my friend and i were swiming in her pool the other day and after we got out we had change and i couldnt find my pants. so i ask her to help me look for them and i was wearing my only pair of tightywhities so you could sort of see my stuff. while looking for my pants i was telling her how i was nervious about my upcoming physical. because i have a female doctor she said "would you be less nervious if i gave you one first?" i thought she was just joking so i laughted and said no and then she cupped my balls though my underwear and then pulled down my underwear and grabbed my stuff and laughed and the told me to cough. then she walked away and i eventually pulled up my underwear and kinda giggled but i really felt violated. so was it a joke or not and wat should i do? Were really close friends she's almost like my sister and weve seen eachother nude b4 but never any thing like this
2007-06-23 16:21:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all how old is she, and how old are you. If shes your friend and she is doing that then she wants to be more than your friend. If you feel violated talk to her tell her how you feel, and what her intentions are. Maybe you might even have feelings for each other. Hope that helps. And remember by talking to someone really helps, I should know, i go to a head shrink once a month.
2007-06-23 16:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Blackjack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably doesn't mean anything more than that she is more at ease with the human body than you. Its not a bad thing. In fact, I think its rather healthy. Still, your feelings are what they are. No one should touch you in a way that makes you feel inappropriate. You, too, have the right to say "no". Either that or just make a point of always knowing where your pants are. In the meantime, try not to freak over this little innocent touching.
2007-06-23 23:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some things even best friends don't do; I'm pretty sure she wouldn't like it if you did something like that to her, she'll feel exactly like you, unless she's been wanting something more of your friendship.
Either way, you should find the right time to talk to her about it and just be honest how that made you feel. Honesty is a key factor for any kind of relationship.
2007-06-23 23:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lulu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since youve seen eachother naked b4 it sounds like you guys are realy realy close friends. shes just joking but you should still tell how it felt and ask how it would feel if you did something like that. she will understand. you should sit down and think about how it made you feel. ask yourself: did i blow this out of proprtion? did she do it in a sexual or joking manner? why did she do this? realy ecess the situation and then talk to her about it
2007-06-24 12:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by patsfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor and have the physical. When you get done tell her she did it wrong and then show her how it was done on her body. Then you will see by her reaction what was meant when she did it to you.
2007-06-23 23:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by Krysta M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sound like a violation to me you dnt sound like i liked it either id say most women would not go there unless she is a perv or really likes you or horny lol anyways you should talk to her and see whats really goin on
2007-06-23 23:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by arg314 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly a joke.
write her a note asking her to never cup your balls again.
2007-06-23 23:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants to see some action. If you know what I mean.
2007-06-23 23:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by yopude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just having fun lighten up. buy a pair of swim truncks. she sounds like fun. go for it guy.
2007-06-23 23:26:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude she likes you we sometimes have a wierd way or showing it but she is tottaly into you
2007-06-24 00:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by hotmama4727 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋