Other - Family & Relationships - 25 June 2007

i am an adult (27). i was in an mentally abusive relationship which ended 4.5 years ago. i have a new relationship and have never been happier. but i kick in my sleep. it doesn't wake me up but wakes up my boyfriend. i want to stop but i don't know what is causing me to do it?? therefore i can't stop it

2007-06-25 12:10:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

when people tell a guy he needs to take a cold shower what does it mean? dont think im too young to know im 17...so could someone answer please???

2007-06-25 12:07:26 · 7 answers · asked by 0 2

Okay, so my bff Lexi her dog died about 2 hours ago.
Her dog Gus was, 12 and Lexi is 11 so she has had him her whole life.
I told her if she needs to call me she can because she said in her email she can't stop crying, but I didn't actually think she would call me because she's so busy hugging her Mom and crying.
But then she called, and I talked to her for a little then she had to go eat. And she's going to call me back in about an hour.
So I don't have any advice, and I need some help, I love her she's my best friend and I need to help her.

Can you please help me?
The best advice gets 10 points and 5 stars!
Please help me and my best friend! =(

2007-06-25 12:02:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I went to a restauraunt for dinner last night, and we both ordered desserts. So we were enjoying our desserts when this woman sitting at the table next to us caught my boyfriend's eye, and she asked him what he was having, or something like that. And then she looked right at me, looked at what I was having, and said, "Looks like you're going to have to work out later tonight!" I felt she had no business making a remark like that, so I didn't reply and turned back around to face my boyfriend.

Was she implying that I'm fat and that I shouldn't be having dessert? I don't think I am because I usually wear size 0 to 2, but then again I am short.

2007-06-25 11:59:43 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-06-25 11:58:19 · 9 answers · asked by baby boo 1

my ex broke up with me 2 1/2 months ago after i got violent i didnt hit her. i dont condon wat i done i hate myself for it. the thing is tho she used 2 beat the me up when we 1st started going out. i want to appologise to her and just get everything off my chestbut she has changed her number. i cant get over her i love her with all my heart. and she said she loved me please give me some advice on gettin her back thanks

2007-06-25 11:57:23 · 10 answers · asked by craig j 1

for exsample, my fiance is into school and am not - i hate school- i have a decent job -
i mean is that something that you would hate ?
i mean i totally encourage him to go back to school, but i just dont have a desire to get any kind of degree is that bad ?
i like artsy stuff, like theatre and playing the violin, i used to be into acting a lot - i just didnt know if maybe i was not inspiring him enough ?? he is currently unemployed so im the one bring in home the income , which i dont mind, because he was soppurting me , when i didnt have a job -
thanks for your opinion -

2007-06-25 11:53:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

the man i love is on leave from his deployment from iraq and he is in san diego with his son. he hasn't spoke to me for three days ever since his leave. i wanna call him but I dont wanna bother him and his son. He is divorced and is living with his sister. I miss him but I do not want to annoy him at the same time. What should I do?

He said he doesnt love me yet but he likes me a lot.

2007-06-25 11:52:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex wife and her boyfriend are putting my 8 eight year son outside in the 115 degree heat for time out. On top of that,he was being refused water, my 6 year went to get him water and her boyfriend sad no water. I think a crime has been committed here. The boyfriend told me that keeping him inside wasn't working. I told this boyfriend to stop at once. I asked my ex wife to stop as she just is protecting her boyfriend. I have never had a behavioral problem with my son when it's my turn for visitation. We're talking about Queen Creek, just outside Phoenix, Arizona heat.

2007-06-25 11:42:20 · 4 answers · asked by bromo5 2

Please read: I told my guy friend that I liked him? and: Why is he acting like this?

I just get the urge to hug him nice and hard sometimes.... Do you think it would be ok or a good idea? Do you think he'll push me away? Cuz he's not exactly the huggy type... I'm worried he'll shove me away and never talk to me again.And I don't want that to happen because we're friends.

And, one more thing, if I do hug him, when do you think I should do it? And do arms go around his waist or shoulders? (Sorry, I don't hug guys a lot.)

2007-06-25 11:33:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy asked me out last year and i said no because i didnt like him. Then this year he went out with someone for about seven months. Then when they broke up the girl he went out with went out with someone else. He got upset. Then about 3 weeks later i called him and told i like him and i asked him if he liked me. He said i was pretty but he didnt think we would go out. So then a few days later he asked me out. While on the same day he was flirting with the girl he broke up with. So i told him that i didnt want to go out with him. Now he going out with someone and telling the girl he broke up with that he has a new girlfriend and that he loves her. Do you think he was using me?

2007-06-25 11:29:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-25 11:18:19 · 27 answers · asked by nogamezbabix3 1

My bestguyfriend has a cheating girlfriend. everyone knows. i have told him numerous time. for example, he caught her sitting in another boys lap. she flirts with this boy named jack alot. my bestguyfriend was about to breakup with her but changed his mind. he said he's just going to cheat on her too. what should i tell him?

2007-06-25 11:02:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 19 and so is my boyfriend. we have lived together for a year and been together for over 2 years. or sex life is boring and so our we. i feel like im 50 and should be retiring soon we never go out -we never party -we dont go out to dinner unless i buy because he doesn't have the money--he is in alot of debt---we dont go to the movies. we really dont do anything. i dont like that we have the same routine everyday. 1wake up 2go to work 3eat dinner 4sleep and thats everyday!!! it so boring- i told him about how i feel and he doesnt change. i dont know what do to.. HELP

2007-06-25 11:01:26 · 19 answers · asked by aaaaaaaaaa 2

I've been dating a guy for over a year. At times he is amazing to me and we get along great but other times he can be rude, and verbally abusive. Lots of people tell me to dump him but i know that i love him without any doubt. I am wondering what i can do to show him how he can be at times because he doesn't realize it.... i DO NOT want to break up, not because i can't support myself and be alone but because i believe he is the one for me, he just needs a little help and we will have a great relationship... thanks

2007-06-25 11:01:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

has any of you women/girls here ever kicked a guy in the nuts so hard, that his testicles were aching for a long long time? if yes, why did you do it? and what effect did it have on him?

it happened to me pretty bad, and i'm curious to hear about other situations....so please girls, share your story....

2007-06-25 10:43:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

just curious!

2007-06-25 09:33:38 · 7 answers · asked by Jules S 1

2007-06-25 09:28:24 · 9 answers · asked by TripleS 3

why do most women bring things up that happened so far in the past that no one but them remembers it?
Seems like they cant move on emotionally. They harbor ill will and seethe about any little infraction.
Yet if a guy tries this same tactic he is labled as an arrogant ***.
How do you deal with this kind of behavior ?
Is it a no win situation?

2007-06-25 09:28:12 · 13 answers · asked by burdawg 3

Im a female, 14 year old. And i dont really have a high self confidence or self esteem but i was just wondering if anyone can give me any advise for me to boost my confidence ..
Any advise that you may wish to give, i will be most gratefull for.
Thanks for taking the time to read is.
x

2007-06-25 09:13:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it that guys can't be in a realationship with a girl without sex and still be cool with no sex .... especially if they are not married to them. and then when they are told from the get go that your not for sex they still think they are going to change your mind and then get mad when they find out the didn't change your mind and then they get mad at you because"your always turning them on but you don't deliever" but all you do is kiss them and not a passonate kiss just a plain kiss ?

2007-06-25 08:17:44 · 4 answers · asked by a1pisces90 1

i got drunk for my first time!!!! toatally crapfaced!!!! the first night it was a fun drunk and the second night i drank again but i felt crappy but it was all still so fun!!! i went skinny diping too with a REAL hot guy!!! WOOO!!!! HOOO I LOVE MATHIS LAKE!!!!

2007-06-25 07:50:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that females who have bad men or no man at all are the first people to tell you about your relationship? This is something that is really startimg to piss me off!

2007-06-25 06:54:53 · 2 answers · asked by shasha 2

2007-06-25 06:47:10 · 8 answers · asked by Robert Young 1

i was with someone for almost 3 years and just last month she wanted to date other people and she has been hanging out with this guy and they just started dating a few days ago. i would do anything to get her back in my arms but i dont know how to approach when i should call her or when i shouldnt please help me i cant sleep even after a month im still in pain and agony.

2007-06-25 06:31:01 · 2 answers · asked by d_smugglin86 1

the time we had was the best i ever had cos i felt like everything was complete , even though she travels alot i know how much i care about her . any and everything i can do for her i done and beyond.i flew to see her after her birthday to find out she was seeing someone else. she kept telling me nothing was happening and she loved me .cos she knew i have trust issues from my last relationship . now she avoids every chance we have to talk she never replys to my messages and even took me off her friends list .
i feel so betrayed but i still want her back cos i feel like nothing matters without her. if she wont talk to me is it cos she feels guilty or that she simply dosent care enough about what we had .
i dont know if i want to get revenge or kill myself caus i see no other way. either way i am not the man i was before. can you help me?

2007-06-25 06:27:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriends father has been ill for several years. He waits on edge every day worried that hes going to get the phonecall that hes passed on. He was supposed to call me yesterday but he didnt. I tried ringing him several times today & got frustrated that I couldnt get hold of him- sent him several not so nice texts to let him know. I felt like I was being ignored & I couldnt figure out why.

I eventually got a text from him saying that his Dad went in to the hospital with a stroke. I feel AWFUL. I didn't know at all that this was wrong. I had known I wouldnt have been so peed off I couldnt get hold of him. He also said that he thinks we should just forget about this relationship. I texted him back & said I didnt know what was wrong, how was I supposed to & that I was sorry. He texted back to say he'll talk to me later that he wasn't in the mood right now. Do you think I've messed it all up? Things were going SO well and we both love each other. Does he just need time to calm down?

2007-06-25 06:24:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's 15 and his dad has been knocking him around since he was about 9/10. I can't tell the police or anyone because he trusted me to tell me and if i tell anyone i'm scared he will hate me. He's come to stay with me a few times but his dad always comes and gets him or his mum guilts him into coming home.
What can i do to help without telling anyone?

2007-06-25 05:53:37 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you read or seen the Story on the Man who killed his 3 children and wife in Joliet Illinois? I meen 1st the man who killed his wife and unborn baby and then I read another story about a man who killed his son while his Mom was doing Duty in Iraq! This World is Evil. You can't really trust anyone at all these days.

2007-06-25 05:50:55 · 11 answers · asked by Dew 7

I met this guy on a plane about a month and a half ago and we had sort of an instant connection. We’ve been emailing each other and he came to my town this weekend to stay for a week for work. I was excited till he said he’s married and explained that he didn’t tell me coz he wanted to hang on to me and didn’t want to let go…..also apologized for being selfish. Please understand that i know the games married men play as am an adult but we have something so much more than sexual...I have told him I don’t want to see him and he understood but we have such a connection and I want to keep his as a friend maybe after some time. Is this wise?

2007-06-25 05:35:29 · 25 answers · asked by Boo 1