Other - Family & Relationships - 22 June 2007

How do I bring her back?Despite my best efforts to educate her about not dating a black guy, she betrays me. Maybe I should just threaten to disown her. It's not something I want to restort to though. What do you think?

2007-06-22 20:25:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was driving home from work yesterday and saw a little girl; in a bus stop; crying her heart out clutching her teddy. She could not have been much over 6 years old, by herself. I initially drove by but it distressed me so much I had to go back. I spoke to the girl got her mum's mobile number and called her to find out where she was. She said she was only seconds away. The little girl thanked me. Was i right or was i wrong..i feel it was the lesser of the two wrongs...please advise.

2007-06-22 20:08:42 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 18 years old male
and recently I have this strong sexual urges.
I go to porn websites almost everyday.
Is pornography bad?

and most importantly, Is it going to affect loving relationship later on? how?

2007-06-22 20:05:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other day I was at the beach with my girl friend she took the bikini straps off her shoulders (to get an even tan). Well we were kind of close to the ocean. We were laying out there with our eyes closed and this guy starts yelling watch water! really loud.. he scared my gf which jumped up.. and started pushing all our stuff away... unfortunately she forgot about her bathing suit.... and actually so did i.

after we moved everything we noticed that the water was still far away from us. The guy was just staring and smiling with his friend directly at my girlfriend chest which was completely exposed.

i just asked her to fix it... and just left at that. but soon later i wished i had yelled at them or something. What do you think I should have done? My girlfriend was mad because she knew they did it on purpose. There were a lot people around and we heard a lot of laughter especially after some guy said "wow they really bounce". But that is because her breasts are large.

2007-06-22 19:53:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other day I was at the beach with my girl friend she took the bikini straps off her shoulders (to get an even tan). Well we were kind of close to the ocean. We were laying out there with our eyes closed and this guy starts yelling watch water! really loud.. he scared my gf which jumped up.. and started pushing all our stuff away... unfortunately she forgot about her bathing suit.... and actually so did i.

after we moved everything we noticed that the water was still far away from us. The guy was just staring and smiling with his friend directly at my girlfriend chest which was completely exposed.

i just asked her to fix it... and just left at that. but soon later i wished i had yelled at them or something. What do you think I should have done? My girlfriend was mad because she knew they did it on purpose. There were a lot people around and we heard a lot of laughter

2007-06-22 19:29:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would love answers from all age groups so please state your age and # of children. I have a myspace page and so does my daughter, I went to go read her page today and she covered the screen and said, "why do YOU have to read it?!?" She has always been like this and I assumed it was because she has something to hide that she is embarrassed about. BUT she knows that I already know about her, and after I read it, THERE WAS NOTHING to hide, and all she said was that she was embarrassed about cursing and that's why!!! I already know about that and way way more so what is the problem? Why does she post something for EVERYONE TO READ but then doesn't want ME to read it? SHE has always been like this....it's like she doesn't want to share her life with me. :( I already know how teens are and I wouldn't be shocked about anything and she knows that! She also KNOWS that she wouldn't get "in trouble" for anything. Question for adults: Talk to me about how much privacy you think a teen should have.

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11 hours ago
She added me as a friend to her myspace page, I was on MY myspace page and went to her page from mine. I was not keeping tabs on her or snooping. She is 17 and I'm transitioning into the "friend" instead of "parent" stage....but she wants me to be EVEN LESS than a friend. I'm very hurt by this but she has been this way for a long time. Another question: Why is it that as a parent you are expected to totally support your older teen and they only use you for what you can give them and then don't want to spend time with you or involve you in their life? Should you make them spend time with you? <---I listened to the advice of an expert and he said yes you should, but I have serious doubts.
Last week, by accident I caught her cheating on her boyfriend. Then when I told her that it was wrong, she asks me, "Why do you care?!?" In other words, "BUTT OUT!" Should we as parents butt out? and does the child really mean this, because if I did butt out, then I'd be accused of not caring.

2007-06-22 19:08:26 · 19 answers · asked by Always Honest 3

2007-06-22 19:05:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i go out to party every weekend nd i cant hav fun unless i hav an extasy pil ill onl hav a half or 1 per night never any more nd i drink tones of alcahole as well nd i MUST go out every week end i need to so do i hav a drug problem. this question asked 4 my friend

2007-06-22 19:00:02 · 6 answers · asked by joeyjo123 3

Hypothetically speaking...say you were in a long distance realtiionship for a few months, the first month, everything is good, everyday conversations, I get the number one slot on his my space 's friends' list(hehe) and then we see each othere, go out, have sex, ..and everythings good, so another month goes by, but then there's really no plans to see each other, his myspace friends list is hidden, however he does have pictures on his page (saying I'm the love of his life) so you can't see any of his friends.. yet we still talk everyday, but are made to see each other again, I mean I know he's going through problems financially but should I be concerned, is it an excuse or am I worrying about nothing?

2007-06-22 18:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by Velinda S 1

If someone leaves you a nasty answer, do you respond?

2007-06-22 18:11:23 · 4 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7

what does it mean when your woman needs time apart, not breaking up but liveing apart for a while, well she asked for eight months. we have had our up and downs fighting,and crap like that. but we both know we love each other and we are getting married next may.... she said she has alot of stuff on her mind and needs to work it out in order to give it her all to this relationship.. last time she needed time apart was because of someone eles can it be that again or is she truely needing time to grow closer to me, we have been together 1 year and 6 months. I dont want to lose her so please help me out

2007-06-22 17:41:57 · 17 answers · asked by Coldice 1

Many yrs ago, my dad had an affair with my stepsis that lasted for yrs. My stepmom passed away, and my step sister is a lier, thief and a will do anything to get $ from anyone. She has seduced my dad, because he has $ and she is trying to drain every penny out of him.
She has lied that she has cancer, car was stolen (which was repoed), anything to get $ from him.
She is 59 and my dad is 78. I finally convinced him to move 600 miles closer to me. He has met a wonderful lady here, and yet he is so depressed because of my stepsister. I told him that if he went back to his step daughter, that I would have nothing do with him ever again. I hate her and that is a very strong feeling for me to have towards someone.
His current gf is fet up with him, because he doesn't want to do anything with her. I told her to break up with him.
So, what do I do? Give my stepsis a nice phone call, or tell my dad to just go back to her? If I call my stepsis, she will go back and tell him.

2007-06-22 16:52:15 · 10 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7

I'm a girl...I don't mean if she likes me or not in a sick way
1. She stares at me...alot
2. Sometimes gets really close when she helps
3. Takes up for me against certain ppl
4. Checks me out and smiles
On the other hand..
1. Doesn't talk to me much, but carries on convos w/ other students
2. Completely ignores me around her teacher friends, but stares at me outta the corner of her eyes
3. Her husband knows my name..i think she talks bad about me to him
4. When ppl that are close to her talk about me, she laughs

What's her f*ckin problem?

2007-06-22 15:57:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 35 and not ugly, My man looks at women in front of me. Denies, has fits. He is not a pedi. We talk about it he doesnt admit. I luv this man. Very good provider but this is one thing that hurts. He luvs me I know reasons I will not disclose. He wont go to counseling. I understand women are beautiful, but I cant stand it.

2007-06-22 13:27:36 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

His crimes were mainly of a fraudulent nature and because we were always short on cash & he did the only thing he ever knew. His intentions were always good, just so that we could pay the bills. Now he is back in jail for alledgedly a breach of his conditional sentence and there are some new charges he must answer too. I believe the police make up a lot of these things because he has such an awful record and they want to nail him, which we can prove when we get the chance. We just want to be left alone and live our life peacefully. I have a new job which pays pretty good and we have also found a way to live rent free legally! We take care of the building where we live. We have alieviated a lot of the stress which had been the cause of his previous actions, But for now I don't know when he'll get out. So do I stay faithful and wait or should I get out and enjoy life without starting new relationships? I don't want to feel like I'm cheating, but he made his mistakes not me. I never knew

2007-06-22 13:24:32 · 13 answers · asked by Brett J 1

Was it real love or, was it just the newness of these feelings and explorations?

2007-06-22 12:59:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've come to realize what type of person I am. I'm cold, I don't believe in friendship or love, I hurt my family. I don't give a sh#t about nobody. I hate with all my guts everything. and the worse is that I end up hurting myself. How Do i fix that? What made me this way? my family was always loving, my parents are not divorced, we never had any financial problem. What went wrong? Why I can't feel passion?

2007-06-22 12:55:09 · 22 answers · asked by Gina 1

SATAN'S MEETING:

Satan called a worldwide convention of demons. In
his opening address he said,

"We can't keep Christians from going to church."

"We can't keep them from reading their Bibles and knowing the truth."


"We can't even keep them from forming an intimate
relationship with their saviour."

"Once they gain that connection with Jesus, our
power over them is broken."

"So let them go to their churches; let them have
their covered dish dinners BUT steal their time, so
they don't have time to develop a relationship with
Jesus Christ.."

"This is what I want you to do," said the devil:

"Distract them from gaining hold of their Saviour
and maintaining that vital connection throughout
their day!"

"How shall we do this?" his demons shouted.

"Keep them busy in the non-essentials of life and
invent innumerable schemes to occupy their minds,"
he answered.

"Tempt them to spend, spend, spend, and borrow,
borrow, borrow."

"Persuade the wives to go to work for long hours and
the husbands to work 6-7 days each week, 10-12 hours
a day, so they can afford their empty lifestyles."

"Keep them from spending time with their children."

"As their families fragment, soon, their homes will
offer no escape from the pressures of work!"

"Over-stimulate their minds so that they cannot hear
that still, small voice."

"Entice them to play the radio or cassette player
whenever they drive."

To keep the TV, VCR, CDs and their PCs going
constantly in their home and see to it that every
store and restaurant in the world plays non-biblical
music constantly."

"This will jam their minds and break that union with
Christ."

"Fill the coffee tables with magazines and
newspapers."

"Pound their minds with the news 24 hours a day."

"Invade their driving moments with billboards."

"Flood their mailboxes with junk mail, mail order
catalogs, sweepstakes, and every kind of newsletter
and promotional offering free products, services and
false hopes.."

"Keep skinny, beautiful models on the magazines and
TV so their husbands will believe that outward
beauty is what's important, and they'll become
dissatisfied with their wives. "

"Keep the wives too tired to love their husbands at
night."

"Give them headaches too! "

"If they don't give their husbands the love they
need, they will begin to look elsewhere."

"That will fragment their families quickly!"

"Give them Santa Claus to distract them from
teaching their children the real meaning of
Christmas."

"Give them an Easter bunny so they won't talk about
his resurrection and power over sin and death."

"Even in their recreation, let them be excessive."

"Have them return from their recreation exhausted."

"Keep them too busy to go out in nature and reflect
on God's creation.

Send them to amusement parks, sporting events,
plays, concerts, and movies instead."

"Keep them busy, busy, busy!"

"And when they meet for spiritual fellowship,
involve them in gossip and small talk so that they
leave with troubled consciences."

"Crowd their lives with so many good causes they
have no time to seek power from Jesus."

"Soon they will be working in their own strength,
sacrificing their health and family for the good of
the cause."

"It will work!"

"It will work!"

It was quite a plan!

The demons went eagerly to their assignments causing
Christians everywhere to get busier and more rushed,
going here and there.

Having little time for their God or their families.
Having no time to tell others about the power of
Jesus to change lives.

I guess the question is, has the devil been
successful in his schemes?

You be the judge!!!!!

Does "BUSY" mean: B-eing U-nder S-atan's Y-oke?

Please pass this on, if you aren't too BUSY!

I don't think I know 10 people who would admit they
love Jesus.

Do You Love Him?

IF YOU LOVE JESUS, PASS THIS ON!!!!!!!

Judy E. Smith - HR Assistant
SUPERVALU Distribution Center

2007-06-22 10:18:09 · 3 answers · asked by lovesshawnmichelle 3

said U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta today.

Does this statistic sound bloated, about normal or underestimates the behaviour of the people you know?

2007-06-22 10:09:28 · 22 answers · asked by G 6

what if she was a muslim and you wernt and u loved her enough to spend your life with her but she couldnt have you or have a intimate relationship coz she couldnt without marriage, then what happens? remember she cant even marry you coz a muslim woman has to marry a muslim guy so what would you go guys if you thought she was the one for you :(

2007-06-22 09:51:46 · 7 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6

Well my friend lost his first love a few years ago n since then hes been live his live full of sadness i promised him i would figure out away to make him forget about all the hurt even if it was just for a day. and i came up with the perfect ideal.... he want to become a fighter pilot, and there's this thing called combat air fighter pilot for a day. Its the perfect thing... but its a grip of money. $1195 and I'm only 18 have a daughter and bills and a car and all kinds of shyt so i need to figure out a way to get the money before November any suggestions?

2007-06-22 08:58:00 · 11 answers · asked by Miss_Royalty 2

I hate how my boyfriend lies to me! like he told me there was a gwen stefani concert and i asked him how he knew and he said the radio...but it so happens that his sister went to it..( i knew inhis head he was thinking that she went..but he never tells me).. also..my bf went to the theatres with his sister and never told me about it..( i dont care if he goes out with sister, but he like lies to me about it).. half a year later i found tickets that he went to watch it and he said he didnt watch it with her..then i had to drag it out of him..and he sed he did.. it just makes me wonder what i was doing at that time and what he sed he was doing.. he knows im jealous of his sisters..so he tries to hide everything from me..but when i find out , i get even more mad.. i jsut want him to be honest firsthand.and he calls justin timberlake JT which he never did until his sister did.and i try to engage in convo so i sed i like him and he says what song do you know. like his sister better than me

2007-06-22 07:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by girl 1

i was talking abuot wanting a this particular Louis vuitton purse ($1000)all day to my boyfreind and how i wanted it and how i would buy it soon.. then i see my boyfriends sister coming out of the car with EXACTLY the same purse!.. my bf kept on telilng me if i really like it, it shouldnt stop me from buying it.. its just the fact that if we get married..its SO weird isnt it?? for sisters and sister in law to get exactly same purse??i so want it but i hate the feeling.. im also jealous bcuz whjen we looked at that purse at the store..he said its very nice... and now since i dont want the same bag.. i wanted to get another one but he doesnt like that one..and it pisses me off knowing that he likes his sisters purse better! which was what i wanted.. i hate when he likes other ppl stuff besides mine! why ami jealous for??? help me. please

2007-06-22 07:49:56 · 12 answers · asked by girl 1

There's just something there. But I think somethings bothering her. I don't know if I should tell her right now.

2007-06-22 06:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by killer P 2

Why do some people automatically stereotype on here>? FOr example if a girl that's in her 20s asks about dating older men half her age everyone on here automatically assumes she's just in it for the money.

Or if a girl is wondering why she attracts players and rapists people automatically assume she's a whore, dresses like a skank and wants nothing but attention but most of the time you're wrong??

2007-06-22 06:54:52 · 4 answers · asked by Juliet 1

im 18 and in love with a wonderful guy he is the best and i truly love him i have had alot of boyfriends before but have never had this feeling before he told my friend and asked my mom if we can get engaged after high school,but the problem is my mom wants to immegrate and i dont want to go i want to stay with him he's mom said i can stay with them and he also doesnt want me to go...what sould i do?? stay with my true love or let my mom take me away from him??

2007-06-22 06:51:50 · 6 answers · asked by Kyle's_Girl 1

games, but mistreat men who are loyal, good to them and respect women. After they mistreat the good man and get treated badly by the doggish ones, they claim all men are no good. Explain that.

I consider my self a good man. Would never have more than one woman on my at one time and I take good care of that woman. But I seem to lose that woman to the dudes who ain't worth s**t. But then they come back around talking about how men are no good and only want one thing.

2007-06-22 06:50:04 · 8 answers · asked by itsjustme 3

2007-06-22 06:39:13 · 11 answers · asked by WALLACE M 1

2007-06-22 06:19:27 · 35 answers · asked by flower4bird 1

Would love answers from all age groups so please state your age and # of children. I have a myspace page and so does my daughter, I went to go read her page today and she covered the screen and said, "why do YOU have to read it?!?" She has always been like this and I assumed it was because she has something to hide that she is embarrassed about. BUT she knows that I already know about her, and after I read it, THERE WAS NOTHING to hide, and all she said was that she was embarrassed about cursing and that's why!!! I already know about that and way way more so what is the problem? Why does she post something for EVERYONE TO READ but then doesn't want ME to read it? SHE has always been like this....it's like she doesn't want to share her life with me. :( I already know how teens are and I wouldn't be shocked about anything and she knows that! She also KNOWS that she wouldn't get "in trouble" for anything. Question for adults: Talk to me about how much privacy you think a teen should have.

2007-06-22 06:11:41 · 8 answers · asked by Always Honest 3