Other - Family & Relationships - 26 June 2007

Your a women, would you get involved with a guy who has a kid or kids and doesn't want any more?

Your a guy, would you get involved with a woman who has a kid or kids and doesn't want any more?

2007-06-26 22:30:36 · 7 answers · asked by Eyerish 5

Ok so its my boys birthday and hes 21 next week! we gona spend the day together he doesnt get that many days off work! and works 6 dayz a week and soo hard soo i wana do something really romantic and special coz its his special day!

Any ideas welcome!! And what kinda funny things i could do to try embarras him and wat can i buy him! so far ive got him a watch but thats dead boring really! wana do something for him to remember the day by!!!

any ideas would be welcome!! xx

2007-06-26 22:14:47 · 3 answers · asked by zara 2

In our jobs , friends and relationships.

2007-06-26 22:07:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother died two years ago, and now we are planning to move. While sorting through unopened boxes from her house (That we packed two years ago, while emptying her house) I came across a sweater she was very attached to, because it was the first present my father ever gave her. I like the sweater, and I have a lot of memories of her wearing it when I was a child. Now, it doesn't fit me, I can't button it, and I know she'd say, "It's a perfectly good sweater that some one else could use, even if it is 50 years old. Stop being so sentimental and give it to charity." Should I?

2007-06-26 21:51:01 · 5 answers · asked by ? 5

Who else makes food at 4am... or am i the only one LOL

2007-06-26 20:48:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this is really weird to me. I am 19 and I have a boyfriend of 3 months 2 weeks and 2 days now. Well I have only seen him ONE time so far cuz its a LDR(1hr and 10mins away) and he works all the time. Well I went to my aunts house tonight and there was a guy there. Well my aunt said there's you a bf and she knows I have a bf but she doesnt like him cuz he cant find "time" for me. Then she told me theres another guy she wants me to meet. Well I cant decide if I want to do that because I have someone. But 2 of my aunts told me that the guys the want me to meet are nice and are good guys. I am only 19 and know it is not time to settle down but I dont know what to do really. I dont know if I should meet the other guy or if I should just forget anything even happened. My friend thinks that my bf is playing me and he said hes not, but I dont know
What do you think?

2007-06-26 20:34:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 21 and he is 37...I live in La and he lives in Ga. I met him March 26th, 2006. I'm Submissive and he is Dominate. We both love each other... I've gone to visit him 3 times since we've met last year. I'm still a student in college and he owns his own programming business. #1. How do I come out to my mother about my alternate lifestyle? #2. How do I tell her I'm in love with a man who is 37 (the same age as her, she had me at 16) and that he is dom? #3. I'm thinking about transfering to a college out in Ga so I can be closer to him. As many may know a sub/dom relationship is quite hands on... Anyway I want to go to Ga to be closer to him and to get out of my mothers house...It's quite time I leave this city anyway... would that be a good idea?

I quite feel I'm in the closet with my lifestyle, and when I hook up with people down here it doesn't work because there is a side of me that isn't getting nurished...

So what should I do?

2007-06-26 20:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by trapped-dyme 1

Seeing how the world is changing and people seem to accept young women having older men as their partners, do you think its acceptable for older men to go after 18 year old high school girls? Sounds ridiculous to me but some people here seem to think that there's no problem with it. Some posters say things like " If she's mature enough.." etc If you really believe this idea then you shouldn't have a problem with old men hanging around high schools looking for women or going to the grocery store in the afternoon to find a cashier to be a girlfriend. Am I wrong about this? Don't you think there is something wrong with men pushing aside their wives and women of their own age for innocent flesh?

2007-06-26 19:58:45 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 21 and he is 37...I live in La and he lives in Ga. I met him March 26th, 2006. I'm Submissive and he is Dominate. We both love each other... I've gone to visit him 3 times since we've met last year. I'm still a student in college and he owns his own programming business. #1. How do I come out to my mother about my alternate lifestyle? #2. How do I tell her I'm in love with a man who is 37 (the same age as her, she had me at 16) and that he is dom? #3. I'm thinking about transfering to a college out in Ga so I can be closer to him. As many may know a sub/dom relationship is quite hands on... Anyway I want to go to Ga to be closer to him and to get out of my mothers house...It's quite time I leave this city anyway... would that be a good idea?

I quite feel I'm in the closet with my lifestyle, and when I hook up with people down here it doesn't work because there is a side of me that isn't getting nurished...

So what should I do?

2007-06-26 19:54:10 · 10 answers · asked by trapped-dyme 1

How would you feel if you're 18 year old daughter brought home a new boyfriend who was older than you? This is kind of like the Fred Thompson thing.

2007-06-26 19:41:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am in this relationship with my girl for a long time and ill surely marry her. I really love her but she got transferred to another state and now keep in touch through mail ad phone. Am totally devoted ad faithful to her, refusing all proposals and attention from other girls. recently i saw a girl who looks exactly like her, same figure, same smile, same hair style. This makes me think abt this new girl and wants to talk to her but I think this will b cheating on my girl so i dont appraoch her. My thinking abt this new girl makes me guilty and feeling bad, i am sure ill never talk to this new girl but how to stop thinking abt her?

2007-06-26 19:30:33 · 13 answers · asked by Ben B 1

i met a boy .he was my chat friend.
slowly we became very good friends.exchanged our numbers.we gossiped on phone over hours..
gradually we fell in love and he proposed 2 me.i said yes..
everything was fine till we met.he isnt good looking.rather very bad.
he is supportive,he gives me good suggestion,i can share everything with him..he has sacrificed many important issues for me,he really loves me,takes care of me,he helps me a lot,
and the rest he has good family back ground,status,money,he is smart,everything is fine with me except that look which i dont like..
what should i do now?
lwave him or continue the relationship??

2007-06-26 19:20:45 · 27 answers · asked by anamika 1

sorry guys!
but seriously.

what are some good messengers besides the typical: AIM YAHOO MSN etc...like a combination of the two.

something better than trillion.

2007-06-26 18:24:54 · 1 answers · asked by miss_dixon2006 1

Okay....I almost have my Bachelor degree, but I really want to go to medical school to become a doctor.
However....I am not in a huge rush to start....I graduated high school young, so I think I will take a year off between degrees.
Anyway, my husband is in the military, and we are really thinking about having our first baby. I have been wanting one forever, but I am so young and I am finshing my degree, so we put it off for a while. Anyways, we really want to have our first baby while he is in the military because we are settled in our cute apartment, and love where we live, and having a baby while in the military mean hardly no hospital bill.
So, I guess my question is..........do think I am being sensible or stupid.
I know that I will have a child during medical school, and I know that it is going to hard and I will be busy, but I still get summers off, and otherwise I would have a full time job anyway, right?
So, is this possible....any advice?

2007-06-26 18:00:35 · 11 answers · asked by mr.t'smom 2

My Ex and I been together for ten years and have 2 children one is mine biologically. She told me that she wants to be free, that she is not attracted to me, she wants me to find another girlfriend so that i can move on and that she is not in love with me and don't think that she ever really fell in love. She stated that she now sees me as just one of my friends or someone she grew up with and when she get her self together she will eventually start dating other people. She said that she wants to discover herself through relating to other people. She stated she will always like me and have some care for me because i am her childs father. She stated that she can only think about herself and want to do this for her. She stated she wants to know how it feels to be brokenhearted and that she cannot love me the way i love her and that i am a good person and need to find someone that can love me the way i love her. should I move on or should i wait and see if she come back or try to win her?

2007-06-26 17:49:12 · 20 answers · asked by kinetic 1

neither i nor my ex had planned on having children, but here we are nevertheless. he blames me for the pregnancy just as i blame him. however, he believes that i should tolerate his abuse because he does not want to be a father or pay child support. he is so monstrous and deceptive now that i can not be around him. i understand that he is angry, but i do not deserve this. i did not get pregnant intentionally -- this was not due to one of those psycho i-want-to-hold-onto-my-boyfriend tactics -- nor do i believe that he impregnated me intentionally. it was sheer naivete on our parts. he left me after my father passed. he deceived me into believing that he wanted a family, then unexpectedly moved after my father died and is not remorseful. i am devastated! do men sincerely feel that they are entitled to treat women horridly after they have inadvertently impregnated them? women can play dirty, too, but someone needs the level head. for now, i am level.

2007-06-26 17:42:14 · 22 answers · asked by starhopper 2

so...here's the story...he's my absolute best guy friend in the whole wide world to me...and i'm falling in love with him...and it seems like he feels the same way...almost everyone sees us as a couple...but...i dunno...

he's a REALLLLLYYYY reallllyyy shy person and he's REALLLLY reallly cute...it's just that..he NEVER EVER EVER even talks...i mean SRSLY!!! like NEVER!!!! except to hisbest friends...and his best friends are popular dudes...but...ok sooo it seems like we like each other...but he almost never says a word to almost anyone...so naturaly he doesn't tlk to me neither..well, he doesn't ignore me neither...he expreeses his feelings through his gaze...and i love him a lot...but...i'm not really completely sure about his feelings.

we tlk to each other a lot online and stuff..but...it's just not the same talking in person...i wonder...if he has feelings too...in this situation, would u think he would talk more or less to me is he really has feelings?

2007-06-26 17:02:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

it was just a peck, i know that doesnt jusitfy anything. it was a mistake ill never make again, and i just need advice. its been a month after weve broken up. i really need him back.

2007-06-26 16:59:27 · 3 answers · asked by Kaylaaa 1

on a website it say she was in a long-term relationship with lil wayne and lil wayne has a daughter....so just wonderin

2007-06-26 16:58:12 · 3 answers · asked by Scorpio 1

I ment a girl about a year ago and was very impressed by her hard work, charm and her drive to get an education and get ahead in life. Being much too old for her I started giving her $10.00 tips once or twice a week and gave her some money for her birthday, just trying to help her out since she was trying so hard to make it. She always thanks me and says she appreicates it .She has a girl 3 years old and a boy friend who also works hard to get ahead. I gave them a lawn mower and her some books to help with her schooling .They don't drink or do drugs and stay home most all the time. Her birthday is coming up and I bought her a $50.00 gift certificate for cloths and another friend of mine (a girl ) says I shouldn't give it to her and that I should probably leave her alone. I respect her and her boy friend and wish them the very best and hopefully a long and successfull life together. Am I wrong in giving her a birthday gift?

2007-06-26 15:31:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 15:03:27 · 6 answers · asked by PO3 2

My ex-boyfriend and me went out for over 2 years. It was a very rocky relationship but we worked through it. But it finally ended with a very ugly breakup and I saw him with another girl about two weeks later. We have not talked ever since and It has now been about a year. I want to know if I should call him so I can be at peace with my past and also get closure. Is it a good idea to contact him and be able to say hello when running into eachoter or is there anyother way I could get the closure I need??? thanks FYI he is still with the same girl he was right after we broke up and she was the main reason why we broke up.
Should I contact him???

2007-06-26 13:46:14 · 5 answers · asked by truth 2

I am 19, my boyfriend is 43. My parents cant deal with it. Why do people think that our love is wrong?

2007-06-26 13:21:24 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 13:18:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do people say that most people under 18 dont need to worry about love but worry about school? we have feelings and emotions about the opposite sex too. probably more so than most age groups becuz of our hormones. but even if you are not trying to find love it will find you in highschool and its not very nice when our heart is broken and people tell us to just get over it cuz were too young. especially when we didnt put ourselves in a situation it just came to us.

2007-06-26 13:16:20 · 10 answers · asked by :) 4

I mean, I'm still young and I have a sibling that is even younger than me. I want to give him advice, but I can't necessarily give him any good tips besides, "Think before you speak, Knock before opening a door, and make sure you worry about yourself before others..." Also, everyone, will you please only post 5 tips at most? And, thank you for choosing my question.

2007-06-26 12:46:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last summer I met this boy on the internet. I had seen him before in school so I knew that he actually exsisted and everything. Sooo we started talking online and I immediatley started to like him. We would stay up till three in the morning talking about everything!! There was never an awkward moment when we didn't have anything to say. And I could also tell him everything. So then towards the end of the summer, we decided to hang out and meet each other in person. So we went to the movies and we hooked up. All we did was makeout a few times. Soon, I fell in love with him. I knew it was love too. So I won't appreciate people telling me I wasn't in love. Because I was. But I noticed that he wouldn't talk to me as much. I started to think that maybe he wasn't attracted to me anymore since he saw me in person b/c his friend said i looked "different" in person. Hes three years older than me. WHAT CAN I DO TO GET HIM TO FEEL THE SAME WAY AS ME?! Im seriously desperate and it really hurts.

2007-06-26 12:15:06 · 7 answers · asked by juneBUG 2

my girlfriend doesn't make the effort to go out with me. im begining to feel that shes not that interested in me. idont have a problem with her hanging with her girl friends but WE need some 1on 1 time as well, i dont think its really fair apprently im not really her priority. what should i do now?

2007-06-26 11:02:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 11:01:13 · 19 answers · asked by phelixia_m 1

2007-06-26 10:59:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous