2007-06-22 06:19:27 · 35 answers · asked by flower4bird 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unless they've changed their life style - and had a change of heart you won't really know. I'd say stand back and watch him from a distance before getting involved, if he's changed you'll see a difference. But I wouldn't get involved before knowing 100% they've grown up or changed their ways.
2007-06-22 06:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by razor_sharp_redhead 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It probably won't be different but it can be special if you are the one he cares about. Unless the guy is a virgin their really isn't much of anything you can do that will be different enough for him to notice. After sleeping with a certain amount of people it all becomes the same, however a person that just has emotionless with think emotional sex is the most incredible thing in the world because emotions make everything that much more intense... so if he truly cares about you it will be special, if not then it will all be the same to him.
2007-06-22 06:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by Music Junky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once attracted to someone who had 'slept with everyone.' I thought I could change him. If I loved him enough he would settle down with me & be a changed man.
Wake up & smell the coffee. If he has 'slept with everyone' you need to start asking why. In my experience, men like this just see women as little snacks, like a pizza. They pick one up, consume the goods & cast aside the packaging before they build their apetite for the next one. If you're happy being a quick snack then fair enough, but if you're looking for something more, look for a man with a little more depth & respect.
2007-06-22 06:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone is telling you to not do it....
well if you truly want to be with this guy, ask him to get tested for obvious reasons (I don't know if you're a virgin) but if you're not, get tested with him, it will make him feel more comfortable.
I am not like this anymore but when I was younger, I slept around A LOT, hit double digits within 2 years. When my fiance and I got serious he asked me how many people I've been with as I asked him the same. His was way way way less than mine and he was extremely upset for the night BUT he loves me for who I am and knows I'm not like that anymore. Everyone has a past - remember that. You're the present with him. Good luck!
2007-06-22 06:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you then he will wait, that's really the only why to tell if it is different or not. If he trys to push it on you then just tell him you are not ready and see the way he acts about it, that should tell you. But if you already have and he has stayed round then he really may care for you because he would have left already. Just keep your eyes open is the best thing you can do. I have been there too I know how it fills, but it worked out for me and I'm happy. It can you too.
GOOD LUCK
2007-06-22 06:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know. all you can do is follow your heart. it is better to have love and lost than to never have loved at all. i'll tell you how i know this. i was in love with this guy that i met when i was 16. he was 17 and VERY popular among the ladies if you know what i mean. we dated and we had our ups and downs. i had many run ins with these girls that were obsessed with him and he even cheated on me more times than i can remember. it absolutely devestated me. my mom always said that it was puppy love and i would get over it. my friends all called him a dog and said he would never change. well, guess what??? I am now 26 and he is 27 and we are married! we got married six months ago! he is truley the love of my life and my love for him continues to grow. and he did change. but not for me, he changed for himself because he felt what it was like to be without me and he couldnt handle it. what is meant to be will ALWAYS find a way.
but make sure that if you follow my advice you also make sure to always protect yourself. have safe sex and get on the pill because your story might not turn out like mine, but you will never know unless you take a chance!
p.s. also, dont allow any guy to dogg you. love yourself and stick up for yourself!
2007-06-22 06:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont sleep with him and see if he is still interested in you. Obviously he can get sex from anyone...if he's interested in you, he'll see you for the real qualities you have and get to know YOU as a person. If he doesn't, then just know there will be another bus coming in 15 minutes.
2007-06-22 06:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by sasiebone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hop into the sack with him right away. Hold out a couple of monthes and see if he sticks around. If he doesn't you know that he only wanted sex. If he is willing to wait then he probably does like you.
2007-06-22 06:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by tender loving dyke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know they have "Slept with everyone" did they tell you that or are you just assuming. Bad reputation maybe? You never know unless you try. Just make sure to wear protection!!!!!
2007-06-22 06:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by Deb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this "person" truly cares for you.... you would not HAVE to sleep with them to maintain a relationship! Also remember this persons track record, you may want to reassess you attraction to this person. I would also hope and pray that you use the good sense of using protection with this person.......as you do not know if they are with you soley! There are too many diseases that can kill you out there! Be careful, good luck and God bless
2007-06-22 06:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by Tere S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋