Other - Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

I've been in a relationship for 4 years, moved countries to be with her, dealt with many heartaches, struggled with our characters,shared the most wonderful moments of my life & find her completely an amazing person who I found it very easy to love.deep in this love, I proposed to her 1 year ago. 2 months ago we moved house (a small town to a city, which I'd long awaited) & at the same time as moving she made alot of trouble with me over minor problems.She has always had a problem apologizing & when she decided to blame me for her bad mood, I popped.Years of feeling I was the only one to blame crushed me & for a night I grew hateful.Once calm, she has said she will try to balance our troubles in future.I believe she derserves my forgiveness & believe she is the one for me.But something delicate was broken in this time & I can't find it again.We plan to marry in Aug, but I don't feel the deep love for her I once did.Now it looks like we will cancel the wedding & break-up. What happened?

2007-06-19 22:38:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay. So, my husband was acting funny and kind of sneaking to get on the computer all the time. He would tell me he was going to lay down, and get on the computer, or he'd come straight home from work and go straight to the bedroom and get on the computer without even acknowledging myself or our eight month old son. Well, yesterday was our second anniversary. He came home from work, walked RIGHT PAST us sitting on the couch, and came in here to the computer. He mumbled something to me, but no "Happy Anniversary", no kiss, nothing to our baby.. nothing! I was so mad, so when he got off the computer, I checked his myspace and he was sending messages to his ex's sister. There was nothing incriminating in there, he's not a cheater, trust me. BUT, I don't get why he's all sneaky and sh!t. I confronted him about ignoring us, and always getting online to check to see if she had mssged him back, and he got mad and changed all his passwords. I feel like he doesn't trust me, and I thought that

2007-06-19 22:35:45 · 9 answers · asked by ... 1

today an ex girlfriend called my boyfriend saying that she wanted to end their friendship because she did not want us together. i personally don't know her but all i know is that they have been broken up for almost a year & now she just acted that way. My BF & i have been together for 6 months now. And the whole time we thought she was okay with it & was talking to someone else. Turns out she wasnt. Now, my boyfriend feels really bad even though he hasnt done anything &he wants to try to work things out.

Personally, I think it is healthy to have cordial relationships with ex girlfriends. It shows some maturity & kindness to be able to pull it off. But shes acting like an ex-girlfriend who is really taking advantage of the situation and crossing lines. It may be easy to pity her situation, & she may be really unhappy, but I suspect these are her suggesting she might do something drastic (such as ending their friendship) if her needs arent met like emotional blackmail. What do we do?

2007-06-19 22:24:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

The kids are obligation-free until the start of school again this August. I have two 10 y/os, one 8 y/o and a 20 month old. Any ideas for free / cheap / fun things to do to keep the dulldrums away?

2007-06-19 21:50:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been dating this girl for about a month.She just got out of a very hurtful 2 year relationship.i know she really likes me cause she told me.She has even admitted to her friends that I am a great guy and has never been treated so good.She is just so standoffish sometimes.I mean if she is crazy about me then why not tell me.Would giving her time and a little space be the right thing to do?

2007-06-19 21:07:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

actually it's a step-cousin.. so, no blood relation.. he wants me, he keeps telling me he loves me, but i am engaged to someone & don't want him at all!! he is strictly a friend only.. he keeps calling me and trying to get me to go out with him.. how can i make it clear that i am not interested without hurting his feelings???? i don't understand why he loves me if he knows already that i am engaged and don't want him!!

2007-06-19 20:15:18 · 13 answers · asked by what's it gonna be?? 2

after two years +seven of being friends ,my girl friend told me she was moving 1900miles away.She said I could go too,but I cant .both of our familys live here,and are in thier mid 70s.she is moving anyway,and has turned my world upside down because I love her,she is my life,and she says she loves me too,but this is something she says she has to do.what about us? is this how you love someone?leave them behind? she says that she'll most likely come back because we have such a conection and she can't see her life without me.GO FIGURE...this has devistated me,I am so hurt that this is something she is justifying with no regards for me at all.I don't know what to even do with myself cause she moved out and is with friends untill she goes.excuse me but...should this be telling me to move on?she still comes over and sleeps with me and still tells me she loves me,but this is something she has to do..whats really going on here?and this is how I came to my question.. Heart broken/angry ?

2007-06-19 19:15:14 · 10 answers · asked by offwhite 1

I live in Washington County, Oregon. I was wondering if anyone knows where I can go to get help for things besides food...clothing, utilities help, get aa christmas list...stuff like that...thank you!

2007-06-19 19:10:22 · 5 answers · asked by sara_and_cj 3

I think my in laws hate me just by the way they act & I HATE going around them but I know I have to especially for Holidays & stuff just to be there for my husband.....I always dread holidays now due to having to be around them....should I go & be there for my husband & over look them or should I tell my husband how I feel which he pretty much already knows & not go hoping my husband will understand my feelings.......???

2007-06-19 17:59:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-19 15:09:26 · 10 answers · asked by Samantha 4

when i am with my boyfriend I have butterflys in my stomach, every problem in my life and all the pressure in the world goes away, and my heart pounds a million miles a minute...is this true love?

2007-06-19 14:57:50 · 3 answers · asked by Haley 2

I should mention my husband did not grow up in this country and sometimes just does some crazy things with his clothes. The biggest thing that irks me is how he always wears white socks with black pants. I have hid them, bought him more black socks...all kinds of things. But he always finds the white socks! LOL If we are going out together I usually get him to change them but it is such a hassle. Should I just let this go? I've accepted so many things he does...but the clothing thing is really bothering me.

2007-06-19 14:48:10 · 11 answers · asked by Sassafrass 6

i dont know what is means . he tends to be rude to me well he was so bad that he was almost fired . i have normal eye brows but for some reason when ever the topic or heat and sweating comes up he says this what do you think he is on about .
i am 44 m and he is 20 m .
one more thing i just started wearing a sweat band to help keep cool and not get it in my eyes . i dont know if that has anything to do with his repeated statements

2007-06-19 14:28:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted this earlier, but I thought I'd post it again.
http://painwoman.com/spankedsweeties/picindex2/pic_44.jpg

It is a picture I took of my ***** sister getting a spanking from my mom! She was really bugging everyone last week, including me. One day she was extra bitchy, and I heard my mom yell the word "spanking" and I grabbed my camera, hid in the kitchen, then zoomed in and shot this embarrassing picture. Wait til' she finds out!

2007-06-19 13:17:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

could it wanting to feel young and care free again?

2007-06-19 12:27:19 · 9 answers · asked by babygirl 1

he died on july 12, 2005 in a car accident. he ran into a tree.

2007-06-19 11:46:36 · 1 answers · asked by susanschrf 1

Sometimes I think I'm wasting my time when I'm the only one who does the calling and visiting. I feel like I'm a loser and a user when I only call when I need something but that's the only way to reach people including my family. I feel like my love is in vain so often. What do you think?

2007-06-19 11:43:18 · 18 answers · asked by ? 6

I never no my bedtime so I thought I would leave it you guys

2007-06-19 11:36:12 · 10 answers · asked by kif 3

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2007-06-19 11:19:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just something i've been thinking. can it lat forever or will the puppy love thing wear off.

2007-06-19 11:05:04 · 6 answers · asked by biker116823 1

2007-06-19 10:47:17 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-19 10:08:36 · 39 answers · asked by hillman_avenger2006 3

ok, so this guy on yahoo messenger im'ed me the other day and was tellin me all this stuff about how he liked me and all this stuff and id never even met him before. he got on my myspace page and saw all my pictures and now all hes been telling me on messenger is how he wishes he could be my boyfriend and all that. but see the thing is is that im only 14 and hes 20 and he thinks im 15 for some odd reason but i DO NOT! like him at all. some of the things he says to me are just plain nasty and it grosses me out.how do i tell him that i dont want to talk to him and i dont like him??? PLZ HELP ME!


i asked him y he liked me and he said it was because i was smart,funny,beautiful, and because i liked him! he thinks i like him and i dont!

2007-06-19 09:33:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-19 09:23:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to have a big family when i grow up. My mom came from a big family, and my dads was normal sized. I love the idea of having lots of kids around. But how many is to many kids? Years ago it was easier to raise a bunch of kids since things were cheeper and most people did have big families. I was thinking at least 4 kids. What's your opionions on raising large families now a days? How many is too many kids? will it be fiancially possible to raise 4 or more kids? will it be too hard on the kids to be so many? how many kids do you think is a good number to have and why?
Thanks in advance! Please try to answer!

2007-06-19 08:20:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night my boyfriend and I agreed to go his Papa's house for an hour cuz I was sick but I really wanted to come. Well we ended up staying outside for 3 hours while he talked to his friend who he talks to on a daily basis. He happens to work right next to his grandfathers house. Well it got really cold cuz it was getting late. After standing in the cold for 2 hours, his friend left for a second he said we'll go in a minute cuz i was getting cold, not feeling good, and really tired from being sick. so i waited another hour with him so I ended up going inside the house and talked with his Papa. But deep down I was really mad because we agreed to an hour and and he stayed till 10:30pm knowing i was sick and i have to get up early for work the next day. It somewhat felt like he didn't care. I didnt say anything cuz I hate arguing and sounding like a b*tch. Was i wrong for being upset? should I of said something? What would you of done in that situation?

2007-06-19 08:20:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

tony has 2 children(5+7 yrs)with his exwife who he has joint custody with and is a totally devoted dad.His children are his exwifes "life" and she is very possessive of them regarding me.Plus the fact she was not all that happy about our marrige(she allways thought he would come back to her).Since tony is such a good dad he never misses any school/sport activites the boys have so i have to deal with her on almost a daily bases.Yes i could stay home but i like to go too and see the boys and spend time with my husband.She makes it obvious she does not like me and i will never be "family" to the boys.I have asked tony to talk to her but he does not want to get involved and make waves(taking the high road for his sons)Please "exwifes" don't attack me i'm asking for your help.

2007-06-19 08:11:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a wonderful career for which I worked really hard (universities, masters etc etc). I have also a wonderful boyfriend, but we are in a long distance relationship (different countries), because of serious family problems of his, so he cannot move here with me. Right now he cannot move where I live, but I can move to where he lives, sacrificing though my career. How do I know what to choose? Please help!

2007-06-19 07:37:52 · 8 answers · asked by Martin 1

1) If them came at you all at once?
2) If they came at you 1 at a time in 5 second intervals?
3) If they came at you 2 at a time in 5 second intervals?

2007-06-19 07:31:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiance have been through alot and we have made some big mistakes and when i was pregnat he was always wanting to party and and did some drugs and i know he made some big mistakes and i just wish i could forget about them well i have been really grumpy with him b/c every time i think about it i just get so mad at him and he is my world and we love each other so much and i know this but i just wish i could get rid of the past

2007-06-19 07:14:32 · 10 answers · asked by Tiffany T 1