my fiance have been through alot and we have made some big mistakes and when i was pregnat he was always wanting to party and and did some drugs and i know he made some big mistakes and i just wish i could forget about them well i have been really grumpy with him b/c every time i think about it i just get so mad at him and he is my world and we love each other so much and i know this but i just wish i could get rid of the past
2007-06-19 07:14:32 · 10 answers · asked by Tiffany T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tiffany i have the same problem my fiance was into a drug that killed my best friend when i was younger and it pisses me off when i think about it to she doesnt do it anymore but i know she did and i treat her like crap sometimes because of this i allways feel liek she never really appologized for this so maybe thats why i am still holding a grudge she is my world to but i cant help it some times i have come t realize that i have the right to be mad as long as dont treat her right when i am so hopefully this helps because i know how you feel
2007-06-19 07:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never forget the past, it has already happened.
But you cannot change anything except the way you think.
The good thing about bad experience is it helps us do better.
Blaming your fiance is not helpful; has he voiced regrets?
You might use your mistakes to help others avoid them.
But you need to forgive one another & yourselves.
2007-06-19 07:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
supply the destructive guy a smash.....He did all that romantic stuff and it have been given him nowhere, he has given it up, moved on and gotten older and wiser. words are affordable, i could write you the main alluring and critical love letter/poem you could think of and it could mean zilch, i don't additionally be attentive to you, plus i'm a immediately female rofl. Your guy of course used his magazine to pour his little coronary heart out, he would not could try this now he has found you. this is termed transforming into up and filling your existence with extra substantial issues. Why are you petrified of being "disillusioned"? it is all on your head not his, and whilst i will forgive you examining his writings, you does not be having those concepts in case you had stored your snout out female. in case you extremely need to spend your existence with this guy then very own as much as what you have executed, in any different case it is going to likely be a festering sore on your relationship, i've got faith that a million/2 the situation is your guilt at what you have executed. quantity one for a stable marriage is communique, what you do not communicate approximately is what destroys it. forget approximately approximately what he will sing on the marriage, that is what's in his coronary heart that counts. Have merely examine your "info". Are you asserting he's not romantic with you, or not as romantic as he became approximately/with them? no rely if this is with then you definitely put off the marriage, any guy who drops the romance as quickly as the date is desperate isn't a guy to marry. have confidence me on that one, whilst that is long gone that is long gone for stable, so in case you like or prefer it (romance)you in easy terms won't get it.
2016-10-18 01:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by thao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called baggage we all have some. If you are truly in love than you stow the baggage in the basement,lock the door and move on. If you can't let go of it you need to move out !
2007-06-19 07:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Philly Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you. You need to talk about what's happened and reach a mutual understanding, but.. there comes a time when you either need to bury it forever or break it off with him... You'll feel better if you can find a way to let it go..
2007-06-19 07:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by MetalMaster4x4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if he's not carein bout your baby and how u can't do party crapp and secondly i wouldn't want a druggy in my house no siry. so i would tell if he doesn't start being more respondsible then he's out.finally just think of what good things u have like your baby.
2007-06-19 07:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the flashing device in Men in Black. Use that.
2007-06-19 07:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him and yourself. thats the only thing you can really do. anyways love always wins
2007-06-19 07:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
learning to let go isnt easy isit. just take your time and remember your life is worth living.
2007-06-19 07:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will never forget however, you can work on forgiveness.
2007-06-19 07:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋