What's with all the questions?
My therapist seems to ask me many personal questions. Of course it is his job because he is helping me to sort out some things in my life. But questions about my sex life such as when was the last time I had sex and what my conversations are about when I talk to men. He wants to know too many specifics such as where I met the guy and what street I was on when I met him. My phone rings while I'm in a session with him and he wants to know if the caller is male or female. What type of craziness is that? Anyway am I just being paranoid? He claims its his job and he's concerned but I think he's too nosy. I mean it shouldn't matter who I talk to, what I talk about with them and my sex life either. As long as it's not hurting me mentally it should not be his concern. Is he nosy or just CRAZY?
2007-06-28 08:45:31 · 7 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Also I am not seeing him for any sex related issue. He is actually my psychiatrist/psychotherapist. I initially began seeing him for my depression.
2007-06-28 08:45:48 · update #1
I can certainly understand the pain you are going through. Its quite obvious since you basically asked the same question 3x. My best advice to you is once you get your next med appt, go and get your scripts for your meds, and change your doctor/therapist. This really seems to be bothering you! I am so sorry.
Good luck and take care of you!
2007-06-28 09:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would look into a new doctor. At your next session - feel free to speak up - tell him that your depression issues have nothing to do with your sex life and that is not why you are there. If he doesn't stop the questions - drop him.
2007-07-05 21:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by geminijeanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is doing his job..you should have research "psychoanalyst" before you got to where u r now.. NO he is not crazy nor nosy..now you sound paranoid..hmmmm
2007-07-06 15:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to help you he is probably trying to see what is triggering your depression. He is just doing his job. Its not like he is going to tell anyone else about your personal matters.
2007-06-28 16:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it feels wrong...you're right!
Listen to your intuition, this therapist has blurred boundaries. Fire him.
2007-07-06 00:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by PhD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he's a therapist that's what he's suppose 2 do.
2007-06-29 14:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mizz Flii U Kno 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds as if he is really tring to help you
2007-07-04 06:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋