I've been at this job for about a month. This girl I work with slept with our manager and was recently promoted. It wasn't like a big promotion but she makes more than I do. He flirts with a couple of the girls here but most of them ignore him because they think he's a pervert.
I don't really care. I'm pretty sure he's married but he says he's not. I went out with him yesterday just for a couple of minutes to pick up lunch for the rest or the office. He's not that bad looking and sex is just sex right?
2007-10-17 10:12:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a tough situation. I would keep the relationship really discrete because people can be judgemental. Note all the responses so far. Anyway, if he says that he does not have a wife, who are you to say otherwise.
2007-10-17 11:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Caroline 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know, the fact that you are even asking this question makes you look like a sl*t and if you think he is married then why the h*ll would you even think about sleeping with him? It all sounds pretty sleazy to me. It's your life so go do what you want just don't expect anyone to have any respect for you if you follow through with that kind of behavior.
2007-10-17 10:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Lyndsey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YUP, you're having pre-slut thoughts, the tiny pentance he can pay you for a performance, is worthless, he might give you a bonus, a Baby, or a life sentance to an AIDS treatment facility!! This will help you to learn that hard,honest work is 2nd, to a toss in the hay, not a good way to develope work habits/morals!!
2007-10-17 11:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Sex is just sex." That's what sl*ts say. Sleeping with anyone for your own personal gain, be it monetary or anything. That's what wh*res do.
You want a promotion? Earn it the right way.
2007-10-17 11:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to take a momentary leave of absence (quit) so that you can rock his world (and his wife's if she finds out). After wards, ask if he'll hire you back on. If he does, ask for a raise. If he doesn't , his world was never rocked. That way you didn't do him while as an employee!
2007-10-17 10:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do not pass up an oppertunity for sex.
Are we pigs?
maybe.
Just go up to him and say.
"You and me baby are nothing but mammals... So, lets do it like they do on the discovery channel."
2007-10-17 13:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Mastershake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If y ou do it, you may get that promotion, but everyone you work with will knwo how you got it and NO one will respect you
2007-10-17 10:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sugar 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're going at it that way, that is exactly what they will call you.... and if his wife finds out, she will likely come to work to kick your butt......
Never date a co-worker, when the affair blows up, you still have to work with them....
2007-10-17 10:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never get involved/date with anyone you work with.
Looks like its a disfuctional company & people that you work with.
Get out.
2007-10-17 10:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by jtease 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋