Other - Family & Relationships - 16 October 2007

my name is josh and i'm 16 i'm a very smart young man if i do say so myself but even if i'm as smart i'am theres no one out there who will listen to me or or if they do they think i'm jokeing.well this no joke i need someones help i need to know how i can show them i'm right and even if they are right some of the time i need to find that out on my own (that is how you get smarter u know) this is my life my story and i wanna be the one to live it so someone help

2007-10-16 20:46:09 · 14 answers · asked by josh g 2

i am man enought to say i was wrong for divorcing her.20. years ago we have.2. sons i still love her but never had the ***. to tell her that .is there a chance we could get back together we have.4. grandchildren as well . out .2. children are married as well can we renuite out selves s we was i still love her she was and is still a good woman and she is yet my life but never had the *** to tell her can love happen again with us thank you all for your honest answers..

2007-10-16 19:26:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So here's my story...I'm living with my b/f of two years...He has kids with someone else and she doesn't live near by but her family does ( mom, sisters, cousins, etc...) Well every once in a blue moon they come see the kids..( birthday's and holidays)
Well tonight was one of the kids b-days...Their Grandma ( her mom) came to see them and my b/f said he gave her and her daughter hugs..He often feels he has to hide the fact that I'm around and claims he does this because he doesn't want them to know his business...Now he was married to the mother of his children and still is...I have a problem with him trying to be buddy buddy with her family still..he says he loves me but hell, I can't believe that now and days...am I just over reacting?...or should I be worried?

2007-10-16 19:21:31 · 9 answers · asked by jgraciano07 2

I don't know what he means. That is is just thinking about it or he is leaning that way of having a relationship again. Can someone please help understand what this guy is really thinking. Thanks

2007-10-16 18:11:35 · 5 answers · asked by Brandy W 1

haha so basically i fell HARD for this guy i dated....after our first kiss together the next day he said he needed time to be single since he just got out of a 3yr relationship where the grl cheated on him..i said fine but now he aint putting too much effort in being friends…I liked him a wholeeeee lot and I don’t want to lose him..and BEFORE we kissed or went to the next level he treated me like a princess! how can I make him want me or how can I grab his attention? For instance, what should I do in facebook haha since that’s how we see each other’s lives.
anything would help! Don’t say to move on haha cuase apparently it will take me time..but what would make u want a grl more that u got to know already and took her on dates and didnt do any harm to u?

2007-10-16 17:55:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 17:07:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

that you love with all your heart because they no longer love you?

2007-10-16 16:43:33 · 8 answers · asked by youngfashionista 2

2007-10-16 16:41:48 · 9 answers · asked by youngfashionista 2

2007-10-16 16:40:24 · 9 answers · asked by youngfashionista 2

i wouldn't consider myself "gorgeous" but i'm not ugly either, i've been TOLD i'm pretty...i admit, i have my ugly days, and my "hot" days but overall, i'm just very happy with the way i look - i have an easygoing attitude, fun personality yet mature and serious at times. I get along great with guys and girls - hate drama.

When it comes to love, i honestly believe (esp. at a young age), it's a waste of emotional, mental, and physical energy if you won't be with someone for a long time or better yet, a lifetime. I'm a one man woman and would rather wait however long it takes to find that ONE guy who completely respects me and not just treat me as a princess, i'm picky for my own good and yes, I'm a virgin b/c i choose to be one. Ppl who i'm close w. and trust who i've shared this with, don't believe me b/c "alot of guys like me" and i'm "pretty" so they all thought i would have given it up, but i haven't...would a guy think this is weird?

2007-10-16 16:37:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He broke up with me 3 weeks ago because he needed to figure out his life (seriously there is no one else) but thinks it could work in the future and we could be friends. I took the break up hard and over and over would say he didnt care so eventually he said he did and i was special to him but he was done trying even the friendship. This was 1 week ago, he texted that night saying we both need space and give things time. He called 2 days ago to say happy bday and apologized for not keeping contact the past week, I know i reacted badly but i was hurt, will he ever speak to me again? If he cares like he says. it sucks bc i got close to some of his friends

2007-10-16 16:22:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

This relationship lasted twelve turbulant years as of april 2007 we stop having sex and he moved out july 23,07. We lived in a two family home and my mom lives downstairs we have two children with autism and i have one from a previous relationship who is 17 now. He is not a family man, I did all the main things by myself with the help of my parents. he did improve over the years but still mostly every house hold responsibilty was done by me, bills , budgets, Dr.'s appts, home work ,ext .he did not particpate, mainly he did not have the patients. our kids together are 7 and 8 years old. we love each other but with my parents ,our kids,his attidude my frustration. we had a huge fight and one we cannot recover from. plus i am constantly throwing him out so he finally got his own apt. now that i am not angry anymore i really miss him. He seems alot happier i want to be happy for him but i am walking around like my world has ended. it has, the world i had with him how do i move on?

2007-10-16 16:21:33 · 5 answers · asked by need to move on 1

when a girl says that is it safe to say she likes me and maybe want a relationship. im 18 she will sometime look me in the eyes and not say anything. i dont really know her good

2007-10-16 16:03:18 · 4 answers · asked by dhfdfg 1

She is very loving, in private, but we have only been together for 2 years, she has issues regarding my folks, in that she thinks they should pay for all of my debt, (school). She always wants to be with her mother, we go out with them every week since she moved in, and she never really wants to spend time with my parents. what should i do

2007-10-16 15:59:57 · 3 answers · asked by jimbo 2

my boyfriend is locked up should i stay close to his family i really dont like them

2007-10-16 15:59:10 · 5 answers · asked by *TiFfAnY*<3 3

My parent's expectations for me are completely ridiculous, and it's getting really annoying.
Right now, I'm taking most of my senior year classes at a nearby state university, since I ran out of courses at my high school. I'm 2nd in my class, and my SAT scores are excellent.

Here's an example of their expectations:

So far there have been 2 tests in my Chem class at the university. I got a 100 on the first, and I just got the results of the second back - a 90. Now I'm taking **** because I "trashed my grade" and "I can't go to a good college now" and "I'm just an idiot".

It's f***ing ridiculous, there's no way to live up to it. No matter how well I do, it's never enough.

WTF am I supposed to do?

2007-10-16 15:54:47 · 11 answers · asked by theanswernator 1

idk if he really in the grade he told me,if he talks to girls at skool,mainly if he really loves me....help we have been dating 4 almost 6months now and i really love him

2007-10-16 15:50:04 · 3 answers · asked by DoMiNiCaN pRiNcEsS 1

nor have I EVER had a friend who cared about me as much as I care about them..am I an idiot or just feeling sorry for myself, or is there another answer?....PLEASE in the name of all that's HOLY...be nice

2007-10-16 15:49:24 · 28 answers · asked by Tammy 2

I don't mind having one kid but I want a career also. We've been together awhile should I end this now because we want different things in life or stick around to I finish college and get a career even though he doesn't want me to work.

2007-10-16 14:57:16 · 10 answers · asked by hanna 1

my friends parents are quite scary.
they dont trust him at all.
example: he was on the computor siting on the couch and he turned around and found his dad hunched over wacthing him .
abd his dad just got up and walked away.
his mom only lets him see his friends once a week or so.
he cant dress how he wants.
his bedroom door always has to be opened
for us to hang out my parents have to be home and wacthing us because im a girl'
he can never miss church, not even once.
he always has to go straight home after school
he can never cuss or sin
(but he does when they arent around)
if he ever complains about church they "spank him bare bottom"
he has to hide almost everything from them because almost everything he does is bad that what they think anyway
and they are mean to.
they yell at him if he asks to go to someones house or
wants to go to the store for something
and h cant beg
and if he asks why he cant do somethign they say they dont have to have a reason. i will fin

2007-10-16 14:49:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and I really like him a lot. Well, I've started really developing feelings for another guy and that guy just happens to by my boyfriends best friend. I really want to stay with my boyfriend, but the thing is that it's hard to get over the other guy when he is always with my boyfriend. I've gone though so many relationships and I really want to keep this one, but I can't stop myself from cheating on him emotionally. What should I do?

2007-10-16 14:45:00 · 3 answers · asked by emily j 2

2007-10-16 13:53:17 · 20 answers · asked by . 6

Afterwork? The weekend? In a letter?

2007-10-16 13:51:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I am driving, especially at night, it is hard to see. My current glasses were in my purse that was stolen. The glasses I am now using are about 7 years old (I'm 50 years old). While we are trying to get a handle on the income and expenses for our business, we have someone helping us and she says I need to wait 6 months before I do anything. There is no guarantee that in 6 months I would have the go ahead. The LASIK would be about $250 to $300 per month, interest free, for 12 months.

I almost ran a red light a couple of nights ago since I couldn't see well. This is a NEED, not a want. I don't want everyone angry with me but waiting is not an option.

I am not a child and I know what I need. They just don't understand the need or they just discount it. What is your opinion about defying everyone and getting the LASIK while my husband is out of town for 10 days?

2007-10-16 12:40:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend is not really popular or anything. But recently, one of the really cute guys started talking to her. And like, me and her don't really have a set "group" inside of school. And I'm sick of all my friends who are close going to other schools. But, her and this guy started talking and have become really close and like, I am friends with the guy too. But like, she is hanging out with their whole popular group now and it's just like "what about me?" i keep hinting to her that all of us need to hang out outside of school and she just keeps saying that she doesn't think that that is such a good idea. I want to hang out with them but she is just not getting the hint. What should I do? (And when I say them I just don't mean her and him, I mean like his whole group.)

2007-10-16 10:44:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 09:48:30 · 5 answers · asked by sunshine. 2

My hubby really wants a 3some. We are still young. Been together for 6 and a half years. And he has always wanted a 3some. I am undecided if I should or not. Even if I agree, how would I even find a someone?

2007-10-16 09:26:20 · 20 answers · asked by angie 2

As opposed to women from other countries/cultures. What is your opinion? And please no silly male and female bashing. only good thoughtful answers kindly.
I am an american born from persian decsent and have been told this from many people, mostly Iranians though, who some have happened to marry americans and mostly ended up divorcing.
A female barber told me yesterday that the worst iranian girl is better than the best american one for MARRIAGE. Of course she was exagerating but she sought to get the general idea across.

2007-10-16 08:55:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

because i dont want her boyfriend in my home means me going upstairs just to make her life comfy

2007-10-16 08:51:24 · 122 answers · asked by astra 5

My bf (he's 27 i'm 34) & my mom havent gotten along in a while 4 stupid reasons. So as my due date drew nearer we had decided my sister would take my older girls & we would go to the hospital ourselves, calling everyone after our baby was born.
My mother showed up about 6 a.m after we had been there a good 5 hrs and proceeded 2 ignore him. Not even a goodmorning. She was very nice to me but it was if he wasnt even there! I notice this & know its bothering him but what can a woman having hardcore contractions to do?
He says to me hes gona grab a soda (he was actually going to leave), she follows him out & starts to tell him he less than a man, a terrible bf, not a good dad 2 his other lil girl, etc.
He blows up & says leave, you werent invited & you arent welcome. Tells her he will have her banned. He comes back in & says she left. (Didnt want 2 give details til baby was born).
My sister calls & says what did he do mom is a mess...while I'm still in labor! Whos wrong???

2007-10-16 08:44:06 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Baby♥Girl♥ 2