to talk about why I love her, and appreciate her, say sweet and nice things. BUt she tells me she loves talking about sex because she loves to be with me, that she loves how I make her feel, and how we just are together. BUt its always about sex and at times its like "come on can we talk about something else?"

But i dont want to be mean to her or make her feel bad that I dont appreciate her and love her. Its just if she loves me I dont want it to be experssed through sex or sexual terms

2007-10-17 14:17:24 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

he ended things with me but said give things time. its been a month and he still has all of our pictures up, I really dont find it necessary since we arnt together to have pictures of us together and me laying on him, hugging. I care but I took mine down. What is up? I mean I am sure it could be laziness but who knows. He knows how to do it. I mean most of his pictures are of us, Its going to make him look attached

2007-10-17 13:08:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-17 12:45:29 · 9 answers · asked by tiffany_bratz 1

2007-10-17 12:41:00 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

In high school i have been:
-Taunted
-Cursed at
-made a mockery of via interweb
-dumped
-hit

among other unspeakable things that no other high schooler should go through

Well now i have corporate scholarships, i am 10 in my class, have highly proficient SAT test scores and im probably going to JHU.

I feel that i should get some sort of revenge against these idiots in my class that have humiliated and tormented me. I know im better than these fools, but im trying to find a way to make these assholes in my class suffer for the **** they did to me. How can i start making their last months in high school hell as they made my entire high school career? I want to rub the fact that im superior in their faces.

2007-10-17 12:37:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if not, did you regret it?

2007-10-17 12:33:04 · 1 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5

I have ask a different version of this ?, but I am 7 weeks pregnant and the baby's father says he doesnt want a child, after he told me before that he did just not ye, and if I turned up pregnant we would just deal with it. I was told just to give him time to get used to the idea of being a father and I dont bring it up to avoid argument or to just not be pushy right now being that i still have a good ways to go before I need to make any real preparations for the baby's arrival. But He is getting more distant and telling me that its hunting season and I wont see him as much. But we have been together for two hunting seasons and he has never been away this much before. He moved out in July saying we need time apart and he's not sure when or if he will be coming back. I know I dont need him to live with me to raise a child but for the life of me I cant figure this out. I have given him his out, from the relationship and he says he doesnt want to break up, I dont know what 2 do.

2007-10-17 12:12:31 · 4 answers · asked by cindy s 3

I have used Secret in the past and I switched to Dove , and I like using the invisible kind , but secret left me feeling stickey and staining my clothes in the armpits area and dove , well its not holding my persperation. Im still getting wetness on my clothes in the armpit area. Anyone know the best deodorant to use ?? Thanks !

2007-10-17 12:02:03 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i will tell u whats underneath if u tell me what u would do with it

2007-10-17 11:12:43 · 9 answers · asked by williepuller 1

2007-10-17 11:05:53 · 8 answers · asked by I love my baby[11/11/06]!!!!!!! 1

ok so why do guy have to act so stupied and jerkish when there around girls????

2007-10-17 10:56:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a freshmen and i have a huge crush on a junior. I think he is REALLY hot and everyone says he is the nicest person and he is a GREAT student!!! The only thing bad about him is i guess he is really self centered and he is a big jock. He is all i think about and whenever I walk past him i get butterflies in my stomach and I start blushing. What is this called?? I have never once spoken to him and I really want do but i have no classes with him except lunch. I know that i feel something for him but i don't know what it is. Do I like him or what????????

It is the most amazing feeling whenever I see him. I get all happy and my stomach starts acting weird and i seriously cannot stop smiling...=)!!!!

2007-10-17 10:51:17 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ 1

I'm 23, he's 36. I love him, he loves me. He drinks and smokes a bunch of BS from time to time. When he doesnt have either one, he takes out his aggression on me. He says if we relocated or got away for awhile, he'd be just fine.Basically he wants REhab without being REmoved from society, me, and his loved ones. What to do???

2007-10-17 10:45:29 · 6 answers · asked by ~*~FiJi's FiNeSt~*~ 2

it seems they are all out seeking for a sucker. i mean if that's the way life is and nothing more, what's the point? and then i say if you're not looking for a sucker, hang on, and don't do them a favor to give up on life because they think they can scam you.
who knows? maybe i'm doing the wrong choices. i will admit i get pretty impressed sometimes for all the wrong reasons.
is it so hard to be honest? doesn't this cat and mouse game gets you down? hell yes i'm clever enough to scam anybody but i just don't want to. what does that make me? a winner? big deal. in the end you're a scumbag and you know it and you get your share as well.
i think i'll do it my way. and we'll see in the end who will be the winner and who loses. i haven't seen so far all these sucker-seekers getting ahead better than me. i'm kinda sad and angry too. has anybody else seen life this way?
why have human relationships gone this way?

2007-10-17 10:43:29 · 12 answers · asked by sarah kay 5

my ex girlfriend is convinced i dont care.

We had been together for 3 years and said a few things i regret.

How do i convince her i do care?

2007-10-17 10:29:50 · 3 answers · asked by John 1

for me... a large turkey sandwich with french fries on the side!

2007-10-17 10:26:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

or a previous addiction

2007-10-17 10:23:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been at this job for about a month. This girl I work with slept with our manager and was recently promoted. It wasn't like a big promotion but she makes more than I do. He flirts with a couple of the girls here but most of them ignore him because they think he's a pervert.
I don't really care. I'm pretty sure he's married but he says he's not. I went out with him yesterday just for a couple of minutes to pick up lunch for the rest or the office. He's not that bad looking and sex is just sex right?

2007-10-17 10:12:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-17 10:05:57 · 55 answers · asked by SunnySunshine 1