2007-10-25 09:26:54 · 25 answers · asked by LEO JOHN l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if she doesn't call u as much as she used to. or she's bored in ur relationship, or if she talks to lots of guys more than ever. love is trust, so if u love her and she loves u, she wouldn't cheat, that's wut I like to thing, doesn't always work out that way
2007-10-25 09:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Christopher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question shows you have doubt in your heart about your relationship.Where there is doubt the devil soon moves in to rip the relationship apart however possible. The only way you can know if your girlfriend is cheating honey is to come right out and ask her face to face look her in the eyes and watch that expression. But don't be shocked if just putting that question out to her helps you lose her because once you show that lack of faith in someone it all goes down hill from there.
Trusting the one you love and having faith in them and hoping they will give you that and the same respect in return is what a solid relationship is about. But communication even in a long distance relationship is a key element to keeping it alive and well. Best of luck keep the faith ..Send her some flowers you might get a hint from her reaction .....
2007-10-25 16:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by turtleofwonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, unless you have the capability to check her personal life, the only thing you can go by is to keep track of her attitude.
If she starts to fade on you or seems "strange" when you guys talk, then it's a sign.
During your conversations, if she talks alot about "going out" or "hanging out", then it's not a sign.....right now. However, down the road, it could be. As she is involved more and more in the "mainstream", she will surely meet new people. And meeting new people has the "chance" of meeting that special someone else.
However, I wouldn't worry about it too much right now until you may notice something suspicious.
Short of travelling to where she's at and tailing her, there's nothing you can do right now than just trust her.
2007-10-25 16:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres is no clear why to knwo if she is. But my advice is trust her.
Keep in mind that wheres there is smoke theres fire so if there are suttle things that have made you think she is cheating ask her about the situation not with an accusing tone. Be cool about it. There may just me mis communication between you two distance can do that.
2007-10-25 16:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by kalik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well--first it depend I mean--Why are you guy are miles away from each other. That the Question Hit me back. When you get this--so I can get a better understand to your ?.
2007-10-25 16:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by R-Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you really cant tell but i guezz if this really bothers you ask her up front, if she really likes you she wont be with another person besides you. Another thing if you cant trust your girlfriend you shouldnt be with her, when you're in a relationship its all about trusting each other no matter what.
2007-10-25 16:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would she know if you're cheating too? If you trust eachother then everything would be smooth sailing. To see is to believe
2007-10-25 22:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by chubbychubz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't know, really, you just have to trust her. If you believe she is wandering, talk to her, and decide wether you can live closer, or perhaps breaking up is the only option if she is dishonest.
2007-10-25 16:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You trust her. If you don't trust her the relationship will soon fall apart.
2007-10-25 16:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sibbs . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should trust her thats what a relationship is based on if you cant trust someone then the relation ship wont work out wel thats from my own experiance
2007-10-25 16:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋