Other - Family & Relationships - 23 June 2007

Ok,i need some serious advice! I have been in a long-distance relationship with my bf Robert,who lives 2 states away,and weve been together for a year. We truly love each other,and i was planning on going to a university up where he lives. Major prob though! He recently told me that he decided to join the army for 4 years! He is not going to iraq,he will be positioned in the U.S.,although im questioning if things will work out. We want to stay together,and i love him soooo much,so im defidently willing to! But isnt it hard to contact someone when their in the army? Im only 16,so i dont have the option of marrying him yet. HELP! i need advice on how to stay in contact with him,and how to keep our relationship! plz!

2007-06-23 23:01:48 · 15 answers · asked by Maddy 3

Well, a couple monthes ago my fiance got a email from his ex wifes parents saying she killed herself along with his baby that she was pregnant with, just recently he told me that she's still alive, he just found out recently also, anyway he told me that her parents just told him that so he wouldn't go for custody and what not, well I want him to go for custody because I don't believe the girl could be a good mother, her doctors have said she has the mind and ability of a 13 year old and since the child is a part of my fiance I care for it already, my fiance doesn't want to fight for custody because he's worried about me feeling bad because I'm not the mother (I grew up with certain beliefs in a very christianity family) and I know I'll feel a bit sad about it, but I want him to have his child with him, I know its important to him, what do you think I should do? leave it be or try to talk him into fighting for the child? How should I go along with it? thanks in advance for all your help

2007-06-23 20:26:22 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4

2007-06-23 19:53:36 · 17 answers · asked by ninjaadam 2

Before the marriage:



He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.
She: Do you want me to leave?
He: NO! Don't even think about it.
She: Do you love me?
He: Of course!
She: Have you ever cheated on me?
He: NO! Why you even asking?
She: Will you kiss me?
He: Yes!
She: Will you hit me?
He: No way! I'm not such kind of person!
She: Can I trust you?
He: Yes.




Now after the marriage

--you can read it from bellow to up !!!!

2007-06-23 19:37:51 · 31 answers · asked by logic 5

This has gone long enough. I seriously think that four grown people can not live under the same roof, esp when two of them has authority over the other two. This has got to end. I need to get out of the house now. Is it possible for sum one to move out on their own without being fully finanically ready? Whats the odds of being successful, i.e. paying all major bills on time.

2007-06-23 19:08:55 · 10 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3

I mean he tells me he loves me all the time but there are the days when i get this werid feeling something is wrong. Last time i had that feeling, i found out he was flirting on his myspace. For some reason our relationship is just so different. It's like all he cares about is sex, ever since we broke up and got back togther. What should I do?

2007-06-23 18:19:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-23 17:33:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is my friend in my highschool years and seems to linger whenever i have this new boyfriend, i dont understand why he gives the reason to think of him. :c

2007-06-23 16:56:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend and i were swiming in her pool the other day and after we got out we had change and i couldnt find my pants. so i ask her to help me look for them and i was wearing my only pair of tightywhities so you could sort of see my stuff. while looking for my pants i was telling her how i was nervious about my upcoming physical. because i have a female doctor she said "would you be less nervious if i gave you one first?" i thought she was just joking so i laughted and said no and then she cupped my balls though my underwear and then pulled down my underwear and grabbed my stuff and laughed and the told me to cough. then she walked away and i eventually pulled up my underwear and kinda giggled but i really felt violated. so was it a joke or not and wat should i do? Were really close friends she's almost like my sister and weve seen eachother nude b4 but never any thing like this

2007-06-23 16:21:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

just to say i know im being a pus,sy here


we are both 17

she just broke up with her boyfriend of two years

we are close, but we never hang out and we haven't met each others families.

but we talk constantly and have known each other for 12 years


my moms wedding is in two weeks and i want to ask her to go

im not really worried about asking her

its that if she says no is that gonna make her think different of me

if she says yes is that gonna expand the relationship

i really just want to be friends with her and be there

i was thinking of asking her by saying:

i thought it would be a good time


i have to ask via email

heres what i got:

hey manda. my moms wedding is in a few weeks. i just found out that i need to bring a date. would you like to go with me?


whats your guess? yes or no

2007-06-23 16:18:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it okay to envy my best friend because she gets to see her father? Her parents are divorsed, My parents are also divorsed and I am ashamed that I can't ever see my father, and I just want to scream because it kills to know that I will probably never meet him.

2007-06-23 15:18:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have never been on a date in my whole life , i don't have freinds i have been sexual hassed at work in the past i have just been told at this job i have had for 1 and half that i am a bully and have now left i don't have any money and no family i can talk to Help as i don't know wheather it's worh living any one

2007-06-23 15:15:58 · 21 answers · asked by scared 1

why does my ex want me to be so involved in his wedding!?! we have been broken up 2 months...and hes been with this other chick for a month n a half...and they're getting married in january...and like he keeps talking about his wedding and **** like nothings wrong...i KNOW he still has feelings for me...and its like he keeps hanging on to me, not wanting me to move on....but yet he thinks he can...and i know this chicks just the rebound....and thas why hes movin so fast....and i hate it...and i told him i dont want to be involved and hes like u have to be because u got my daughter....so i told him that i dont have to be involved with the wedding....the only involvement i have in his life is with our daughter..so why is he doing this??

2007-06-23 15:00:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am gonna go to a different high school than him but i want him to be my first and we don't live that far from each other and we've been together for about a half year. and he wants me to be his first but he wants it before high school. but i don't want o show someone how much i love them then they just leave. what should i do?

2007-06-23 14:14:58 · 26 answers · asked by SamieWithProblems 1

I'd like to have a site where I can post pics and updates just for family and friends that is free. I'd rather they just link to it rather than having to join and become a 'friend' on the site like a blog. I do not want it open to the public. Any suggestions?

Thx in advance. :)

2007-06-23 13:49:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so I'm pregnant and very close to delivery, two months away. Its difficult for me to work, since I get tired easily.

My issue is I need things, besides the regular house expenses, you know food and cleaning supplies. I need to buy maternity clothes only have two garments that are, everything else I can't really fit, and other stuff, i want to get my hair done haven't had that in months, just things like that.

The problem is I ask my fiance for money hesitantly might I ad and he gives me such a hard time. He'll only give me enough money for groceries and a couple I really mean it like 2 dollars for myself. It's not that we're super poor either. He'll go an splurge on a video game or other things (recreational) stuff for himself. So now I'm stuck can't get a job, becuase no one wants to hire the pregoe, and without money.

How can I get my fiance to be less selfish with money. And help him to see its both of ours.
when i had a job i shared it all with him, every dime!

2007-06-23 11:46:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would the world be a better place?
if working women stopped being so selfish and stayed at home to look after the kids,

Additional Details

3 hours ago
what i meant to say was so many women seem career orientated when without trying to sound to sexist surely family should come first, how many have child minders looking after kids, its the mothers job to nurture,

2007-06-23 11:18:27 · 13 answers · asked by coopsradar 3

I played a practical joke on a mate at school - nothing too serious. I put a woopie cushion under his seat. Anyway he got back at me in a horrible way. We were changing in PE when he put the corner of my towl on the door. I thought I dropped my deodrant can outside so I opened the door (As I thought I still had the towl on). Then to my horror there was a roar of laughter from inside the classroom. Its like the dream when the whole school sees you naked. The whole town knows never mind the school! I hate it. It happened two weeks ago and people are still talking about it. My surname is McNulty and people are now calling me "Penis McNulty". how ridiculous is that! Even a teacher accidently said "Penis McNulty" when calling out the registrar in class and another refered to me as Penis. No-one will take me seriously! What will I do? It has gone too far.

2007-06-23 10:39:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I'm a 26 yr old guy, brought up by abusive parents who I no longer even feel close to. I'm a graudate and started working at 21, was really content with my life being independant and all, answerable to noone, but my parents didn't like that so screwed up my life.
I have a steady job but live in a different town now. I don't have a girlfriend because I just can't trust anyone, I have few friends and I speak too less.
I am planning to go back to the place where I started working, the place where I lived the best year of my life, the only difference is that I was very motivated back then, now I'm not so, plus I'm a bit older.
Your feedback will be really appreciated

2007-06-23 10:27:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've just had another death in my family last week. That makes three in the past six months, including my mother. I think I'm a strong person but I can only deal with so much. I'm starting to become numb from it all and I hate feeling that way. Can anyone help me with this?

2007-06-23 08:51:26 · 6 answers · asked by evadiva 4

We are very happy together and we connect well. We are also Aries (me) and Libra. I have been seeing him since V-Day. We were friends months before but because my ex at the time was an ***, I jokingly asked this guy to be my surrogate boyfriend for the night of v-day. Nothing happened but he cooked me dinner, drew a bath, rubbed my feet etc. He always takes good care of me. He never hit on me. Well months have past and now we are closer than ever. He tells me he loves me. I have two problems 1) His age. I could careless but I know my friends and family will not approve. 2) I really want a family with kids. Because of his age (his reasoning), he's on the fence about it. He also said that he would keep an open mind about it. We have so much fun together, I am happy with him and I do love him. My two reasons are weighing on my happiness. We don't really have titles, but both have acknowledge it's a relationship. He wants it to move forward. What do I do?

2007-06-23 08:26:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this single lady who lives next door and evening in evening out she comes to me and asks if I can lend her a couple of carrots or zucchinis 'cause she's having vegetable soup for dinner and about half an hour later she comes again and returns them to me saying she had pizza instead and they're all wet and sticky and smell fishy, I wonder what she's been doing with them and are they safe to eat, what can I do?

2007-06-23 01:57:07 · 18 answers · asked by Crappo 2

2007-06-23 00:04:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous