is it important 4 couples 2 get to know each other's family?

Question

I am 21 years old,Me & my girlfriend have been dating for 4 months. She invited me to spend the night at her house. When i was about to do so my parents decided that they where not going to let me stay the night ,because they did not know my girlfriends family very well t...so we argue and i decided to give up and i had to make up an excuse 4 my girl..... well. ........DO you think this is right, should parents make decisions/ or get involved in their so n/daughters relationship ???

When i mean spend the night i mean, sleep at her apartment

Answer 1

Know?!Literally yes of course its important too. 'If ever' you decided to get married someday or even just a couple at first either way you still have to know her family. Your thinking that its not that important this time since you've been dating for a couple of months now but eventually both of you will feel the need of knowing once family. One thing is that you'll be able to know her background on what kind of family she'd been. If you love her its a good feeling to know also who she loves. She may also thinks that you are not just interested only to her but part of her too :)
Parents sometimes are overreacting they told you what to do because they are used to do that but since you are a 'grown up' now its all up to you if you will follow them or not. Some parents really wanted to be involved in their daughter/sons relationship but please don't let them decide for you just listen to what they say since they are more experienced but just weigh it and thats for you to decide not them.

Answer 2

If you are still livning at your parents home, you must do what they say, I guess. if you want to do something else, then you need to get your own apt.

Answer 3

no. trust me it ruins relationships