Other - Family & Relationships - 28 June 2007

my sisters the first one(A) and the second one(B).
they have not speak to each other for 4-5 years. now they are married and both of them have only one kid at the moment. they fight bcoz A have been treat B like s h i t from what i heard. but i know that A want to make the thing ok again. last month my dad try to make the thing right but my 4th sister said this is not the time. bcoz B baby is only 7 month and already have a heart cancer. and at that time A is still pregnent. u know how pregnent women like when they pregnent. so now yesterday A already deliver the baby. the thing is i want both of them to start talking. but i dont know how coz B will never 4get how A treat her when she is young. and my dad is having lots of health problem. he want to see A and B starts to talk and being nice to each other. what can i do to make things right. i dont want both of them to regret if my dad pased away. i need u guys to me a way to solve this problem.

2007-06-28 22:22:52 · 1 answers · asked by cobtasya 1

my fiance wants us to live with is parents after marriage and no is not an option. theyre loud, crass and quarrelsome. im not accustomed to that but he says illget there in time. his mom embarrases me in front ppl and then cries if he mentions it to her.He ends up feeling bad and telling me i need to understand and i should love them no matter what. I cant love pplwho insult and shout and demean and who continue to convince him that marrying me is a bad idea ( only cos my personality is dfferent from theirs). Ive tried telling him but hes caught between pleasing his parents and having a love marriage. I willbe working but living on our own can never happen according to him. Imall for taking care of ones parents, but i cant live 24/7 with that tension and humiliation, nor do i want to be 'accostumed'to that in time.

2007-06-28 20:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by tari 1

she was easy to get, slept with guys (her 3 ex bf) from first few dates, slept around with 3 guys (as far as i know), she used to drink heavly, smoke weed...have sex, in her college days, but she says that she changed and she love me only now, and want to be with me only.., later that day i was confused if she totaly loves me or for fun only, i told her that lets go check in some motel have sex, and i send u back later, she got offended and she said, "ur my bf, and i will feel like.....", and i said "*****", then i told her "sorry ur my gf, i love u, and i dont want you to feel that way", does that assure me that she is not sluty after all, and she really changed?, does she really love me?, is she fit to be my gf after all, can i fall in love with her?,bcz i really wanna be with her, shall i give her a chance to show that she really changed?

2007-06-28 19:52:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I check my credit card statement to find out my 19 year old daughter, who I am supporting through college, has charged on my Visa $600 worth of luxury items, without my or my wife's permission. This has got me really ticked off. Yes, she is spoiled, but I don't expect her to commit acts of credit card theft like this. I am thinking maybe it would be good to dish her some tough love and actually press charges. The police would come and she would have a criminal record, but maybe in the long run, this might turn out to have been the right thing for her. What do you think? Only parents who have had a similar experience answer, please.

2007-06-28 19:20:46 · 7 answers · asked by Robert T 4

how much trouble can a 17 yr old get in for having sex with a 15 year old. if theyve been dating for 6 months. 3 of those months he's been 17. can the law really do that much?
my friend said,
FRIEND: there is loopholes in the system
ME: like what
FRIEND: i bet you anytihng if he presses charges there going to tell him to controll his daughter himself
ME: what if that doesnt happen, what if he goes to jail
FRIEND: there not going to prosecute a 17 year old for ******* a 15 year old
FRIEND: it just doesnt happen
ME: how can you be sure
FRIEND: becasue this has been going on since the begining of time


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2007-06-28 19:19:48 · 14 answers · asked by bodhi_darmha 1

well right now i'm staying w/ my sister 4 the summer... and she lets me go out w/ my bf and my curfew is 12(midnite) well i got home at lk 11:40 or somewhere around there. she came out her room and asked me where did we go and i said 2 the mall and 2 his house 2 watch a movie. and then she gave me lk a weird look and said well u sure are happy and she started kinda lk imitating how i was talking and stuff. can't i just be happy or do i have 2 come home all sad? it gets me sad b/c it's lk 4 my family if anybody comes home happy after being w/ their boyfriend they think ur having sex. and i just get tired of it somethimes. plz help!

2007-06-28 19:18:52 · 13 answers · asked by I love my baby[11/11/06]!!!!!!! 1

Okay my girlfriend went out of town for this week. So we planned to do something on the 5th.. First we would go bowling.. But we want to spend some time alone after that.. My thoughts are either a park or go to the lake.. I also have the idea of going on a private sunset sail on the lake.. What are your ideas about this?

2007-06-28 19:00:58 · 11 answers · asked by Jew_Fro 3

Im 16 and I told my mom that I had sex.... I told her that when It happened that he went in a little bit and it hurt so I told him that I wanted to stop and he said, "Its ok carly" and later he told me that we dont have to do this again til we get 3 or 4 years later, when I'am ready. We have been going out for 2 years. My mom said that she really likes my boyfrien and she nows that we really love each other and she said that she is dissapointed in me but, then she started to educate me more and she said that if we are together in 2 or 3 more years and we thought about doing this that she would make sure that we are protected... What did your parents do or if you are a parent what did you do?

2007-06-28 18:28:16 · 3 answers · asked by Carly T 2

my sister who is 11 and i am 14 so isnt it obvious that i should be the alpha???? she doesnt respect me like i do her everytime she does something i get in trouble and my parents take her side no matter what .she is rude and disrespectful to most of my friends and all the ones that dont believe me thats shes a evil little wench, they think she is a sweet angel. she acts all innocent around my firends and tells her friends that i am mean and rude.we'll get along a little bit and the next day we will be fighting for something that she started. i ll come into her room looking for something and not other her at all and she will shove me out of her room and start yelling at me but when she comes into my room i ask her to leave and ill get the item she wants but she just look though my stuff withous permission and ignore me when i try to shove her out and yell she refuses. when i try to talk to her she ignores me and says that all of that is my fault and my parents dont even care

2007-06-28 18:23:44 · 4 answers · asked by Sydney 3

I've been in an on again-off again relationship w/someone who has cheated on me several times. Each time I caught him red handed and he tried denying and deflecting each time. After that didn't work, he told me how sorry he was and that he couldn't live w/o me and he couldn't believe he was so stupid in a weak moment and it would never happen again...for me to please give him one "last" chance. Each time I've gone back to him, thinking he could/would change. Other than his cheating, he was the ideal boyfriend and treated me very well. caught him and broke up with him (again) a week ago and he's pulling all the same tactics w/me again. I want to be strong this time and get out for good. I know this isn't healthy and he'll probably just do it again, and because even if he never cheated again, I don't think I could ever trust him because of past transgressions. I feel weak though and want some self-help tips to get me through and please be careful not to judge...I'm not stupid, just hurt

2007-06-28 18:17:53 · 6 answers · asked by tenayaledeux00 3

Before you go on a rant how my dad loves me, he started a company ( a few years ago and has been all into that and hasn't talked to me with a real conversation ever, like ever. Before that he always went to the bar and now he get's stressed and drinks and get's drunk and i've tried to talk to him about it but like he just threatens me and we get into fights normally ending in physical fighting but that's another story and don't say call the cops because it's not an answer what I need to know because I've tried to build a life and a relationship with him but he always using me and drops me later, I've tried to just sit down and talk to him but he just ignores me and throws it all to the side, what should I do? I've tried too many times to count and now it's gotten to the point where I'm either going to give him one more shot to be in my life or just tell him don't bother, what should I do? My g/f hates to see me and him like this but I know that if I give him another chance, he will dro

2007-06-28 18:17:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a christian girl, who likes a mormon boy, who likes me back. I want to save myself for marriage and I think mormons have to do the same. Even though I'm not a mormon girl, do you think it can still work out?

2007-06-28 18:01:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

You think now you are so special and older people so dumb because of their lack of technology but I think it is going to boomerang on you because when your kids get to be teens, technology is changing at light speed and you won;t have a clue what they are doing, just like you look at older people today huh ?>

2007-06-28 17:20:45 · 1 answers · asked by I Love Jesus 5

Would a cell phone make a diffrence depending on the style and brand of the cell phone? Like for a example who would your rather go out with a guy that has a regular R-zar Motorola phone or the guy with the high tech Black berry phone?

2007-06-28 17:06:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would say 1) Confidence 2) Etiquette and 3) Self-Reliance.

What are your picks?

2007-06-28 17:06:22 · 9 answers · asked by SloBoMo 5

ok i have been engaged with this guy, we were having some issues on how i'm dealing with his son. we couldnt work it out so we broke up. for like 3 days. on the day i was going to come over to talk to him his daughter called me and told me to hurry up and come over cause his exwife(the boy's mom) was there!! so i came over and found out that since i broke up with him she broke up with her husband. and she had earlier told him she would divorce her husband to marry my guy. AGAIN. me and him are back together but how am i suppose to deal with her if she keeps saying stuff like that to him he said if we were broken up for good he WOULD get back with her. i have a 6 mo old not by him but he is the only father my son will ever know so i cant just up and leave and i dont have a job cause he told me i didnt have to work if i didnt want to. PLEASE HELP I NEED ADVISE QUICK!!

2007-06-28 17:03:26 · 6 answers · asked by jennifer m 1

He is my step-son and he's 18 years old now. I know he has been peeking in my bedroom late at nite when I am laying in bed asleep and also noticed several times that he will peek into the bath when I am taking a warm bath or a shower. He always massturbates when doing this, and on more than one occasion while we are watching television, I have noticed him looking out of the corner of his eyes at me, and its obvious that he has an erection under his shorts. I dont know how I should approach him about this.

2007-06-28 16:15:57 · 3 answers · asked by justa_typical_mom 1

Connecting with Your Kids: Strategies for Tough Conversations
A BIG CHALLENGE 4 PARENTS!

2007-06-28 15:21:06 · 8 answers · asked by ashcass0306 2

Im 16 and im in a boy scout troop. there is this one boy in my troop who is 11 and is constantly following me around. while we were at sumnmer camp which is a 7 day program, he would take every chance he could to try to sit next to me during meal times or other activities. he would sometimes wait outside the shower for me to come out. during the campfire ceremony he tried to rest his head on my shoulder even thoug his dad was on his other side. one of my piers suggest that he respects me. I dont think it is like that

I cant tell him to just leave me alone because he already knows that generaly, i dont like Rednecks as he is one. though i have no problem with that personaly. but if i did he would think it is 4 that reason. Since this is a scouting enviorment, I cant let that happen without concequence. and i cant use violence.

P.S. He thinks he is real and a "G" but he really is a redneck. he aint that bad of a actor thoug.

2007-06-28 15:10:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

cause i dont know any

2007-06-28 12:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by silvia 1

my name is sarah
I am but three,
My eyes are swollen
I cannot see,
I must be stupid
I must be bad,
What else could have made
My daddy so mad?
I wish I were better
I wish I weren't ugly,
Then maybe my mommy
Would still want to hug me.
I can't speak at all
I can't do a wrong
Or else I'm locked up
All the day long
When I awake I'm all alone
The house is dark
My folks aren't home.
When my mommy does come
I'll try and be nice,
So maybe I'll get just
One whipping tonight
Don't make a sound!
I just heard a car
My daddy is back
From Charlie's Bar.
I hear him curse
My name he calls
I press myself
Against the wall.
I try and hide
From his evil eyes
I'm so afraid now
I'm starting to cry.
He finds me weeping
He shouts ugly words,
He says its my fault
That he suffers at work.
He slaps me and hits me
And yells at me more,
I finally get free
And I run for the door.
He's already locked it
And I start to bawl,
He takes me and throws me
Against the hard wall.
I fall to the floor
With my bones nearly broken,
And my daddy continues
With more bad words spoken.
"I'm sorry!", I scream
But its now much too late
His face has been twisted
Into unimaginable hate.
The hurt and the pain
Again and again
Oh please God, have mercy!
Oh please let it end!
And he finally stops
And heads for the door,
While I lay there motionless
Sprawled on the floor.
My name is Sarah
And I am but three,
Tonight my daddy
Murdered me.

There was once alittle girl named Chelsey Mcaun. She was killed in1933, by a homicidal maniac who buried her alive while chanting a satanic chant.Those were the words spoken

2007-06-28 12:07:45 · 10 answers · asked by araya11saphire 2

i already sent an apology letter...anything else? i feel realli bad about it..is thr anyway to stop a letter once its been sent?

2007-06-28 11:45:05 · 7 answers · asked by atg143 2

He still lives with me and does things when he feels like it like cleaning his room.and doing other chores.

2007-06-28 11:22:04 · 30 answers · asked by missinpieces2myheart 2

There is a milionaire who I work with who likes me. Problem is I'm married and would NEVER cheat on my husband. He has offered to pay us a huge amount of money for me to be with him on his birthday. Should I accept? I like him and would probably go out with him if I weren't married. I love my husband and would never leave him. We could really used the money....

2007-06-28 10:36:58 · 57 answers · asked by jenush 2

i mean, we all know how it works out. but does it ever really happen??

2007-06-28 09:57:38 · 22 answers · asked by isha_lvr 1

What's with all the questions?
My therapist seems to ask me many personal questions. Of course it is his job because he is helping me to sort out some things in my life. But questions about my sex life such as when was the last time I had sex and what my conversations are about when I talk to men. He wants to know too many specifics such as where I met the guy and what street I was on when I met him. My phone rings while I'm in a session with him and he wants to know if the caller is male or female. What type of craziness is that? Anyway am I just being paranoid? He claims its his job and he's concerned but I think he's too nosy. I mean it shouldn't matter who I talk to, what I talk about with them and my sex life either. As long as it's not hurting me mentally it should not be his concern. Is he nosy or just CRAZY?

2007-06-28 08:45:31 · 7 answers · asked by Heaven26 3

My exboyfriend, his new girlfriend, and myself have a "stalker" i am almost positive it is her and she is making all this up to make him hate me (bc were still friends) how can i proove it is her? by the way the new girlfriend lives 1000 miles away from me nad my ex

2007-06-28 06:57:39 · 8 answers · asked by Brittany 1

email me and ill try n get a pic for ya but for now just to describe it on here for ya

right eye: outside to in black, grey, orange, yellowish, brown and it gets more and more green to the center

left eye: all of those colors except not as much yellow and where the green would be....half is green and the other side of the across from is is blue so like a half n half.

anyways i say its a curse because everyone you meet for the first time says nice eyes which is cool but then they want to talk about it for like 10 freaking minutes. i meet new people every day at work(like most of us do)

and even worse like 5 times a week i get the one corny male who says hmmmm the milkman must of paid a visit.

i think to myself okay who uses milkman? at least say the dtv or verizon man or pg&e.

and i get that comment alot because im mexican american so i got that nice brown tan brown hair so to see a mexican with color eyes always brings out the corny jokes.

2007-06-28 06:49:01 · 14 answers · asked by mannyg2199 4

How can I show a girl I love her , I can like this girl from school and she ask me out and I think she liked me to cause she used to look at me cross the class room till this boy went out with her then I got too over Jealous and I did alot of bad things to them because they use to stand outside my house waiting for me to come home from school so i can watch them kiss which hurted me alot and turn me abit ill and went under dispress, then everthing went to court and I won then 7 years later we both walk each others way and both of us just stop looking at each other in the eyes as her new bf got hold of her hand and walked past me which i'm still Jealous but we never gived each other a bad look like before . why am I still so Jealous and why do I cry for her and think of her, how can I make it up to her and to win her heart I don't want to hurt her no more I want to make her better what can I do I care so much about her

2007-06-28 06:35:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a girl. I like art stuff, but I don't want art stuff. I want something electronic and it has to be under 60 dollars. I already have an mp3 player so what should I ask for?

2007-06-28 06:16:13 · 7 answers · asked by Another Emily 2