what if she was a muslim and you wernt and u loved her enough to spend your life with her but she couldnt have you or have a intimate relationship coz she couldnt without marriage, then what happens? remember she cant even marry you coz a muslim woman has to marry a muslim guy so what would you go guys if you thought she was the one for you :(
2007-06-22 09:51:46 · 7 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a moot question, at least as it applies to you, because you have already said that you were a Christian.
Make up your mind.
Assuming you have one....
2007-06-27 16:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Elsa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is about compromise and self-sacrifice. However, if you are a muslim woman, in love with a non-muslim man, and you believe in your religion so fanatically that you would rather lose your man than your religion, then you must believe in your religion enough to know that you should not "be" with a non-muslim man in the first place. Additionally, if you allow yourself to be blinded by a religion that would "prevent" you from being with the man you love, then you don't deserve to have a good man in the first place. Bottom line: Religion, race, ethnicity or political party affiliation should NEVER be a reason to prevent two people in love to be apart. If it is, then at least one of the people in the relationship is not being honest with themselves. To ask someone you supposedly love to have an unfulfilled relationship is not love, it's sadistic control.
2007-06-29 01:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two people love each other they can compromise. If religion is the issue then they would have to find out a way to make their love work. Even if it means moving away and putting distance between the angry religious parents.
I don't think either should have to change religions just for the relationship. I know many Christians and Jews that marry, My girlfriend is Mormon and I am not.
They just have to find a way to make it work.
2007-06-23 00:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have written is a loaded question. That is you really just want someone to say that he should give up his future chance at a real intimate relationship, marriage and children just to hang around you. The truth is that my answer is that it would be best for him to move on to someone that is truly avaiable for a real future. If you truly care about this man you should help him move on as well. But as I can see by your loaded question that is very likely not going to happen. Please think about it why do you want to ruin this mans chance of having a normal healthy relationship with a women by having him just be a basically a "thing" for you to toy with. As you stated he has no chance of marrying you thus no children or a imtimate type relationship.
2007-06-22 16:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by QCCP 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If they were really into eachother they would basically do anying for eachother. Its called true love.
2007-06-22 18:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by neru_1432 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think not only this guy, everybody whose in love, does what his/ her... girlie/ boylie wants from him..... the shock is, when the love is over and things are happened.
2007-06-29 17:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by black&white 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her then u will do what she wants
2007-06-22 17:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by bradley3d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋