What if one day i would see the girl i hated most? or what if me and my husband whom i loved most would one day accidentally meet this girl along the way or in a party?
the "girl" that almost broke my family! the "GIRL" that my husband had an intimate affair with,10yrs ago. This matter really bother me in every second of my life. PLEASE NEED UR HELP.
2007-10-30 02:16:12 · 11 answers · asked by magic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ignore her that is what mistresses like to do it hurt the wife. Don't let her know she hurt you not just your husband. Act like she is invisible she is a nobody. And after 10 years you are still angry you should get counseling for you and your husband. It is not a matter of who won because honestly winning a cheater is not a big prize but you should definitely be proud of your self for working on your marriage. Now all you have to do is try to get over this issue and be proud of yourself for moving on.
2007-10-30 02:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? This affair took place 10 years ago. You should have come to grips with it by now! Your man is still with you, which means you won; so why would you worry about seeing this woman again? Why would you waste time hating her, when you and your husband are still together? It makes no sense for you to carry this crap around, year after year. If you run into this person at a party, or anywhere else; you'll either speak, or don't speak, and move on. Nothing more needs to be said and nothing else needs to be done about something that happened 10 years ago. Let it go, girlfriend!
2007-10-30 02:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you worry about this?
It has been 10 years, i'm sure you don't have anything to worry about since you don't know if you really are going to see her.
Just hope for the best, im sure both of them have grown into mature and smart adults. They should have learned from their mistakes a long time ago, and if they do somehow meet each other again, just try to focus on what your husband has to say about it and if he says everything will be fine, then trust your instinct and try to have trust in him.
Good luck!
2007-10-30 02:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by Cassandra S. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would smile, because in the end you won anyway. remember you are letting her win by thinking about this so much, because trust me she isnt thinking about you. it sounds like you dont have closure about this situation, maybe try to find it. and remember this was ten years ago, work on yourself because time does damage, and wont you feel good if your a size six and shes gone and popped out 5 kids and is a size 22. Just be happy, that is the best rub in the face someone can give. because if you show her it still bothers you then she will have done her job. Be happy in your marriage give him a good sex life...... and yourself. be happy with who you are, and how you look.
2007-10-30 02:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id wanna kick her a** if I was you. Just know in ur heart that homewrecking girl is lonley and most likley miserable.Im a firm believer in karma and it sounds like shell get hers.As for ur husband Im sure he knows not to go there again.Sometime men suck but were all human and make mistakes dont let it control ur life.Good luck!
2007-10-30 02:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by LADY LUCK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten years is a lot of time. I`m sure your husband loves you and is dedicated to you wholeheartedly. So stop thinking about that 'girl'. I`m sure you`ll never see that person again. Unless you happen to live next-door to her. =)
Trust your husband. <3
2007-10-30 02:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 2 things u could do
1. BE MEAN
2. BE NICE
being mean could be 1 of many thing u could do talk junk to her try and beat her up.
being nice could be just saying hi like nothing is wrong or just ignoring her unless she says something to u then talk to her.
the being nice thing might drive her insane even more then the mean thing does
2007-10-30 03:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by blue03neon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 00:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen the girl I hate the most and she just makes me feel better about myself cuz she is so low.It's in the past get over it already.You are going to drive yourself insane.
2007-10-30 02:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by berlytea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wrap your arms around your man, ,plant a big fat kiss on his lips, smile at her and show her who the bread winner is.
Try not to think about this, you are wastling your time thinking about her. Do you think you have crossed her mind...probably not. She probably has her own man now too.
2007-10-30 02:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by A***n G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋