He still lives with me because he's in school and doesn't have family where we're at. He suppose to be moving once he's gets a part time job. I don't know when that will be... I love him but i cant stand anyone who to lies to me especially if i'm the one taking care of you. You know what i mean?????
2007-10-25 08:50:26 · 13 answers · asked by irishpr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I cant go out or have any friends while he's still at the apartment with me because he'll lose his temper. I don't like to argue so i avoid going out or even the thought of seeing someone else.
2007-10-25 09:10:50 · update #1
I can't believe you're allowing him to stay there! If it's your place and you gave him the boot, put his butt on the curb! Do not continue to support him. Loving someone does not mean letting them take advantage of you. Give him two weeks to find a new place to crash and wash your hands of him. If you guys do reconcile, don't let him move back it. Play it safe and go slow this time. Good luck!
2007-10-25 08:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by nomad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you don't know when he will get a job? He never will unless you give him a dead line. Write a date on a piece of paper and attach it to hes door, with DEAD LINE on it. If you continue to let him use you, he will, because he knows he can. You can love someone, but unless you are loved back, and respected, you are not going to be happy.
2007-10-25 15:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get him gone as soon as possible. Give him a time frame-2 weeks should be more than enough. Start doing things for yourself. Be home as little as possible while he is there. Find things to do make a new you!
2007-10-25 16:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Meldamor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring guys over or find a new boy toy.
It'll get your mind off of him,
or just avoid him and go out and have fun.
2007-10-25 15:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by alexis h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl, detach your feelings and kick him out NOW!
He'll find someone else to shack up with before the sun sets, trust me!
2007-10-25 15:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't get over him until he moves. If his name isn't on the lease, then put him out. You may have to get the police to come if he doesn't cooperate. If you take this route, never go back to him.
2007-10-25 15:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move him out as soon as possible and go on with your life. You'll be glad you did.
2007-10-25 15:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ruth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to stay out of the house. go out with girl friends.
2007-10-25 15:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many girls does he bring home each night to sleep with?
2007-10-25 15:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey he's using you. Kick him to the curb
2007-10-25 15:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by twinklez2o9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋