Other - Family & Relationships - 13 October 2007

i've saw it in my family many times and i think you should be happy with what your son wants to do with his life just because it's not sports! men seem to want there sons to be into sports growing up...it's so annoying!

2007-10-13 23:32:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My BF&I have been dating for about 4 months now, even though hes breaking the rules, his parents arent that strict as long as i attend church with him. But whenever we go out to the maovies, mall, even in a VONS i cant hold his hands or hug him in publlic [he'll literallly push me away]. This guy really has my heart and to not be able to show that to him and have to treat him as any other one of my guys friends breaks my hear. How am i supposed to hande this?

2007-10-13 20:15:40 · 2 answers · asked by Alyza 1

I was just wondering if people consider it molestation for a 16 year old guy to touch an 11 year old even if she goes along with it but she realizes it wasnt right nd felt ashamed later in life.

2007-10-13 19:55:45 · 30 answers · asked by Alix 3

would ur rather have a hot shollow girl or a average fun lovin gurl what type of qualites do u want that dosen't have to do with SEX

2007-10-13 19:33:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a "boyfriend" thats been out for a year. He's never not e-mailed me and he didn't this week. His last letter was also a little different. what does this mean?? I'm freakin out.... thanks

2007-10-13 16:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wish you could give me an answer for those questions.!
***Its just soo interesting for me. Were most of you like after your 20.s or before? I'm curious about it,. Im 19 btw.

--And i wonder..when people get married..do you still have the same feeling for each other as it used to be?

--Like you could've been crazy, (so in love) for eachother..not imagine your life without him/her...n has it stayed the same way til now.??
Or things change after marriage.
--Do you sometimes feel as if it would be better to wait longer,? Or do you think that you could have much more happiness, if you werent married,..or have an eye on someone,..but you cant show. Do you feel as if you really wanna get away..but take sacrifice for your kids..just to keep the family together.?
Thank you soo much for your answers.

2007-10-13 16:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im pregnant with my exs baby, i was 6 months pregnant when we broke up because he found out that i cheated on him, the first night we started dating. it was a mistake and i regret it. but he also cheated while i was pregnant, im willing to forgive him, but he wont forgive me. but every guy i try to get involved with he wants to beat there "***". and says he doesnt want my daughter around him. and always trys to find an excuse why, yet hes with another girl. We talk everyday. and we usually fight everyday as well. he calls me if i dont call him. so i dont understand. Do you think that theres hope for this relationship or should i just stop trying. im in love with him, but part of me feels like he doesnt love me. i lived with him for a year. and i went recently to get my things as well, and he was all upset about something. when i ask him how he feels about everything, he ignores the questions and changes the subject. is he just scared, or whats up? what do you guys think?

2007-10-13 16:00:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

so at my work on fri night one of the guys that i work with...(its me and 4 guys....) one stuck money down my shirt and down my pants...i told my parents and now they want me to take him to court or something,. i don't want to quit b4 i have a new job but i don't want to work with them. he also pushed me in the bathroom b4 and tired to do stuff with me. he even pushed me up against the wall and wouldn't leave me go
i don't know what to do....i don't want to make a big deal out of it but it can't just happen....i need help

2007-10-13 16:00:30 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ perfect angel lips ♥ 2

i just broke up with my man and 2 months later he called me and he wants to go out again ?

2007-10-13 15:13:04 · 10 answers · asked by botavasha 1

My wife died when I was 25, nine years ago. In those nine years, I have never dated anyone, never felt attracted to anyone, and have lived celibate, sharing my home with no-one but our daughter.

The simple fact is this is how I want to live now.

I have loved, lost, and remain devoted to my late wife. I believe we will meet again someday and from a relationship standpoint am waiting for her. I no longer consider myself a "sexual person".

I would be interested to know whether you feel this is "normal" or "weird", just out of curiosity.

2007-10-13 15:06:21 · 11 answers · asked by Frog Eyes 1

Conversation I had. Basically. A friend of mine has a relative. He had just found out that his wife of 8 yrs was having an affair for 5 yrs. She was a member of one of these adulterous website. She NO remorse for her action. From hear kind of proud. She divorced her husband and went to be with one of here "lovers." Crushed the guy! The day she was suppose to move in with her new partner. She got into a horrible car crash. She got messed up really bad. In a coma for a week. My friend made this comment. "Karma can come at you in many ways. Good and bad. . ." He's a big believer in karma. Was that really karma for what she did to her husband and marriage. Isn't that kind harsh?

2007-10-13 14:37:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriends ex always calls or texts her when he is drunk. I love my girlfriend dearly and she tells me the same =). Nearly every thursday he calls and texts her. I'm not so worried because she always tells me when he does it. But she always deletes her messages when she gets them from him and when she sends them back. She always reassures me he's just a friend but it does annoy me because i know that he is asking her things he shouldn't because she has me. Am i too protective of her or should i have a chat and ask her to ignore his calls and texts?

2007-10-13 14:30:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I the only one who thinks this.
I get good grades and stuff and I only get reminded of how bad I am in math.

I USED to take long to shower and get dressed, but I don't anymore. Anyhow, ppl still reflect on that and don't notice that I 've changed.

2007-10-13 13:36:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is another one of my WOULD YOU RATHER'S. I have another one, but the other one is for guys. This one is fo guy and girls. Feel free to look at my profile and answer my other WOULD YOU RATHER.
THIS ONE IS JUST FOR FUN.
WOULD YOU RATHER:
babysit 3 wild little kids for a whole day, (without getting paid), or watch Barney for the whole day?
WOULD YOU RATHER:
eat a live spider, or jump off the roof of your house?
WOULD YOU RATHER:
tell you parents your biggest secret, or fart in front of your crush?
WOULD YOU RATHER:
be lost in a city, or in a jungle?
WOULD YOU RATHER:
go to school wearing a chicken suit, or go to school wearing just your underware?
THIS IS JUST FOR FUN. PLEASE TELL ME IF YOU LIKED IT OR NOT. THANKS! :)

<3

2007-10-13 10:31:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i have been with my partner for 4 years and our sex life has seemed to stop! We had an amazing sex life before but now we don't seem to have time. How can we spice it up? We used to use toys, dress up etc but due to me gaining a bit of weight i don't feel comfortable anymore. Any ideas what we can do??

2007-10-13 09:26:16 · 10 answers · asked by hope 6

go on i've got big shoulders for you to cry on, let of steam, have a mump, what's got up your nose etc....................
after your rant did it make you feel better?

2007-10-13 09:23:30 · 4 answers · asked by Qqq 4

My mil is a very nosy woman. I have caught her being nosy . When she comes to my house, she notices things that are not important. Even with my own children she sees things that I don't pick up right away. I am getting tired of her and her ways. How should I approach her about this?

2007-10-13 08:15:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

we will go to tarvael , and he for sure he will ask to play around with me ,, but i dont need.

2007-10-13 06:45:27 · 12 answers · asked by chocky 1

Yea, I'm engaged with a lovely caucasian man who treats me like a queen and I treat him like a king. We may argue and fight but that is life. We met four years ago and he met my family. They were nice around him and such but then when he would turn his back they'd pull me to the side and say nasty things about how you can't trust white folks. I mean they are my family but they have tooking things too far and at night I care about the things my mother would say to me but I would never tell my love yet, he would still comfort me at night until I just fall asleep in his arms. This has been going on for a while. I don't want to leave him because I love him and he loves me but if I listen to my family I would break his heart and he would think I'm racist. But if I follow my heart my parents want talk to me anymore. Please people give me some help please.

2007-10-13 06:37:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If the red shirt thing is new to you, read below...

Last week, while traveling to Chicago on business, I noticed a marine sergeant traveling with a folded flag, but did not put two and two together. After we boarded our flight, I turned to the Sergeant, who'd been invited to sit in first class (across from me), and inquired if he was heading home. No he responded. Heading out I asked? No I’m escorting a soldier home. Going to pick him up? No. he is with me right now. He was killed in Iraq; I'm taking him home to his family. The realization of what he had been asked to do hit me like a punch to the gut. He told me that, although he didn’t know the soldier, he had delivered the news of his passing to the soldiers’ family and felt as if he knew them after many conversations in so few days. I turned back to him, extended my hand and said, thank you. Thank you for doing what you do so my family and I can do what we do. Upon landing in Chicago the pilot stopped short of the gate and made the following announcement over the intercom. "Ladies and gentlemen, I would like to note that we have had the honor of having sergeant Steeley of the United State's Marine Corps join us on this flight. He is escorting a fallen comrade back home to his family. I ask that you please remain in your seats when we open the forward door to allow Sergeant Steeley to deplane and receive his fellow soldier. We will then turn off the seat belt sign" without a sound all went as requested. I noticed the sergeant saluting the casket as it was brought off the plane and his action made me realize that I am proud to be an American. So here's a public thank you to our military men and women for what you do so we can live the way we do. Red Fridays, very soon, you will see a great many people wearing red every Friday. The reason? Americans who support our troops used to be called "the silent"...

2007-10-13 06:25:25 · 4 answers · asked by Sunny 2

I love my boyfriend. I love my dreams of a future with him, but i trust him as far as i can throw him, that's not very far. How can u make a relationship work with no trust? He cheated on me in april and i didn't find out till august! He didn't even tell me i found out on his computer! When i found out i asked him and he was denying it and i told him looked through his computer and i know the truth. He finally admited to cheating on me his excuse was that we had only been dating a month and it was before he fell in love with me. How can i ever trust him again? Please help me..

2007-10-13 06:24:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is a older woman i work with...shes very mature and is very smart and straight forward...i asked her to lunch and she said yes...i know she thinks im cute...i asked her to chill outside of work and go to the movies and dinner she told me she will love to but has to find a babysitter and in the end couldnt make it....she been havin my number and she been tellin me she will call but never does...i told her to be serious with me and to tell me if i have a chance to be with her or not...she told me maybe...i asked her for her number and she told me her phone is messed up she showed it to me and it was off...she has 2 kids and has a busy schedule...i told her all i want to is fit atleast 1 hour to hang with her...and all she told me so u willing to come to manhattan for me...i told her for her i would....i know she is kind of interested because we flirt....is she testing me because im 21 and shes 28 and she thinks all i want is a piece of the pie???do i have a chance or not??

2007-10-13 06:24:01 · 3 answers · asked by kid233 1

Do you think it's right or F*cked up.

My dad's friend was working delivering sheds and he walked out and saw a guy and his gf or wife and she was wearing a shirt(it said OSU across the boobs) and he looked and she had big boobs and he's like oh u like osu that's cool i also like them and her bf or husband got mad and started a fight with him because he looked at her boobs, but it's not like he said nice boobs he talked about what her shirt said.

I think it's F*cked up because if a girl wears a shirt that says something or flashes most of her boobs she should know and guys should know other guys r gonna look and obviously i think if u dont want someone looking at ur boobs then dont wear a shirt someone might read or flash ur boobs..

Do u agree or disagree

2007-10-13 05:56:51 · 7 answers · asked by Rayray 5

2007-10-13 05:44:25 · 12 answers · asked by lightning! 3

I approached a guy in a bank who was flirting with me (very very modestly! - see previous question) yesterday and he gave me his number as he didn't have his phone on him as he was obviously working. He was asking me a few questions like did I live in the area and how old I was etc. so he was obviously interested in me (right?!) and is gorgeous! and the last thing he said was to give him a ring. This was yesterday afternoon and I want to ring him so bad. My friend said to wait until the weekend is over would be leaving it too long. When should I ring him? I want to do it now! but wouldn't that look too eager? Please help! I've never been put in a position to ring a guy before...ever!!!

2007-10-13 05:34:34 · 11 answers · asked by snewell2222 1

They have everything they need and I've recently given flowers and photos.
Any ideas?

2007-10-13 05:33:38 · 4 answers · asked by moonbow 6

My mil compares everything about me to something she has. It is like she can't help herself. It is her business to annoy me. She compares my daughters B-Day to her wedding anniversary. It is like something always has to take place on a date that she is familiar with. I am getting tired of it, it is making it hard for me to stand being around her. Any suggestions?


All comments, please be respectful of this situation because only mature advice is accepted, only.

2007-10-13 05:26:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

when courting or when trying to make up with their partner...
what is it about the snipped genitalia of plants that creates peace betweeen people?

2007-10-13 05:23:09 · 1 answers · asked by joe the man 7

Can I Get A Hug PLEASE???
Well,i have a little mentally challenged brother who i have been taking care of almost all my life(btw IM 16)and because of him i cant go out anywhere i dont have any friends and i have never dated.Today i was talking to my friend and she was telling me how this nice,handsome guy asked her out.Im not being mean but my"only" guy friend knows her and have told me that i look better than her but i dont say that about her i always tell him that she's pretty.Im NOT desperate or anything even if i did have a bf i wouldn't do anything wrong if you know what i mean but sometimes i feel really sad that i spent all this time,years in takingcare of my little brother and never found my happiness.....Can someone give me a hug...PLEASE : (

2007-10-13 04:41:26 · 33 answers · asked by BlossomMe 5

I sent a 33 yr old woman some flowers and the next day she was visably more relaxed and softly spoken etc. Everyone else noticed the difference.

Why did the flowers have such an impact? Do you think she hadn't had flowers for a long time and they impacted on her etc?

2007-10-13 04:29:56 · 23 answers · asked by ronald c 1