im in a bit of a dilemma. i love my girlfriend but i am no longer turned on by her any more, in fact i basically dont want sex with her at all. I find her very attractive and we are kind of soul mates but im not sure what to do..i masturbate every day and would be happy to have sex with other girls, as they turn me on more...so what should i do? we have been together over 5 years, is it normal to find your partner boring after that amount of time?? pls help, should i stay with her and just not have sex at all???
in the past i cheated on her many times, could that be a reason why i feel i cant be with her anymore due to my subconscious guilty feelings?
2007-10-19 23:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by insane penguin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you've cheated on her she isn't your soulmate. You may love her but you're not in love with her. Do something to put that right or walk away. It's not fair of you to keep her in limbo like that. If you can't be with her 100% then you need to do the right thing and let her go. She deserves someone who'll love her completely
2007-10-19 23:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by moonworshipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be fair to her, let her move on! Your heart hasn't been in the relationship for along time.
And it's better ,if you cheated to "make yourself happy".Than to have unprotected sex with her while you were cheating.She doesn't deserve to be deceived AND have an STD.
I think you had leaving on your mind long ago.So, no .I don't think guilt came first.
Don't string her along anymore! So, you both can go out and find other people you can be faithful to.
Take care!
2007-10-20 06:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by need2know 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u really love her stay w her.n still do it with her.or mayb sumtin she did to not look atractid to you no more.n ur a bad partner because you cheated on her.she should of knw once a cheater always a cheater.so yea go ahead n cheat on her again
2007-10-20 16:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by blue star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do this girl a favor and get out of her life. Let her know, so she can find someone that really loves her, and wants to be with her. You don't love her, you just think you do.
2007-10-20 06:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just dump your girlfriend before she finds out what you have been doing to her - save her the heartbreak!
2007-10-20 07:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jemmax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You art4e plainly too immature as yet for a steady relationship.
Let her find someone else.
2007-10-20 11:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the girl have a life ,she desires to be happy ,you and your guilt most probly will have a happy life toNice one
2007-10-20 09:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you will have this problem forever with any girl
2007-10-20 09:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Answerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a new one
2007-10-20 06:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
blow up doll comes to mind
2007-10-21 16:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋