Ok this is really weird to me. I am 19 and I have a boyfriend of 3 months 2 weeks and 2 days now. Well I have only seen him ONE time so far cuz its a LDR(1hr and 10mins away) and he works all the time. Well I went to my aunts house tonight and there was a guy there. Well my aunt said there's you a bf and she knows I have a bf but she doesnt like him cuz he cant find "time" for me. Then she told me theres another guy she wants me to meet. Well I cant decide if I want to do that because I have someone. But 2 of my aunts told me that the guys the want me to meet are nice and are good guys. I am only 19 and know it is not time to settle down but I dont know what to do really. I dont know if I should meet the other guy or if I should just forget anything even happened. My friend thinks that my bf is playing me and he said hes not, but I dont know
What do you think?
2007-06-26 20:34:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What is the harm in meeting the other guys? You might mett Mr. Right!! Who knows!!
2007-06-26 20:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just meet the 2 new guys. You dont have to make a decision. You may not like either of them, then again you may. and if you do the problem of this long distant bf that you have 'seen once' will be instantly over. Doesnt sound like he is making much of an effort for you. I would be inclined to dump him anyway. Whether you like the other guys or not. Doesnt sound healthy and will only mess your mind up.... Young people seem to think they are abnormal if they dont have a boyfriend.... boyfriends are overrated, and you can have SO much more fun without them.....
2007-06-27 04:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT commited to your current guy and it is ok to meet new people and if things go good then you can dump the old guy for the new guy. If he cannot find time for you then he is not in the relationship as much as you are. I know this from personal experince my ex didnt like driving the 45 min to see me but it was perfectly ok for me to drive the 45 min to see him :-S it is hard but you are better off in the end.
2007-06-27 03:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by Meggers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋