I have nothing to hide I just hate the idea of her watching my every move. There will be converstaions with friends that are personal. She obviously has trust issues but i'd really rather not let her have it.
2007-10-30 04:01:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her no.
You do not have any obligation to turn over any passwords to her. She does not have the right to read your email, your face book stuff, your MySpace, your IM histories, review your phone records, or watch you when you go to the bathroom!
If she is so painfully insecure that she is demanding this, then she needs to be dumped. Period. She is completely out of line on this one.
The problem is that it is not just the concept of giving her the password, it is the precedent it is setting. You are telling her that as your relationship progresses, you will accept and encourage every single invasion of privacy she chooses to demand. This is just not a direction you want to go in any relationship.
So I would tell her point blank that if she cannot trust you without putting you under Internet surveillance, then clearly your relationship has no future.
2007-10-30 04:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask what to do...your facebook, myspace, whatever, your password is your business, that's why you have a password. yes, she is insecure. she needs to get herself together. what she is proposing, going behind you to check up on your personal interactions with other people is not healthy. you hate her watching your every move...do you feel like your smothered, like the very air you breathe is being cut off? just picture you and she down the road a piece. you are married, she is checking your mail, hacking your cellphone voicemail messages, following you around town, accusing you of cheating on her when you're not, making your life absolutely miserable and god forbid you have children together, and then you break up the family and have all sorts or horrible things happen to your children because of it...etc. you see where i'm going here? she needs to work on her issues. do you love her(or think you do?) sometimes the most loving thing to do is let the person go. if it was meant to be, you'll get back together. maybe you don't need to be in a heavy relationship right now. i don't know how old you are but these are some things you need to work out. don't wait till it's too late i wish you nothing but the best
2007-10-30 04:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by thecatmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I agree with the others. You shouldn't give her your facebook password. She has trust issues; she must think you have something to hide although you probably don't. There is apparently something she wants to find out I suppose. I was really trusting with my ex-boyfriend when we were together and I gave him the password to my email (not that he demanded it, but I was away from my computer I had to call him to look something really important up in my email). But now that we are broken up now, I still have the same email account and now it is weird for me to say or send very personal things in that email account (especially information on new guys that I am seeing) I use another email account for that. So later I probably will change my password just in case although he probably has forgotten it; at least that is what he told me....
2007-10-30 04:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mallball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you are having a hard time right now. It really hurts to be cheated on and trust is only given once for free. After that he has to earn it. Personally I found out the hard way once a cheat always a cheat. If you won't to move forward with this relationship and you are willing to forgive him then you have to let go of what happened. If you can't move past it then you need to get out before you say I do. My heart goes out to you for all the pain you are going through.
2016-04-11 02:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new girlfriend because without trust a relationship is worthless and she obviously does not trust you. You should never have to give that type of personal information to any one.
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2016-05-01 22:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are entitled to your privacy even if you are in a relationship. Tell her you'd rather she not have your password. If she gets mad at you, well, do you really want to be with someone who doesn't trust you?
2007-10-30 04:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she has trust issues.
what in the world makes her think you HAVE to give her yourpassword? tell er if she wants a facbook password to gt her own and to mind her own business.
seriously.....whars gonna be net? you email password?your phone? etc
2007-10-30 04:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "No, you can't have it. I understand you have trust issues and I'm not going to play into them. You need to trust me or you need to move on."
2007-10-30 04:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her no, there are passwords for a reason, if she cannot deal with that and accept it, move on, if you give in to this, what will she demand next?
2007-10-30 04:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋