2007-06-26 13:18:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
our baby is 2 years old already.
2007-06-27 06:29:31 · update #1
If you have money, she do want to have sex. Females need security and money to offer their body to you. Males are crazy for sex, whereas females are choosy for sex. With males it is free item, for females it is a prized item.
2007-06-26 13:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Hafeez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK is this a hypothetical question or a real life-based one? Because if it is hypothetical then the point is moot. But if you are experiencing that personally with your partner, then you should talk openly with her. Tell her how you feel about it and be honest. She must also tell you the reason why has she been avoiding that. She might be tired from caring for the baby, of which you probably would not feel, since, perhaps you are not the primary caregiver to the babe. In any case, if worse comes to worse, counselling might help.
2007-06-26 13:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by joulsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she is exhausted...being tired, loses your desire to have sex. If she can feel refreshed, she'll get back on it. She may also suffer from post postpartum depression.
If you are a very supportive partner, try helping her out with doing chores around the house, taking care of the baby. Also do you know of someone who could babysit every now and then so she has a bit of time to herself.
If you give her all the support you can, I am sure she wont mind being your soul mate again. Talk to her and listen to what she has to say.
2007-06-26 13:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by lilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her out more around the house and keeping up with the baby and i'm sure she will find the need to have sex again... i could barely wait 3 weeks after having my last one:)
the other thing is you didnt say how long ago she had the baby but some women take longer to heal then others ..
2007-06-26 13:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by silkbutterfly1973 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You try squeezing a baby through there, it is extremely painful. I had two hard labors and after those I was so uncomfortable and in pain that it was the last thing on my mind. If your with someone who has recently had a baby you need to have Patience with her and back off. You have a hand, use it.
2007-06-26 13:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hormones. men keep having the desire most of their lives because our goal for reproduction is to have as many kids as possible, and our fertility is good for much longer. and its not harder after each kid.
Women on the other hand are looking for it until they have all the kids they feel nessecary to sucessfuly pass their genes on. After that, they will focus on the family and raising the kids while the man still is focusing on having more. Its like men want quantity, so their hormones always say they want sex, and women want quality, or just a few kids. so they dont want so much after theyve given birth.
2007-06-26 13:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Adam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They think that the baby has ruined their life and having sex caused the baby and so they dont want to have sex. That is just a guess because I dont have any children and I am still a virgin. :)
2007-06-26 13:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by Hillary Nance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your behind enemy lines, copping a flacking from the young mums on all directions :) Thats the evolutionary joke they played on us males, when the female sex drive goes down we still are raging on. Not funny Darwin!
But yeah, give it time I cant imagine pushing out a watermellon out of my peeper then suddenly doing anything but peeing out of it for a bit. (at least thats what the chicks say)
2007-06-26 13:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt feel great about her warped body...hormones are out of whack and it helps the mother to focus on the care of and bonding with the baby. help out more so she's not so exhausted and get her to excercise and eat and sleep better. good luck
2007-06-26 13:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking after a baby can be tiring, why not pamper her a little and get her in the mood! ;)
2007-06-26 13:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋