Other - Family & Relationships - 17 October 2007

2007-10-17 09:49:26 · 5 answers · asked by carolina a 2

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and love him so much. He does everything for me, well what he can anyway. One thing, I am a total romantic, adventurous and passionate sap and he ....well isnt. He is not creative what-so-ever and never takes me out or asks me to do anything. I hate this!
Is this normal in a relationship??
If so, how do I get him to do something without me always having to plan and call my friends to do something?
Another thing, he gets pretty jealous and is constantly thinking every man around is interested in me or a "Rich" man will capture my interest and I will leave him. NOT TRUE!
I know it is his insecurity but what can I do to help?

2007-10-17 09:42:24 · 5 answers · asked by Suko 2

We share 50/50 custody with my husbands 7year old daughter. We have been the only parents involved in any and all school and sports activities for the past 3 years. Her mother has never met her teachers, not once and our daughter has been asked to be retained in Kindergarten, 1st and 2nd grades due to slow learning skills. She was diagnosed 2X (we got a 2nd opinion from another psychiatrist) and both doctor's requested she be medicated. They both also said she will continue to struggle in school and without meds this can be detrimental to her socially, emotionally & academically. However, we cannot legally medicate her without her mom's consent. We've asked her mom to attend all the meetings with the teachers and doctors for the past 3 years, but she hasn't shown up to one. Whenever we suggest some type of therapy or retention in school, she refuses to oblige. We are concerned and are consdering getting an attorney to mandate medication therapy and full custody. We want her to succeed.
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We also know her mother does not do her homework with her and does not check it so there is inconsistency between our homes. Her mother takes medications (Prozac, Zanax) so it seems inconceivable to us why she's oppositional on this matter. We also know her moms boyfriend is an alcoholic and drinks every night. She has even witnessed physical abuse between the two if them. One more thing, she lives in a home with her mom, 3 other siblings, the boyfriends parents and the boyfriends brother and girlfriend. 9 ppl in a 1600 sq ft home. It's ridiculous. These are additional reasons we are seeking full custody, not just the ADD/ADHD factor.

2007-10-17 09:37:35 · 6 answers · asked by Tiff 2

and he does not listen to our rules, and trys to take run of the house. right now i been looking for a place for him to move to.. i cant take his disrespect anymore, he also brings cops here daily and gets in trouble alot with law. pety stuf mind you, but police know him personlay and dont like him..my husband works midnites so he isnt much help. son is up all nite raiding our fridge and so forth, he does not pay rent or anything, just his phone bill. im asking here is it rude to just go get him a place to live, even if its a slum, since he cant afford much. but he is corrupting my house hold, has been since he was 16yrs old, now 23 yrs old...he refuses help or counsiling, he and i do not speak with out arguements he lies to his dad all the time on everything, he leaves all hours of the night and leaves my door open, returns about 10 min before his dad gets home, and usualy drunk. and loud..hubby had enough as well but feels sorry for him.. he also has a gf and baby..

2007-10-17 09:27:21 · 10 answers · asked by flowerlegz 3

so i have this friend, we have been friends for about 6 yrs now, they prob is that she is sooo unstable when it comes to men. she has a different guy atleast every other month , and gets in horrible situations cause of it. I feel that she is really desperate to find " her soulmate" , she has a pattern. Week 1: i met this guy he is great. week 2 ohh i i love him, he is the one week 3 the guy is already in her house sleeping over she is cooking and cleaning for them , mind you she has a 3 yr old daughter who is seeing all of this, by the 5 th or 6 week , she is already having a problem with the guy and leaving him or him leaving her. Now of course she comes to me for advise , and i am a very honest person. i will not sugar coat anything for her, I tell her exactly what i feel , that basically she she doesn't give her relationship the time to grow correctly. she is jumping from stage 1 to stage 5 basically, and skipping the middle.

2007-10-17 09:26:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

AHH!i cant believe i let myself slip up. i have a D- in two of my classes now! theres only one week left of this quarter, and if i get tht on my report card...i`ll get kicked off the cheerleading squad & be humilliated.I hate myself. its 100% my fault. is it even possible to bring my grades up to a C- in one week?! advice please...

2007-10-17 09:17:55 · 6 answers · asked by life goes on ♥ 1

Does it depend on your relationship status?

2007-10-17 09:12:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I MEET THIS GUY A YEAR AGO WE TALKED FOR A WHILE BUT HE LIVES ABOUT AN HOUR AND A HALF AWAY, AND WE TRIED TO MAKE THINGS WORK OUT SO WE COULD BE TOGETHER BUT THINGS ALWAYS CAME UP ON MY END WHEN I WAS SUPPOSE TO GO. SEE HIM.AND THATS ONE OF THE MAIN REASONS WE STOPED TALKING.HE SAID I NEVER MADE TIME FOR HIM AND THAT I ALWAYS PUT OTHERES BEFORE US. RIGHT NOW IN MY LIFE FOR THE LAST 1YR AND A HALF. LIFES BEEN REALLY HARD. MY DADS SICK, I AM HELPING MY PARENTS RAISE MY TWO NEPHEWS AND MY NEICE.AND ITS HARD TO DO WHAT I WANT TO DO NOW A DAYS. AND I AM WORKING FULLTIME AND ITS NOT THAT EASY TO JUST GET UP AND LEAVE ON THE WEEKENDS . AND EXPECTS SO MUCH FROM JUST LIKE MY FAMILY DOES. I GET SO STRESSED OUT. WERE TALKING AGIAN AND I WANT TO TRY TO MAKE IT WORK . HE WANTS ME TP DROP EVERYTHING AND I KNOW I CANT. WHAT DO I DO. I TRY MY BEST TO PLEASE EVERYONE BUT ITS SO HARD I AM ONLY ONE PERSON ... SOME ONE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE I FEEL LIKE IM GOING TO HAVE A NERVOUS BREAK DOWN AND I M JUST 20

2007-10-17 09:00:05 · 11 answers · asked by bashfulmexicana 2

from common house hold matirials. it can not me scarry or un comfortable he has to crawl on the floor. and climb in and out of his wheel chair. he has had a stroke on his left side and has trouble with his left hand.. any Ideals

2007-10-17 08:48:19 · 3 answers · asked by Monica S 2

I forgot to mention that my father shouts and screams a lot.He takes things so seriously.

2007-10-17 08:40:13 · 8 answers · asked by Lolaaaaa 1

2007-10-17 08:34:50 · 4 answers · asked by snozzberries 4

2007-10-17 08:24:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's always been popular and has had lots of men friends, white, black ,brown, old and young. Normally she is careful but has slipped up. She wants to keep the baby because of the benefits she will be able to get. Regarding the dad is the problem she wants to choose one she likes but I'e told her to go for the one with the biggest bank balance.

2007-10-17 07:43:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were at a fair and rodeo watching his 12 yr old daughter perform in a karaoke contest and we walked in together and he made eyes at me in front his soon to be ex-wife and his and her parents. I also took pictures of his 2 daughters and him and his 12 yr old daughter. His mom gave me and my 2 sons $20 to eat. He shouldn't have been making eyes at me in front of her. It was not the right place or time. We are attracted to each other and know how we feel about each other. What do you think the outcome is going to be after his divorce is final?

2007-10-17 06:50:36 · 6 answers · asked by mldavr29 1

I am 26 and my husband is 31. He goes out with his friends may be 3 times a month.they leave around 11.00 pm and do not come home before 4.00 am. Last night he asked me if he can come back the naxt day. I just did not know what to tell him. He is very undestanding he would not say no to me if i ask him that if i can stay out whole night with my girl friends.and evey time that is what he tell me to go out with my freinds but i am not from here i dont have many friends here. Do you think whatever he is doing is right? should i let him go for night out, Also if i tell him dont go. he doesnt go. he make sure that i am ok with him going out, I dont know how to handle this. do you think he should come home before 2.00. PLEase help

2007-10-17 06:11:20 · 17 answers · asked by julie 1

A woman's bosom can sink ships...

A woman's bosom can stop or even start wars...

A woman's bosom can start the heart rushing and can even cause heart attacks...

So is a woman's bosom truly her most dangerous weapon?

Just imagine if woman were allowed to walk the streets topless. I would stop breathing and my heart would beat so fast that I would have to sit against a wall to stop from shaking.

But perhaps with time I would be able to be calm with such beauty exposed for the world to enjoy:)

2007-10-17 05:30:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My man says he does not know how to put himself in other peoples positions and try to feel how they must feel,does thgis mean he has no empathy towards others? why can I do it so well?BEcause im a women? Or because ive been through alot?

2007-10-17 04:52:54 · 10 answers · asked by tina m 1

i believe that everybody has a 'Person'. someone who they feel connected to more than anybody else.
For me, it was my Grandmother.

and It's weird..
Even tho she is gone, she is still my "Person" .

What IS UP with that?

2007-10-17 04:42:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have bad gas issues. all day, every day. I have accidently let it out twice while sleeping when my boyfriend stayed over. Lately, i've been sooo afraid of having it slip that I do not let him sleep over. Last time after we made love, we rested a bit and I said baby, you have to go. he was like I HAVE to go? I made an excuse about getting up early. He didn' like it but left. I felt bad, but what can I do? I know flatulence is normal but that doesn't mean it's ok to break wind in front of people! any suggestions?

2007-10-17 04:27:51 · 13 answers · asked by Lily 3

My husband is in Iraq, usually we dont wrte we just talk on the phone, but I want to write him something special That will make his day wonderful... Only problem is that I have never been really good at writing a love letter...I can persuade someone in a letter to do just about anything, but when it comes to love, I'm no good at it. Can someone give me tips or direct me to a site for help or something? I can't put my feelings on paper so please don't just say to do that.

2007-10-17 03:55:08 · 13 answers · asked by Special K 2

Ladies hat would you do if your boyfriend or husband (mostly want married women to answer this)?
I am not married it is happening to someone I care about very much (family member)

her husband cheated on her this whole summer and she separating and it gets worst she has three kids under 12. His girlfriend is actual therapist and been married three times (great therapist auh)

First of all as a sister what should I do and why? And do not judge our relationship we are very close

and what should she do she still love him obviously for not divorcing what up front and why?
some one else said I can report the therapist but my mom brung up a good point she will then rely on him and leave my sister and kids in the dust. However I want hurt them as much as they hurt my sister what should I do

If this therapist that he has been having an affair with was one he was seeing then this is cause to be reported as their is a law against therapists having any type of sexual relationship

2007-10-17 03:51:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi:
I want to know the precedure for seemantham to be performed in the US. What are the steps to be followed to conduct
seemantham and valaikappu? and kindly tell me the materials needed.
savithri

2007-10-17 03:08:23 · 4 answers · asked by savithri_gopalan 3

I've been dating this guy for a while and he is the sweetest thing ever and I love him so much...! his mom won't ever let him come over to my house !!! He's 19 I think he should be able to make his own choices! He has his own job and pays for everything of his I think he should get to make the choice whether or not he wants to come over to my house! but she is getting in between our relationship! and I don't want her to effect our relationship! What should I do?

2007-10-17 03:03:05 · 18 answers · asked by lil_ms_attitude122 2

My boy friend is so boring to talk to! When ever he comes over we do "stuff" but i like to be emotional and pour some feelings out to him. All he ever says is sorry and cool when i say good and bad things! It gets annoying. I love him to death but i'm not sure what to do. Should i work on makeing our relationship exciteing or should i leave him for somthing better?

2007-10-17 02:45:30 · 6 answers · asked by Robin 3

At nine I was raped then molested until 12 when I learned to phyically fight to protect myself. I am now a grandmother and ready to retire, let me tell you the shame the fear the disgusting feelings of I did something wrong Never leaves. It has followed me all my life. I think these ABUSERS should be killed.

2007-10-17 02:35:23 · 18 answers · asked by grandma 2

She came back from a family holiday realising that the world is bigger than our town, she doesnt want commitment and thats it. I've tried to be friends but now she is drifting away. We were friends before we dated. I'm quite a lonely person, I was so happy to be with her and I really don't want to loose that friendship. The confusing thing is that during the last 10 weeks we have met up and got on really well, but its getting less and her communication sucks.

2007-10-17 02:05:13 · 16 answers · asked by UK J 1

well i dont know! what is it like to have sex? what does it feel? and how? yuck!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-17 02:00:30 · 12 answers · asked by Cheska 1

I am 17 year old female. like most teenagers im gaving problems with my family, but it is not the expected arguments and row. i get death threats from my dad because im with a black guy and have been with him for 2years. i get abused by my mum and dad, they tell me im a hoe, asking where i work because they think im a prostitute, according to them i come home late ( im home by 7pm). i go college im religious and i dont want to leave home but io feel like i have to because apart from all this im being pressured into marrying my mums cousin who is 30. ive been to the councel before but my parents told them that they wat me back home so i had to leave the hostle.
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2007-10-17 00:32:40 · 7 answers · asked by lilstar 2

Live out in the country, we had an aurgument last night as he was playing games on computer, me in the sitting room like a single mum with our 2mth old baby.. i lot it and just went to bed, got up this morning told him to stay away and he packed all his stuff and is now gone.... My question is, is it a mans world... why can he just feck off and if i just feck off im a horrible woman who left her kids and hes a wonderful single dad??????? Why am i still here??? Gawd, im having a bad day!!!!!!!

2007-10-17 00:17:52 · 14 answers · asked by tasha200 3