boyfriend is a secretive liar?

Question

I hate how my boyfriend lies to me! like he told me there was a gwen stefani concert and i asked him how he knew and he said the radio...but it so happens that his sister went to it..( i knew inhis head he was thinking that she went..but he never tells me).. also..my bf went to the theatres with his sister and never told me about it..( i dont care if he goes out with sister, but he like lies to me about it).. half a year later i found tickets that he went to watch it and he said he didnt watch it with her..then i had to drag it out of him..and he sed he did.. it just makes me wonder what i was doing at that time and what he sed he was doing.. he knows im jealous of his sisters..so he tries to hide everything from me..but when i find out , i get even more mad.. i jsut want him to be honest firsthand.and he calls justin timberlake JT which he never did until his sister did.and i try to engage in convo so i sed i like him and he says what song do you know. like his sister better than me

him hanging out with his family wont start fights me with stupid. i said if he just tells me firsthand!!

Answer 1

This sounds like an unhealthy relationship.

Why would you want to continue to have a boyfriend you can't trust? If there is no trust, there is nothing.


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Answer 2

you're jealous of his sister?....lol....omg....ok, you must be really young so i'm going to tell you right now that in future relationships there will be way bigger problems then him not telling you how he heard about a gwen stefani concert.....and seriously, who cares what or why he calls justin timberlake anything.....if your getting mad about small stuff that happened a year and a half ago then you have no business being in a relationship....maybe you should just concentrate on being a kid while you can...now get off the computer and go watch hannah montana

Answer 3

Are his sisters up and about to get you or make their brother send you to the cleaners? If they aren't trying to tell their brother to split up with you and aren't hostile with you...then there doesn't seem to be any reason to be hostile or even jealous. He should've straightened you out long before today.. but it seems he doesn't want to hurt you (and by lying he thinks he isn't) but also wants to spend time with his sisters. You're trying to rob him of that indirectly because you've been jealous, and have probably made him feel it. It sucks, and you probably will hate this answer, but it's all both your fault and his. How it started, I wouldn't know, but the thing is.. You're jealous of his sisters when you probably shouldn't, and so because he can't understand it (maybe) and sees that he wants to spend time with his sisters too and doesn't see how that could be wrong, he finds that he has to lie to you. Do you understand? It makes you angrier, but haven't you stopped to think rationally about all of this? Give yourself some time to think about this. It'll also be hard to understand, and everyone makes mistakes, but this is something you have to think about. Maybe you started becoming jealous after he started lying.. but right now.. you have to face the fact that they are his sisters, and you can either live with it, or go find a boyfriend who doesn't have sisters. You've put him in a tight spot, and you put yourself in a tight spot as well. If you can't make amends regarding this matter.. it could get worse. Reflect on this, if you want. Ball's in your court.

Answer 4

jealous of his sisters? what the hell is your problem? It isn't like he is cheating on you - if him spending time with family members is always going to cause a fight with you, then I can understand why he lies to you about it.

Get some therapy for your insecurites...being jealous of someone's sisters is rediculous.

Answer 5

What the hell is your issue!? It is HIS SISTER! Why do you want to win here? men HATE when girls compete. And she is family. Watch out.