I am just 42, in a fairly new loving relationship, my boyfriend & I met through a dating site & corresponded for 18 months before meeting in July. Have breezed around the subject a few times & had negative comments back.. though once on messenger he did say ...'never say never' However, time is running out for avoiding the subject. He has a son by a previous partner & I have a daughter from a previous relationship, both are aged 10. It has come to light recently that my boyfriend thinks 'it is not a good idea to have children past 40 which I feel is getting in the way of me committing to this relationship emotionally as I dearly would like to have another child. I am finding it hard to speak about my feelings, his son seems to be his world & enough for him, I feel I need the option of another child for the relationship to progress or life will feel very empty, I have a fulfilling career & love my only daughter dearly, however I have this need for another child.
2007-10-30
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