I've been with this girl for about a year and 4 months ( last year ) and after that we were still talking, meaning she still calls and everything then everything stopped cause i "tried" to get over her, now she doesnt even want to talk to me anymore, for example when i AIM her she would tell me she doesnt want to talk to me, im gonna try to make this short, she doesnt block me on AIM but yet she doesnt want to talk to me??!?! then today i found some guys email in her Contact in her email account, can someone tell me wtf she wants? she still keeps me on her buddylist NO MATTER WHAT I SAY she would just avoid it when i would say "why are you gonna keep me on your buddylist when you dont want to talk to me"
2007-10-29 21:54:13 · 9 answers · asked by Ice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
question: does she still want me to talk to her? try to get her back, or she just wants me on the list for the f*** of it ( which i doubt )
2007-10-29 21:59:44 · update #1
She is your ex for a reason. the reason people break up is to not hurt anymore. All it does is cause problems. Just leave her alone and don't waste YOUR time worrying about why she is doing certain things. Let yourself get over her. The only way to do that is by leaving each other alone.
2007-10-29 21:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but it sounds pretty strait forward. If a girl says she doesn't want to talk to you, that usually means she doesn't want to talk to you. Her not blocking you or keeping you on her buddylist is not indicative of her romantic feelings for you. Unfortunately, it looks like she's moved on, especially if she has another guy in her email contact list, (which by the way doesn't mean this other guy is a romantic interest.) You said this all started because you wanted to get over her. Well, it looks like she is trying to make that easier for you. Good luck with that, and remember, girls are like busses; in 15 minutes, another one will come.
2007-10-30 05:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by Hyacynth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should continue to get over her. Why not you do the "removing" of her name from your buddylist?
I dont know, but she may be playing mindgames with you,
or it is as it is- She just doesnt want to talk to you but would not go so far as removing you from her buddylist permanently.
Good luck.
2007-10-30 05:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Deb R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my advice is get over her man... as one said, there are still a lot of fishes to catch in the seas.. if she can't finish it, then you finish it. What I mean is, if she still wants to keep you in her buddy list, then you delete her from your buddy list. And about looking at other people's mail, well... you can stop that for your own goods. It will only break your heart... so just have fun, being single is not bad, do things that you won't be able to do when you are in a relationship..
2007-10-30 05:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by big.cube07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you were trying to get over her she was problem trying to keep you as a friend because you two dated so long , but got rejected when you just cut the calls off cold turkey so know shes probably getting sweet revenge, I'd give it time if it really bothers you she'll probably respond back when she gets over the rejection . if it doesn't bother you and you don't want to be her friend because ex's who are turned friends normally cause alot of drama then i would let it be!
2007-10-30 05:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you to come round to ur senses and come back 4 her.thats just how she feels.u need to search urself too.y did u break u and follow ur heart!
2007-10-30 05:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by Cat6479 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go!!! You are just making a fool of yourself. she doesn't want you, so move on!!! Don't be a stalker!! You are acting desperate!!
2007-10-30 04:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the bitchaaa go!!!
She is not worth it
2007-10-30 05:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mma Matlhale.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are crazy. Destroy her.
Srsly.
P.S. - What was your question?
2007-10-30 04:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by The Bad Movie Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋